There is such an expression: a man needs a man. What does it mean? Why does a man need people? Is it really impossible to do without them? Consider all this in more detail.
People
They surround us everywhere: in the entrance, on the street, in the store, at work / study, in hospitals, etc. So, the topic of today's article is: who are they, why can’t you live without them, and why do people need people?
Probably, each of us at least once in our life wondered why we, in fact, live, what is the meaning of life, etc. People are our environment, we are used to seeing people around us, and nevertheless, sooner or later the question of why they (and therefore we) are needed. And the answer is this: we are social beings, therefore we cannot be alone. Someone is always near or almost next to us, be it a mother or a frequent neighbor on the landing. And it’s normal, it’s natural.
We need people for:
- communication;
- transactions (for example, in stores);
- making love (physiology is an important thing);
- mutual assistance;
- for an incentive to become smarter, more interesting, more beautiful;
- for a fulfilling life, after all.
Of course, these are not all options, but still the most common. The different branches of communication with people are discussed below.
Relations
Anyone who asks the question "why do you need a loved one", most likely either never really fell in love for real, or has little experience communicating with the opposite sex. Or, on the contrary, experience is available, but, unfortunately, negative.
The relationship between a man and a woman is one of the important aspects of life. Friends and family mean a lot, but they are not able to help feel, thrill and excitement before a date. Just as they can not replace kisses, sex and much more. There are exceptions, but they can hardly be called a generally accepted norm.
A loved one is able to calm when the nerves are at the limit, with one touch; nullify any quarrel striving to develop into a full-fledged scandal, using sex or other methods; make it clear to the person that he can be loved, and prove it daily ... You can continue for a long time. Only one thing is important: a loved one is needed, and certainly.
friendship
Who can support in difficult times? Who can I have a good time with? Who can be entrusted with their secrets, so as not to keep them heavy load in the shower? Of course, you can turn to a psychologist who will listen for your money and give advice, but that’s not it.
Everyone needs friends. Whoever says anything about the love of loneliness is in most cases a lie. Most often, people love only periodic loneliness. If they had to live for a month or two in the woods, in the wilderness, where there is not a single living soul, they would understand how they were mistaken about hostility towards people. At least minimal communication - it does not matter if it will be at work, on the Internet, with family members or bystanders - everyone needs.
Friends provide a person not with random conversations, but with sincere, funny, warm, close ones. What you cannot talk about with your parents, soulmate or stranger can be easily discussed with a friend, because it is with these people that there can be absolutely any topic for discussion.
Knowledge
We are taught in the slightest degree by parents and educators in kindergartens, we are forced to study in schools, then we have to enter a higher educational institution almost by force, and that’s only because we don’t pass for ignorance. Of course, not always, but more often. Nevertheless, why is man needed knowledge, few can answer. The task of teachers is to educate. And some people really wonder: "Why?"
To begin with, without knowledge, a person will be uninteresting, boring and stupid. From early childhood, people receive minimal information: what is an airplane, how to eat with a spoon and fork, how to determine time, how to count, write, and much more. Now let's imagine a situation when a person does not know anything at all. Well, we will leave basic skills like the ability to walk, eat and visit the toilet, but exclude all the knowledge that children are taught at school. What then? Just imagine a planet inhabited by illiterate, stupid, careless, lazy creatures. This is even worse than cavemen, these are generally unknown creatures that cannot do anything useful. Any planet inhabited by such creatures is doomed. As a rule, parasites are disposed of ...
People are required to receive knowledge. This will help someone to show themselves in a conversation from the best side, someone - to invent something new, someone - to fulfill the dream of a lifetime. A man without knowledge is not a man, this is an animal, or even worse. This is a dead end branch. We need to use what we have, namely, intelligence, reason.
A family
Friends and love are good, but there is another important part of any person’s life. A family. Most people have it since childhood, and also after the final growing up. So why does a person need a family and what place does it take in our lives?
Let's go back to childhood. Everything that the little ones did not understand, we asked the parents. They taught us everything and helped us become full members of society. Brothers and sisters became friends and saved from boredom in their free days. The children from orphanages failed to experience such happiness - most of them were abandoned as early as infancy, like a toy. Someone thought that the baby does not need a family, having forgotten how he once was a child.
Family is a huge support, without it people grow up completely different. Not always evil, rude and heartless, but still different. You should never forget about your family, your parents and other relatives. You need to understand that if serious trouble happens, everyone will deeply spit on you. Everyone except the parents. They always need you. The situation will be the same when you have your own children (if they are not already). Without a family, a person will experience incredible loneliness, which you will have to feel too sharply closer to old age.
Society
So, with close people like friends, loved ones and relatives, we figured it out. It is time to move on to more generalized concepts. So why does a person need a society? Is it possible to manage only those whom you trust and with whom you have been communicating for a long time, and not to contact others at all? The answer is clear: no!
Firstly, people do not always become friends or lovers for life, sometimes they have to leave. It is then that the lack of practice in communicating with others will affect. At first glance, everything seems simple, but in fact, getting used to certain people, a person trusts them so much that he is able to discuss anything. With other, unfamiliar personalities, this will not work. Too great are the chances of lack of topics for conversation, awkward pauses and quick partings.
Secondly, 90% of professions are somehow connected with people, and people are a society. Whether a person wants it or not, he needs to be able to contact with others.
Thirdly, it is society that can help cope with problems. Sometimes people are so compassionate that they send money for an operation to an unfamiliar child. What would a mother do otherwise? Did you watch her child die? And so - society helped her, the child survived, everyone is happy.
Fourthly, among the people around us, most often there are new friends and soul mates.
A life
So we come to one of the most important points. We have more or less understood why a person needs people, friends, family, loved ones, etc. And all this is really interesting. However, it remains to understand why a person needs life.
The question can be called philosophical, affecting not just existence, but the very meaning of it. The answer will not be long. You do not need to look for many answers, pondering why everything is happening, why do we need families, friends, loved ones and just people. We were born just to live. And you need to enjoy life, because it is not known what awaits us in the future. No one has proven the existence of other dimensions, paradise and hell, the so-called afterlife ... Let us assume that life is given to just live, enjoying every day, every moment.
Conclusion
That's all. Now you have at least a rough idea of why a person needs people and other elements of life, including life itself. Another thing is that each person has his own idea of certain things, and what one considers quite entertaining, the other will call complete absurdity.