Signs of cheating on husband

Do men change everything? Statistics is ruthless - 80%! At the same time, someone has fleeting connections on vacation, on a business trip, or at a random party. But we are more interested in long-term relationships that can lead to irreversible consequences. When an unsuspecting woman suddenly faces the threat of divorce. According to sociologists, only 25% of wives realize their spouse is unfaithful. The topic of the article is signs of a husband’s infidelity, which should be noted.

We ponder: do we need to know about this?

Harmonious marriage implies an emotional-trusting relationship between spouses. It is difficult to step over men's actions that destroy the psychological atmosphere of intimacy created over the years: damage to the family budget, revealing a sexually transmitted disease, or telling a partner about a desire for a divorce.

Which speaks in favor of the fact that you should understand the signs of a husband’s betrayal, and not turn into an ostrich, hiding his head in the sand:

• Reluctance to face a fact that has irreversible consequences (the birth of an illegitimate child, love for another woman, etc.).
• The way out of the state of frustration, for the first sign of the husband’s betrayal is unmotivated anxiety that arises in the second half and often seems completely groundless.
• Understanding that the presence of infidelity indicates the emergence of problems between spouses and the need to revise the relationship.

The third point is fundamental. A simple desire to convict a husband over time can lead to a breakdown, because it is difficult for a person to constantly live with guilt. He will begin to justify himself and look for the reasons for his behavior in the imperfection of his wife. That is why, intuitively, some women do not seek to know the truth.

They just don’t know what to do with it. Let’s try to perceive the situation not as a tragedy, but as a guide to rethinking what is happening, the most important life lesson from which we can draw the right conclusions.

Attitude to appearance

We turn to the answer to the question of how to determine the betrayal of her husband. Signs will be displayed in subtitles, but we pay attention to the following: they work if they indicate changes that have occurred.

If the spouse has always been metrosexual and carefully monitored her appearance, it is unlikely that a woman should be surprised that he often changes hairstyles and follows fashion trends, wears high-quality underwear and uses perfume. And if he led a different lifestyle?

The wife bought designer shirts, fashionable trousers and toilet water for her husband, and all these things were gathering dust on the shelves because he preferred a democratic style and did not care about exhaling a pleasant smell. What was to happen so that he began to relate to his principles differently? His t-shirts and jeans were on the shelf, and trousers and shirts were used?

He explains that he has matured, received a promotion or entered a dress code in the service. It is possible if this change in his behavior is the only one, and if not?

Wedding ring

We do not take into account couples where, initially, the attitude towards this symbol of marriage was indifferent for both. Women will be surprised, but for men, the ring is a matter of pride. With his help, he demonstrates that he is satisfied with family life and encourages others to recognize him as a person who can make the right choice.

Women sometimes stop wearing the ring when their fingers swell or size changes. For example, during pregnancy. If the man is happy, he will not do this, even if the ring begins to slightly press. He will remove it only when marriage ceases to be a matter of pride and there is one for which the absence of a ring on his right hand is important. Listing the signs of a husband’s infidelity, it should be recognized - this is one of the most important.

The removed ring should alert. Whatever the spouse explains. He can say that he has lost weight, and it falls off; it can be easily damaged during fishing, etc. You can try to replace the ring and choose the right one in size, but after a certain time it will appear in the box. Or under any circumstances it will be lost.

Attitude to money

For a romance on the side, spending is needed, but this does not mean at all that the family budget will be tearing apart. It is necessary to pay attention to the attitude of the spouse to money. Signs of a husband’s betrayal are a desire to have their own money and to control their own expenses. It all depends on who previously managed the family budget.

• If the main purchases at home were made by the wife, and she was free to use her husband's card, then the changes will become especially noticeable. A woman will gradually lose such an opportunity so as not to have access to information about how much is withdrawn by her husband. Any metamorphosis can occur with the card, up to the loss and “illegal” write-off of funds.
• If a man allocated certain amounts for family needs, leaving himself gasoline, car repairs and personal expenses, then it is possible that the contribution to the family budget may be reduced. The reasons for this may be different: malfunctions with the car, lower salaries, etc.
• If both spouses work in the family and each manages money independently, they still have to invest in a child and spend joint expenses on the purchase of things. Changing a man, the additional expenses will simply begin to annoy, he will dispute their expediency.

