Child love. This feeling is familiar to every person. For some reason, adult parents most often do not attach much importance to the suffering of their child. Everyone has a different attitude towards children's love. Someone is touched, others mock and annoyed by what the baby says and feels. However, you must first understand the child, because he sometimes suffers. At such moments, the support of parents is simply necessary for the baby.
Unexpected love for the first time catches a person not at school, as is commonly believed. Most often, the first time we fall in love is in kindergarten. This is the most carefree time. Boys in love give girls flowers, try to care for them in an adult way. When a child comes home, he excitedly tells how he spent the day in kindergarten, what he and his girlfriend did, what they played, and so on. Watching a boy or girl in love is very interesting. Moms and dads should pay due attention to the stories of their child, because he puts all his feelings into them. It happens that children's love is not mutual. Then the child is very worried and really suffering. If we consider a similar situation in more detail, then all the experiences of the child are much stronger than the adult person in love. Children are immediate; they all take too much to heart. There is no lie in the little world, a lot of honesty and innocence. If your baby’s love object rejects his feelings, you should explain to the child that this is nothing. Try to impress upon him that there are many more beautiful girls or boys in the kindergarten. Teach the child not to pay attention to the object of his unrequited love, convince him that in this case the girl or boy will soon turn his eyes to your child. Many parents claim that in such a case they advised their child to start caring for someone else, to make friends and communicate with other children. Such a move soon gave good results. Either the beloved little man of their baby paid attention to him, or the child fell in love again with the one who reciprocated with him.
Above is described childhood love at a very young age. However, a child may fall in love with elementary school, for example. The behavior of children aged seven to eleven years is very different from toddlers. The fact is that their love manifests itself in a completely different way. Boys pull braids of girls they like, push, and after school they see off home. If a girl, for example, rejects the friendship of a boy in love with her, the latter unfolds real hostilities against her. He does harm to her in every possible way, and can begin to spoil notebooks and other school supplies. Girls write notes to their beloved, put them in books without leaving a signature. In addition, the girls are trying in every possible way to help the boys who are behind in school, thus attracting their attention to their person. If you see that your child is worried about non-reciprocal love, try to explain to him that you need to take some other measures. Help your daughter or son choose a small gift for their lover. In this situation, do not give sharp and conflicting advice. Act gently, do not insist on anything. Just listen to your child, it will be much easier for him.
The most difficult childhood love comes in adolescence. This is the time of youthful maximalism. Young people and girls make a huge number of mistakes when they try to match the image of their loved ones. This period for parents becomes a real test of strength. Well, if love has come, and the chosen one of your child does not suit you, you can’t fight this choice. The best thing you can do in this situation is to bring your child closer to you, try to make friends with him in order to be aware of everything that happens in his life. Do not forbid your child to date a loved one. But subordination should be observed only if you are sure that your child is not in danger.