Although now the 21st century is the time of technological progress and the rule of science, our people still remain superstitious. And there is nothing wrong with that. After all, who will argue with the experience of our ancestors? This article will be useful for those who are planning a wedding in October. Signs and beliefs that are best addressed are what will be discussed further.
Wedding october
Most people know that there are more or less favorable months for marriage. What can we say to those people who are planning a wedding in October? Signs say that the married life of such couples will be rather complicated and full of disputes and contradictions. But do not get upset or panic! Astrologers say that in each month there are both favorable and not too good periods for marriage. And each year must be considered separately.
In 2014
What do newlyweds who are planning a wedding in October need to know about? Signs and astrological calculations indicate that this month in 2014 there are favorable periods for this celebration.
- According to the Christian calendar, this is October 17, 19, 24, 26 and 31.
- The eastern horoscope advises marriage in the periods from 1 to 10 and from 19 to 30 October.
- According to the lunar cycle, this month there are two favorable dates: when the Moon is in Taurus - October 10, or in Cancer - October 14.
Generally speaking, we must remember that 2014 is the year of the reign of the Blue Horse. And she gives all newlyweds and other people peace and tranquility in family life. So this year is completely favorable for those who plan to unite their destinies forever.
On the pros of the October wedding
It is worth saying that autumn used to be sometimes weddings. The thing is that the time for harvesting the fields is over, and you can relax a bit. In addition, the post has not yet begun, and you can feast without restrictions. Well, no less important point: autumn is the time of full cellars and harvested crops. Therefore, to set the table for a treating guests will not be any problems. What else is good for the October wedding?
- If a wedding is planned in October, the weather of the newlyweds is likely to please. Especially in the first half of the month. The sun still shines quite brightly and even warms a little, rains at this time - an infrequent phenomenon.
- October is the time of the most amazing photo shoots for a young couple. A riot of colors and the widest possible range of colors, beautiful landscapes and the ability to shoot unforgettable shots - all this will definitely please people in love.
- What is also important: queues to the marriage registration authorities - registry offices, at this time the minimum. So you can choose the time of painting at your discretion, rather than tailor your plans to the line (as is often the case in the summer).
- Guests until the fall had a good rest, gained strength. And since there are no large and costly holidays nearby, they will be able to fork out for expensive gifts for young people.
What other autumn wedding signs are there?
So, it is worth saying that among the people there are several different opinions regarding the October marriages:
- If the young have a wedding at Pokrov, omens say that the couple will be happy all their lives.
- Autumn marriage promises young people a strong union.
- A wedding in October will bring a rich life to the family. Which, however, will be full of quarrels and conflicts.
- If the young have a wedding at the end of October and during it snowed - this is a very good sign. So the family will be happy.
- People say that a good month for marriage is the one with the letter "p" in October.
Astrologer Pre-Wedding Advice
Be sure to consider the signs before the wedding. Indeed, much depends on how people prepare for one of the most important days in their lives, including the happiness of young people. There are several prohibitions that must be remembered by those who are planning their holiday:
- You can’t play a wedding if a year has not passed since the death of the father or mother of one of the young.
- Before the match, the bridegroom must not tell anyone the name of his beloved. In this case, the marriage does not happen.
- The perfect day to send matchmakers is Friday. The outcome of the case in this case will be favorable.
- The day before the wedding, you must bake a solemn loaf.
- The week before the wedding, the bride and groom should go to church. To defend the service, as well as to confess and receive communion.
- If the couple lives together before marriage, they should still spend the last night separately. On the day of the wedding, the groom must pick up the bride from her parents ’house (leaving the bride’s house or apartment, the groom should never turn around - the beloved can return home).
- Young people should not be photographed together before the wedding, and separately after the wedding. This is for parting.
- What other signs are there before the wedding? If the bride bursts into tears before the wedding, it is fortunate.
- A happy marriage promises a sneeze on the day before the wedding. A close relative of the newlyweds should sneeze in the morning.
- In order for the young people to have a sweet life, in front of the wedding palace, the couple must secretly eat a chocolate bar.
- On the night before the wedding, the bride should put a mirror under her pillow.
These are the main rules that young people must adhere to before the day of marriage.
