It is believed that we all love to present and accept gifts. In any case, the authors of most books and articles on this subject stubbornly assure us of this. However, from personal experience, most of us are well aware that acquiring a presentation is a very troublesome business. The problem is how to choose a gift that "will have to go to court" is quite relevant for everyone. Indeed, in our life we have to congratulate friends, relatives, and colleagues a great number of times. Few of the donors dream of sending his offering to gather dust in a closet or pantry. On the contrary, we sincerely dream to please another person. A hint about which gift to choose is etiquette that governs all the nuances of this delicate process.
Let's start with the usual everyday situation - you were invited to visit for a cup of tea. There is no solemn occasion, just friendly gatherings, but this does not mean that you can come empty-handed.
In this case, a bottle of good wine and a box of chocolates, a cake or a set of cakes for tea would be quite appropriate. A bouquet of flowers for the hostess of the house is a matter of course. If there are children in the house, it does not hurt to take care of small presentations for them.
An example is just the opposite - the wedding of relatives or friends. Often in this case, the question of how to choose a gift is not worth it. Newlyweds immediately stipulate that they accept gifts in cash. However, in this case there is absolutely no need to bring surprises. It will be quite appropriate to clarify which gift the bride and groom want to receive on their most significant day.
Today it has become fashionable to give all kinds of household appliances to a wedding. But since there are usually a lot of guests and they don’t always have the opportunity to agree, five irons, several electric kettles and a couple of microwave ovens hand each piece a happy couple. In my opinion, in this case, a gift certificate will be a more rational solution. Let the young themselves decide what they need more.
Almost everyone has work colleagues. And at least a couple of times a year there is a need to congratulate them on the holiday. However, not everyone knows which gift is more appropriate in this case. It is not customary to give expensive gifts to colleagues, especially for the higher authorities. A gift for the chef is generally better to buy one from the whole team. As for the other colleagues, it is quite appropriate to present the same souvenirs appropriate for the occasion (pens, notebooks, calendars). If the team is small and the relations between employees are friendly, gifts can be given an individual sound. For example, buy mugs for tea or coffee with different designs.
Many of us know that buying presents for loved ones is the hardest thing.
Of course, it’s difficult to give specific advice on how to choose a gift for mom, wife, sister or brother. However, some recommendations will be quite appropriate.
Older relatives will appreciate the cozy and comfortable things for home or cottage. You can also give parents gifts related to their hobbies.
The younger generation can be pleased with all kinds of modern gadgets, but clothes and shoes should not be offered to a brother or sister. These are things taken for granted, and you need to buy them just like that, without any reason.
In conclusion, we will give some recommendations on how to choose a gift for your loved one. Please note that your present is considered in this case as a clear demonstration of your attitude to the person being presented. Representatives of the fair sex are especially sensitive in this regard. Therefore, never present to your wife or girlfriend things whose meaning can be interpreted in two ways.
Please note that giving men and women hygiene items is considered bad form. So forget about gels, shampoos, handmade soaps and shaving foam.
You can give your beloved cologne completely - men are happy to rely on the choice of aromas for a female taste. But it’s undesirable for a lady to present a perfume, the probability is too small that she will like it.
Many men consider a set of expensive linen to be a quite appropriate gift. However, not everything is as simple as it may seem. Choosing the right bra is a difficult process, there are too many parameters that determine a good fit. Even knowing the size, it is difficult to predict how a particular model will look on the figure. And to wear a bra, the bones from which are pressed into the ribs - is not the most pleasant occupation.
When choosing a gift, be guided by the desires of the person to whom it is intended, and not by considerations of practicality. Flowers should be an obligatory supplement to any gift. Especially when it comes to lady. However, for representatives of the stronger sex, you can also choose the right floral arrangement. For example, gladioli are traditionally considered male colors.