Almost all girls by their nature are very shy and timid natures. And that is why in some situations it is difficult for them, especially in relations with guys, because they are not decided to take the first step. However, shyness is good in the case when next to you is a more arrogant partner who knows about your feelings and takes steps towards himself. But what about the young man who is also a little shy to communicate? Not everyone likes the expectation, therefore, every girl needs to know how to start a conversation first, what you can ask a guy and what is strictly forbidden.
This knowledge will help not only to be liberated, but also to attract the attention of a guy you like, since almost every man loves showing attention to his person. However, it should be noted that the tips that we offer below are completely not universal in all situations. And far from everyone, a situation is acceptable in which a girl asked a guy something first, and not vice versa. Therefore, all our advice applies only to liberated girls who want to learn how to behave in the company of a guy they like and want to attract his attention. We repeat that the advice on
what to ask a guy does not fit all occasions. Therefore, you, dear girls, need to clearly know what kind of person is in front of you and what exactly to tell him.
So, consider some questions to ask. For the guys there is a whole list of them. First, we give examples of mandatory topics:
- Interests and hobbies. This is the main category of questions that a guy just needs to ask. And even if you already know his answer, it is important for you to show interest. In no case do not show that you yourself consider his passion for absolute nonsense. Let this be so, however, it is not worth talking out loud.
- Life rules. This is a fairly neutral topic, which allows one to shine one’s mind and a young person to say something pleasant. However, here the girl needs to think what to ask the guy so that he does not feel flattery on your part. Ask him if a man or woman can be friends or which girls he likes. When he answers, you can express your point of view, but if you want to attract a guy, let her not be very different from his thoughts. It’s not worth it to say completely identical, as this will make the guy nervous, but it is also very stupid to argue fiercely about the opposite.
The following is a list of topics that do not need to be discussed with a young man:
- Former relationship. You can’t ask a guy about them on either the first or second date. The best time for such questions is when you have already started a stable relationship. If the guy himself speaks about his former at the first meetings with you, this is a signal that the past relationship does not end in the end, but the ellipsis, therefore, problems can arise. And then it's up to you to stay with such a person or to stop communicating.
- Salary. Another taboo for those who do not understand what to ask a guy. Remember that with such a conversation you can put the guy in an uncomfortable position, which will immediately affect his mood and attitude towards you. Learn to determine the income level of a friend yourself, especially since it is not so difficult for a smart woman.
- Problems. Psychologists do not advise in the candy-bouquet period to talk about problems, both their own and the second half. This starts to get nervous, because a person cannot be distracted, and he again has to remember about any conflicts with his superiors or in his family. Let the conversation with him be a rest, not an interrogation, then a positive result is guaranteed to you.