Loaf and signs
Considering the signs before the wedding, it is worthwhile to dwell in more detail on the preparation of the solemn loaf. As already mentioned above, it should be baked the day before the celebration. However, this is not all the nuances that young people need to know about:
- Only familiar women should be allowed to bake a loaf. Moreover, they must be happy in marriage and kind in heart. You cannot trust its preparation to widows or divorced ladies.
- For baking loaf take only wheat and rye.
- At the same time, only the bottom of the loaf is made of rye. Everything else, including jewelry, is baked from wheat flour.
Signs about choosing a wedding day
If the young are planning a wedding in October, signs about the day of the celebration itself must be studied necessarily.
- It is better not to appoint a wedding day on the 13th day.
- The union will be long and successful if the young sign in the afternoon.
- If the bride and groom were born on Saturday, they should not marry on this day. There may be problems with having children.
- Weddings cannot be played on fasting days.
- It’s good to get married on religious days. So the Almighty will always help this family.
Wedding signs
Newlyweds should understand what signs for the wedding are significant, and which ones you may not always pay attention to. Important and even special are the wedding omens.
- Whose wedding candle burns longer, one of the couple will live longer.
- If during the ceremony the bride’s headscarf falls from her head, then she is destined to remain a widow.
- If the wedding candle goes out ahead of time, there will be difficulties in the family. Or maybe even death.
- In order for the young couple to live happily ever after, the wedding candles must be blown out simultaneously.
Wedding rings
To make a young family happy, which, for example, had a wedding in the fall, the signs regarding wedding rings also need to be taken into account. What should newlyweds know and remember?
- You should not let anyone else measure your wedding rings. Someone can "steal" the happiness of the young.
- To make the life of a new family smooth, wedding rings must also be chosen smooth, without any stones, notches, patterns.
- When the young put on each other's rings, an unmarried girl should pick up a box from under them or a saucer.
- If the ring, before it was first put on the spouse’s finger, fell, this promises separation young. However, to prevent this from happening, a white thread must be passed through the ring (witnesses should prepare it in advance). After the marriage ceremony, the one who dropped the ring should burn the thread, while saying: "Fire, take away all my hardships and sorrows."
- On the day of the wedding, the bride should not wear any other rings.
- If the ring was lost before the wedding, the celebration is unlikely to take place. If after - the spouses are likely to be separated.
Bride's dress
What other wedding signs are there? The bride needs to know that there are omens that relate to her wedding dress. Therefore, the newlywed must take good care of her outfit. What should be remembered in this case?
- A white wedding dress should only be worn by virgins. Otherwise, you need to choose cream, beige, pink or any other outfit.
- Until the day of the wedding, the groom should not see the bride in a wedding dress.
- Before the wedding, the bride should not look at herself in the mirror in full wedding attire. This promises minor troubles in the family. However, without a veil, shoes or gloves (i.e., one of the elements of a wedding dress) you can look at yourself in the mirror without fear.
- A wedding dress, like wedding rings, should not be given to anyone.
- If there are buttons on it, there must be an odd number of them.
- At the wedding, the bride can not wear jewelry, they are replaced with jewelry. Also, do not use pearls - this is to the tears of the young.
- The style of the wedding dress should be without a deep neckline and open shoulders (otherwise the envious person can easily jinx the bride).
- The bride's shoes should be closed: without open toes and heels. This way poverty and divorce can be avoided.
- In order to protect the bride from the evil eye, several stitches should be done on her outfit. A couple of stitches on the dress after the wedding will give the spouses a long and happy family life.
- To protect the young from the evil eye, they need to attach safety pins head down on ceremonial dresses.
- During the wedding, no one should correct the outfit of the bride and groom, except for parents or witnesses.
- After the celebration, you can not sell a wedding dress, veil and buttonhole.
- If the bride gets married while in position, she needs to screen the baby. To do this, it is good to tie a red wide belt on your stomach. If the outfit does not provide for this, a belt (or ribbon) is tied under a wedding dress.
What should a bride take for a wedding?
What else is important to know the signs for the wedding of the bride? So, on the very day of the wedding, the young lady should take the following things with her:
- Something new that will symbolize her new status as a wife. For example, a dress, veil or shoes.
- Something old that is a symbol of wisdom and peace in a new family. It can be an old family necklace, a brooch.
- Something borrowed from a happy married couple.
- Something blue as a symbol of purity, modesty, fidelity and love. It can be a garter, jewelry, scarf.
