Many girls are faced with the fact that they simply don’t know what to talk with guys about. And it doesn’t matter whether they have known them for a long time or met just recently. Of course, it is very difficult to find suitable topics for a conversation with a young man unfamiliar. Perhaps this article will help you with this.
What to talk to guys about?
You can talk about the following:
1. To take an interest in a kind of activity and favorite activities of your interlocutor. Talk about what you love to do and why you like to do just that. Surely you will have similar interests, and you will be able to share experience, tell interesting cases that happened to you.
2. Talk about the latest music, theater, cinema. After all, each girl has her own preferences, which she can share with others.
3. If you have nothing to talk about with a guy, remember the events that take place in the world. This topic will be interesting for everyone.
4. If a guy started a conversation on men's topics in which you do not understand anything, try to listen carefully to him. But if something is not clear to you, you can ask for clarification of these points.
5. If a guy is sociable and versatile, you can always share your opinion with him, find out his opinion, and also draw useful conclusions for yourself.
What to talk about with guys you have known for a long time?
Talking with guys you know for quite a long period of time is a lot easier.
1. You can ask how your boyfriend’s day went, or just ask, “How are you?” By this you will let him know that he is not indifferent to you, and you worry about him.
2. If a guy wants to talk with you in those moments when he has certain problems, try to listen to him carefully, without imposing his opinion. You can cheer him up and say what you would do in this situation, but this does not mean that he should do the same.
3. If you wish, you can tell him about your problems and ask him for advice. Of course, if his opinion will be useful to you.
4. You can recall your mutual friends and cases that occurred during a joint pastime.
What do guys like to talk about?
No matter how strange it sounds, sometimes guys like to just shut up. True, you should know each other well. It can even help you get close.
Many guys like to talk about themselves. You just have to ask questions, for example: "Where do you like to spend your free time and how?"
Favorite men's topics are computers, sports, politics and cars. Feel free to talk about what is interesting to you, talk about your successes, about your personal development. Do not think that this does not interest the guy who cares about you.
Many guys love it when they talk with them about eternal life, about the soul, spiritual growth, family values. The main thing is to smile whenever possible, listen carefully to the guy and do not forget about the sense of humor!
Now you know what to talk about with guys and how to get them interested. Good luck!