Diverging is always difficult. Parting with a girl can permanently deprive you of peace. This happens if you felt affection or love for her.
To decide how to return the girl
after the breakup, remember who was the initiator of the breakup. If you insisted on it and now regret it, then you can easily restore everything. You will be quickly forgiven. But if the breakup with the girl happened because she said this first, forgiveness will be more difficult.
So, you behaved badly and gave her a reason to ask you to disappear from her life. But the breakup with the girl was not in vain for you, you think about her. If so, let's define what haunts you - affection or love. Attachment will soon pass, but love can torment life.
If two to four weeks have passed since the breakup and there were days in which you did not recall her,
it is attachment. Get ready for the fact that there will be more such days in each week. This means that you will end up breaking up with the girl calmly and will soon completely stop thinking about her.
If for two or three weeks you think daily about the one with whom you broke up, perhaps this is love.
Look inside yourself again. Close your eyes, imagine the face of the girl you want to return. Now ask yourself the question: "Why do I want to return it?". If you can’t immediately answer, then postpone the solution to the problem. The fact is that only one who is able to decide why he needs it has a chance to return the girl . The decision can be considered adopted when the answer to the question will consist of only one or two sentences.
After you decide to return it, do not immediately go ahead. If parting with a loved one can happen in one day, then it sometimes takes weeks to restore a relationship.
You will take the first steps to a truce in the virtual space. To get started, register under a different name in social networks, forums, chats and groups that the girl visited before breaking up with you. Registration should happen without your real photo. If you don’t want to lie, write your baby nickname and put your baby photo.
On the Internet you will have to meet your girlfriend again, get close to her and become the desired contact. When chatting, try to find out if she has a boyfriend. If there was, then why did they break up? You should hear her point of view about why the breakdown, whether she is ready to forgive you if she finds out that you still love her.
When chatting with a girl on the Internet, you should not force things. Take your time to bend. It is sometimes better to disagree with something and even argue. The purpose of your communication is not just rapprochement. You must understand and feel what your girlfriend felt at the time of breaking up. In other words, learn to think like her. If you succeed, then you are ready for a real meeting to ask for forgiveness.
Do not arrange a date until you are sure that the girl is dreaming of a meeting.
What to say and do next, decide for yourself. After all, you now have not just a girl, but a friend whom you understand and love.