Outfit of the groom
What can people say about the groom? For a wedding, a young one must choose a costume, also guided by the experience of our great-grandmothers. What should a man remember?
- To make the marriage happy, two red ribbons (you can from the inside) must be attached to the costume crosswise.
- The color of the groom's suit is also important. He can say the following:
- Black outfit - there will be love and peace in the family.
- A gray suit promises a long life together for a couple.
- Wearing a white outfit, the groom calls himself trouble.
- If the guy has a blue suit, then in marriage he will not be faithful.
- A brown suit is put on by a strict husband.
- Green guy outfit - marriage to people laughing.
- The blue suit promises young quarrels over money.
Table omens
What other signs are there on your wedding day? So, the nuances that you need to know when organizing a feast are important.
- The wedding table should be "rich." It is good if each of the guests brings something from himself and puts it on him as a treat.
- At the table, the bride and groom should eat and drink very little. And the first three glasses they generally have to pour over their backs. This is necessary so that in the house "wealth flowed like water."
- In order for the young to be one, they should not sit on different chairs, but on one bench.
- Young should use each of their cutlery. You can’t eat from one spoon, it promises minor quarrels and troubles.
- The main sign of the feast: at the wedding, guests should sit a little and dance and have fun. It will bring a fun family life to the young.
Signs "after"
Be sure to say that there are also signs after the wedding. What do newlyweds need to know and remember?
- After the wedding, the young must look in one mirror. Then their life will be happy.
- After the wedding, the girl should hand out a trifle to prevent troubles in family life.
- After the first champagne drunk, the young should break the glasses. By the fragments, by the way, they looked who was the first to be born to a couple. If the fragments are large - there will be a boy, small - a girl.
- The groom must bring the bride in his arms to the house. However, this sign does not work if the couple had lived together in the same territory before.
- After the blessing of the parents, the young should stand on one rug. So they will live in harmony not only with each other, but also with other relatives.
Happy signs
It is definitely worth talking about what good signs are for a wedding. That is, what signs will bring young people exclusively happiness, love and wealth.
- If it snows or rains on the wedding day, the couple’s family life will be safe.
- For a long and happy family life, the groom must move the bride across the bridge.
- In order for the couple’s joint life to be abundant, the young are showered with grain, sweets, and trifles.
- On the day of the wedding between the bride and groom, no one should get up. Otherwise, the couple will disperse.
- Unmarried boys and girls should be taken as witnesses. You should not invite divorced. If the witnesses converged after the wedding, the life of both couples will be long and happy.
- For the young to be happy, when preparing the family bed, the pillows should be laid with cuts to each other.
- In order for the spouses to live in abundance, at the table they should sit on a fur coat, laid fur up.
- In order for the couple’s family life to be rich, the groom must put a coin on the right shoe on the wedding day. It is then stored at home and is considered a heirloom and a talisman.
- During the wedding, the bride and groom should only dance with each other. Sometimes with parents.
Other signs and traditions
What is very important for young people to know when preparing for a wedding? Signs and traditions can help avoid trouble.
- Wedding guests should not wear black clothes.
- A girl should not knit things her beloved before the wedding. It is believed that this will lead to separation.
- After leaving the bride in the registry office, you can not wash the threshold of the house. Otherwise, the girl will soon return to her father’s nest.
- No wine should be left in the wedding glasses of the newlyweds. It promises tears and sorrows in family life.
- If the bride’s left hand was combed on the bride’s wedding day, it’s to wealth. If the right one, the couple will always have fun and guests at home.
- On the day before the wedding, something is considered a bad luck to break. It is especially dangerous to break a mirror.
- At the wedding, you can not give forks and knives, otherwise the couple will live in quarrels. However, if such a gift was made, then the giver must be given the coin.
- An odd number of guests should be invited to the wedding.
- The bride should not let out a wedding bouquet all day. It can be given for a while to hold mom or witness. At the banquet, the bouquet stands in front of the young. After the wedding, he enters the bedroom, where the newly-married couple will sleep. As soon as the bouquet begins to fade, it must be discarded.
Who is the head of the family?
There are several signs that will tell about who will be the head of the family.
- When the young bite the loaf, you need to see who bit the bigger bite. "Winner" and will be the head of the family.
- Who first becomes a rushnyk in the registry office, that and dominate the family.
- Couple in the registry office holding hands. You have to see whose hand is on top. After all, he will be the head of the family.