Probably, each of you paid attention to how some girls easily capture the attention of guys. And it’s not like a beauty (“I'm much better!”), And dressed so-so. And all the guys at their feet. So what is the secret?
How to attract guys? Let's first turn to
male psychology.Everyone knows that men love with their eyes. That means the girl’s external attractiveness is of no small importance. Important, but not enough. The fact is that a man wants and loves that girl who loves herself!
So before you ask yourself how to attract guys, ask yourself: “Am I attracting myself? Do I love my body? ” If you are thinking about answering these questions, if you have any doubts, such as: “Here, if ...”, “probably”, “..., but,” then this is the root of your problem. After all, how to attract guys if you do not attract yourself? A man looks at you just like you look at yourself.
In order to succeed, you need to love your body. Engage in auto-training. Keep repeating to yourself: “I am the most charming and attractive. Not a single man will pass me by without turning around ... ” Convince yourself of this every day, look in the mirror, smile and enjoy the contemplation of yourself beautiful. Feel the most sexual and attractive.
So, how to attract a guy?
1. Be relaxed. Guys do not like closed and inaccessible girls. Such persons subconsciously scare away all gentlemen. But do not confuse the concept! Easy access and vulgarity also do not like men. You can attract a guy with sensuality, freedom, sexuality, warmth and a smile. How to turn into this? If you are tormented by shyness, self-doubt and various fears, do not run this. Need to figure it out. You can make an appointment with a psychologist, or you can try to cope on your own. There is a good exercise that helps to relax. Remember or imagine a situation in which you easily and naturally behave in a society of men. You are a star, and everything from you is simply delighted. Feel your condition at this moment and fix it in memory. And every time you find yourself in a society of the opposite sex, remember these feelings. Of course, at first it will not be easy. You will feel embarrassed, embarrassed. But over time, everything will come. And if you want to please someone, you have to go through it.
2. Be feminine. Let us exit our feminine nature, which is inherent in you by nature. Feel this stream of tenderness and peace. Feel yourself beauties, stop being shy, fill with energy. If it’s difficult to do it yourself, look like various women's trainings where you will learn how to give vent to your natural femininity.
3. Let the man subdue you. Remember that all the guys are conquerors. You shouldn’t be the first to invite him on a date or talk about your feelings, nothing will come of it. He must do it himself. But if he is in no hurry, he can be pushed ...
How to do it? Here it is worth recalling all the scenes from the films: requests for help, and flirting, and shooting with eyes ...
About the eyes, perhaps, in more detail. How to attract a guy with a look?
Firstly, the look does not have to be sharp. Otherwise, scare. Cast timid, neat and careful glances at the guy. It should look as if everything happened by chance and by itself. This way you are interested in it. And he himself will begin to answer you the same.
Secondly, no bitchiness. Let all tenderness, love, sincerity and warmth into your eyes. If a guy feels this, his heart will beat with happiness.
Thirdly, do not “eat” his eyes. It looks vulgar and will not lead to anything serious. But do you need a serious and romantic relationship?
And remember, the main secret on how to attract guys is the naturalness of all your actions. No need to play and try to impersonate who you really are not. After all, sooner or later the bluff will be revealed, and it will be unpleasant for everyone.