Graduation Day is a special day for those who regularly attend this annual event. For some people, this event is even more important than the New Year or birthday. However, many people even prefer to ignore this date, despite constant invitations from former classmates. What is the reason for this attitude?
The fact that this evening is school friends it’s by no means a good old school party and by no means a good opportunity to remember youth. Graduation Day is a tough competition, and the more time has passed since graduation, the more stringent its rules become and the angrier its participants.
The thing is, in school all people are divided into groups, each of which has a strictly assigned social role. The school elite may not communicate with losers at all, and in the worst case, it comes to regular assault. But completely different rules and laws reign in the adult world, which means that the social status of former classmates is changing in the most striking way. School leaders may be at the very bottom of society, while former losers break through to the very top.
What can people who have come to school friends ’evening experience when they see that those whom they used to interfere with dirt today surpass them in all respects? Surely, they will try in every possible way to belittle such a person, maximally protruding their advantages, and there will be no end to such a struggle. Of course, we are not talking about fights, as in the old days, it will seem from the outside that the atmosphere of the feast is quite like at a party of best friends, but by veiled taunts and mockery it will be possible to understand that everything is by no means so rosy.
The situation, however, changes somewhat when a very successful person is in place of just a successful person . Imagine that a famous football coach, musician or politician came out of the most ordinary class of the most ordinary school. Then all school grievances will be forgotten, and from invitations such a person simply will not end. However, does the “star” herself want to participate in the party?
If this person was also a leader in school, then the evening of school friends, who will turn into a single-actor theater, will obviously be a success. On the other hand, if he endured mockery of classmates at school, he is unlikely to forgive them even after many years. A successful person does not need to assert himself in the old school company, and there is no point in seeing people unpleasant to him. So do not rush to incriminate the "stars" in arrogance, it is better to think about what attitude they themselves had during the school years.
Another detail to keep in mind when talking about an evening of school friends, - This is the relationship between the sexes. Almost every one of us, even the most successful in school days, left school love, which in those years was unattainable. And now there is a great opportunity to achieve the desired. After 10-20, or even 30 years, you can finally realize the dream, given that social roles have changed. But is it necessary? You can’t return school times, a person has long changed, and the pursuit of an elusive shadow can only tear apart old wounds.
There is no sense in not returning the past, but in fighting for what has long passed. This is why many people ignore graduate day. Instead of such a “party”, it is better to think over the scenario of the holiday among friends, real friends who have walked with you all your life, and go on a walk for fame. With real friends, you don’t need to pretend, you do not need to play the game “who, who is better”, you do not need to make sure not to miss the causticity. In such a company, you can truly relax and rest your soul, and let school history remain history.