Female excitement is one of the most mysterious phenomena. A restless look, longing throughout the body, rapid breathing - all these signs indicate that the woman is experiencing a desire. Good and high-quality excitement guarantees a great evening for a couple, as well as getting maximum pleasure from intimate communication. But unfortunately, not every man knows what excites a woman best. Let's try to understand this topic.
What is the difference between sexual arousal of women and male attraction?
Along the street is a spectacular girl in a short skirt and high heels, which perfectly emphasize slender long legs. The tight-fitting T-shirt highlights the thin waist and beautiful breasts, and the bright, but not causing makeup creates the look of a predator. The attention of every second man will be riveted to such a beauty.
However, a woman needs more for sexual attraction. It rarely happens that a girl, looking at a guy, gets horny. In some cases, a gentle hug or passionate kiss will be an ideal way to excite a woman. In other situations, girls desire for intimacy appears only after the direct caresses of the clitoris, chest and hips. And there are those ladies who start from just talking about sex.
All women are individual. What will appeal to one young lady will be completely unacceptable to another. But, nevertheless, based on the knowledge of female psychology, as well as physiology, there are several tips that will help achieve sexual excitement of the girl.
Strong man attracts women
It is enough to recall the worldview of our distant ancestors, and everything will immediately become clear. Which man was especially popular with women in primitive times? The one who was the strongest: killed most of all on the hunt, could fight and survive in a duel, as well as the leader of the tribe. Strength has always attracted the female gender.
Nothing has changed in our time. A woman wants to feel a strong man next to her, to be like behind a stone wall. If a man does not have an athletic and muscular physique, then do not put an end to him. Physical data is perfectly replaced by internal strength, expressed in confidence and strength of character. The girl is pleased to see a confident man next to her, who will become for her a real support and support.
Unobtrusive compliments and sincere words of admiration will help to win over almost any girl
Men love with their eyes, and women with their ears. In order to excite a girl, it is enough to express your enthusiasm about her appearance (dresses, hairstyles). Words of admiration should be sincere and not strained, coming from the heart. A woman who has received a compliment in her direction is more likely to want to continue communicating.
Compliments about looks, manicure, makeup and hairstyles are especially good. Most of the fair sex carefully prepare for a date: hours spent in the bathroom or visiting a beauty salon should not go unnoticed by a man.
Also, a compliment about her sweet smile, light character, ease of communication and other qualities inherent in this particular girl will be a good way to excite a woman.
Few guys know and take advantage of the fact that a woman's voice is best aroused by a man's voice: firm and quiet, a little hoarse. It is worth saying a few compliments in a quiet romantic voice right in the girl’s ear, as soon as the first signs of female arousal appear.
To achieve trust of the chosen one
For men, sex is a purely physiological need. Women, however, have a different sexual relationship. For them, sex is a way to express their emotions, get to know a partner closer, and get a mental load. That is why it is very important to ensure that the girl fully trusts her partner and is not shackled, because otherwise she will not be able to relax and get the maximum pleasure from making love.
How to gain trust milady? Pretty simple. A light and easy conversation, a couple of sincere compliments, gentle second touches will relax the girl. You should ask questions of a personal nature (but do not go too far): what he likes to eat, what he prefers music (literature or films), what qualities he appreciates in people (men) and so on.
A woman should feel comfortable, and similar questions and discussion topics will help to see a soul mate in a man.
If the couple’s relationship has already passed through the stage of dating and a bouquet of sweets, then talking about sex will help to achieve female excitement. A story of a sexual nature, told in a quiet velvety voice right in the partner’s ear, does not take long to wait for the results.
Romantic candlelight dinner
It is important to create the right conditions for the excitement of women. Quiet atmosphere, candlelight dinner, romantic music in the background will help the girl to relax and enjoy spending time together.
To achieve a greater effect, during a secluded candlelight dinner, you should compliment, accompanied by gentle touches. Almost always, such an evening definitely ends with the intimacy of partners.
Exciting touches and other actions that turn on girls
No need to be afraid to touch Madame, even on a first date. Body contacts should be unobtrusive, smooth and short: remove the eyelash from the eye, gently acquire it at the entrance to the cinema or restaurant, fleetingly touch your hand, and fix a curl of hair that has pulled out of the hairstyle. Some men do not take such actions seriously. But in vain. Ultimately, they play a big role.
Kisses on the neck and decollete
If the relationship of the couple is at a more serious level, then in this case the actions should be more confident and more frank. It's no secret that many women adore kisses on the neck and décolleté, and a passionate kiss on the lips leads both female and male representatives.
With a kiss on the neck, you should start with a gentle touch with your lips near the girl’s ear, gradually moving down. Kisses can be made more passionate and impulsive in terms of responsiveness. However, do not rush to put a “sucker” on the neck of the partner, since such an act can be perceived extremely negatively.
After kisses on the neck, which alternate with kisses on the lips, you can go to the neckline. Starting with the right or left collarbone, slowly descend. Breasts should be caressed with warm and soft hands. One of the most sensitive points of arousal in a woman is her nipples.
Caressing the breasts with hands or tongue very strongly leads the fair sex. When kissing the nipples, you should be careful, as the slightest bite with your teeth can deliver pain and discomfort to the partner.
Weasel hips and clit
Cling to the wall, tightly clasp your hips, start kissing, and put your hand in the panties of the girl - this approach will drive women who prefer initiative and strong men crazy.
The classic caresses of the lower body of the girls involve stroking the clitoris, pinching and rubbing it. However, before indulging in this occupation, you must make sure that it is acceptable for the partner or not. Some young ladies will gladly allow the caress of the clitoris by hand, while others will categorically be against it. Therefore, you should first conduct a small analysis of the girl’s character, her upbringing and worldview, or ask directly.
If the clitoris caresses have a place to be, then you should start gently and accurately, putting a warm hand between the hips for a few seconds, and then remove it. By following the reaction of the chosen one, you can repeat this action, lingering longer in the treasured place. Sexual arousal will help to achieve gentle, but confident circular movements, slight nipping of the clitoris. Tongues and very careful nibbling of the clitoris are also possible. This must be done very carefully so as not to cause the woman unpleasant sensations or pain.
What to do if you can’t excite the girl?
In the modern world, women are often stressed at work, in the family or in any other areas of life. Weekdays in constant stress entail a lack of sexual desire. In such cases, it is worth trying to relax the chosen one with a soothing massage or aromatherapy. Massaging the feet will help.
Another reason for the lack of female arousal is its menstrual cycle. The girl most often experiences sexual arousal during ovulation, since at this time the possibility of pregnancy is great, and her hormones are also at a high level. A woman's arousal is much more difficult to achieve at the end of the menstrual cycle. This is due to mood swings and pain in the lower abdomen.
Bottom line: how to excite a woman
To excite the chosen one, you need to follow a few simple tips:
- behave confidently and persistently, but feel the measure;
- to say sincere compliments to the girl, to have her in a conversation;
- unobtrusive touch;
- create suitable conditions for the excitement of women;
- kisses and caresses of the partner’s body will bring the desired result closer.