Raising a child in the family is the most responsible adult job. Good moms and dads are not born, they become. But everything is not as simple as it seems at first glance.
The formation of personality from an early age
From the youngest years, the child grows, develops and adopts the behavior model of his parents. Our child perceives a good or bad example as a positive experience and tries to match the image of his family. Sometimes everything happens the other way around. The child analyzes the situation and his situation, and then decides not to be like a father or mother. For example, if parents smoke or abuse alcohol, not to mention drugs. Grandparents, sisters, brothers - this is also a favorable environment in which the upbringing of a child in the family is realized.
Good tales, intimate conversations with the baby, interesting and exciting stories, where the household members act as the main characters, favorably influence his inner world, help him perceive the environment, and develop imagination. In addition, you can draw, read books together, and write fairy tales too. This will help to unite the family, the child will feel himself a necessary and important part of it.
How to deal with a problem child?
Raising a child in a family is not only holidays. As in war, you need to be prepared for everything. After all, a child, although small, is a person with his own shortcomings, often complexes and a bad mood. It is important to consider these factors. The main weapon is Love. You need to give it a lot, but in return you will receive it even more. It’s hard to raise your child, and it’s even more difficult for someone else’s. Therefore, raising children in a foster family is a responsible task. Not everyone can handle it.
Raising a child in a family consists of several aspects:
· Attention;
· Labor;
· Communication;
· Praise.
Dear moms and dads, do not forget to take into account these features of raising a child in the family. In this case, you must act together, developing a common line of behavior. After all, your child feels and understands everything. And in the worst case scenario, the child will no longer listen to the parents, they will feel their weakness.
Also, be sure to determine what type of temperament your child belongs to. After all, some children are very mobile, funny and inquisitive (sanguine type). Others are touchy and cry (melancholy type), angry, screaming, nervous (choleric type) or slow in their actions and thoughts (phlegmatic type). You need to be very careful not to injure the baby.
Useful Occupational Therapy
Labor brings up. This has already been verified-rechecked. The child, having collected his toys himself, will no longer scatter them all over the room the next time. In addition, he develops responsibility for his actions. It is also recommended to pay attention to the child. It should not be very much, because it interferes with the development of independence, but its lack also causes the child a sense of inferiority, loneliness.
Communicating with the child, the parents open their hearts to him, and using praise in their upbringing, support their own blood, develop in it love for creativity, hard work, and confidence.
All problems begin in childhood. Remember this!