Sex life

An intimate life should be analyzed to answer the question of how to recognize a husband’s betrayal. Signs of adultery are a transformation of sexual behavior. Two options are possible here:

1. The frequency of sex has not changed and even increased, but at the same time the spouse offers new techniques and positions, expresses desires that he had not voiced before. This may indicate the receipt of new ideas on the side.
2. Loss of interest in intimate life, lack of personal initiative during sex. A man either tries to fall asleep earlier, citing fatigue, or complains of stress at work. A healthy man needs sex, so excuses are an obvious satisfaction outside marriage.

If an examination revealed a woman’s gynecologist’s infection, one should not believe in the tales that the husband had visited a dubious pool or had unsuccessfully washed himself in a bathhouse. This is one hundred percent confirmation of his betrayal.

Distance from family

What other signs of a husband’s betrayal of behavior exist? How to know for sure that another appeared in his life? Detached from family affairs and reduced time spent at home.

Any sharp change in employment at work should be alarming. Especially if the wife is far from his occupation. A man may declare that his new schedule requires an exit on the weekend, or he must stay in the office until late. This may be a real fact, but if delays become a system, then there is reason to think. Avrali at work are not permanent. Should appear questions and business trips that did not exist before.

But not only work “drives” a man from home. The former homebody suddenly begins to meet regularly with friends, more often to show a desire to visit his parents to help them with the housework. The need to break out of the house without children and spouses becomes obvious, which was not observed earlier.

Attitude to wife

What does psychology say about the signs of adultery? How is this manifested in relation to the wife?

It all depends on who the spouse blames for what happened. If he is, then he becomes more attentive and affectionate to his wife, trying to predict her wishes: gives gifts, brews coffee in the morning, more often hugs.

If it is, then it becomes more picky and demanding, calling it a slut or wasteful mistress. He is always dissatisfied with the appearance of his wife, the manner of dressing, the education of her children.

But more often a man is given sharp mood swings. He either seeks an excuse to make a scandal and leaves, slamming the door loudly, then begins to be interested in answering the question of whether his wife is happy with him, what feelings she has.

New habits

There are other signs of husband cheating in behavior. For example, abandonment of old habits and the emergence of new ones. This may relate to musical tastes, for example. Previously, a man listened exclusively to rock songs, but then suddenly began to listen to romances or tracks of specific pop artists. Surely this music evokes pleasant memories or associations in him.

It should be alerted if a man has new words, intonations in his voice or manner. If he began to build his day in a different way, refuse late dinners, for example, although earlier this was the norm. The emergence of new food addictions is also quite surprising. If the husband asks to cook a specific dish that has never appeared at the family table, this may be the influence of another woman.

Telephone communication

With the advent of mobile phones, people can be in touch around the clock, using not only calls, but also numerous applications. How to find out that a husband is cheating? Signs of treason lie on the surface. Spouse's attitude to the phone will tell a lot. If before he could easily forget it at home or just leave it on the table, now he keeps it with him constantly.

It should be alerted if the spouse turns off the phone, being on the doorstep of the apartment. Or, on the contrary, constantly writes or receives messages, referring to business contacts. His manner of speaking is capable of telling a lot. If he seeks to leave the room during the dialogue, going to the kitchen or bathroom, while lowering his voice so that it is impossible to make out words, this indicates a lot. It is unlikely that his subscriber is someone from the family's common acquaintances.

Sudden internet addiction

Men are lovers of playing video games. Most people use a computer for these purposes. Although there are professions for which a laptop is a tool. Signs of a husband’s infidelity in behavior are associated with abrupt changes in the relationship with the computer. If a man significantly increased the time spent on the Internet, this should cause some concern.

It is very easy to communicate with your mistress directly from your own apartment through social networks or by e-mail. In this case, the man will probably set a password on his account or desktop. If instead of watching an action movie on TV with his family in the evening, which was preferred earlier, he is left alone in the computer room, which means that he will be held back by stronger motivation.

By the way, today you can change your spouse without leaving your own apartment, doing virtual. What is the need for a man to spend nights at the computer, taking time away from sleep?

Direct instructions

It should be understood: the presence of one sign is only an assumption that requires reflection. How to find out a husband’s betrayal? There should be several signs.

Add to those listed those that also directly indicate possible infidelity:

• A change in the relationship of spouse's close friends to his wife. The emergence of elements of empathy and concern.
• A subtle change in the smell that appears due to prolonged communication with another woman.
• The presence of presents that are attributed to colleagues and acquaintances, which was not there before.
• Traces of lipstick, the smell of perfume, women's hair on a jacket, etc.

We started with the fact that the main sign is the appearance of general discomfort, which a woman in the family begins to experience. Intuition suggests a problem. And a lie, even in small things, makes it real. Now the wife has a difficult task - to properly dispose of the information received.