Have you ever thought that a good and sincere congratulation is sometimes much nicer than a gift on duty? It is customary to consider and say that in our time people have become callous and indifferent. Compared to our grandmothers, perhaps this is indeed so. But even the most gloomy people deep down always need love, support, tenderness. This is not enough in them, and therefore they are chronically lacking in spiritual warmth - both internal and that which comes from without. And no matter what mask of indifference we put on - in accordance with generally accepted standards - each of us is pleased to hear warm words.
Therefore, at least during the holidays do not hide your feelings and emotions towards a loved one, especially if it concerns congratulations to a friend. After all, friends are very special people in our lives. If we do not choose relatives, colleagues, classmates and neighbors, and even fall in love according to some unknown principle, then friends are those whom we consciously chose ourselves, precisely because we are interested, fun, not bored, and simply I like to communicate with them. Do not you think that congratulations to a friend should be the most sincere and most cordial? Do not deprive the attention of such a dear person.
Congratulations in the form of SMS have become very popular. Such a congratulation has its advantages and disadvantages. It is very good that with the help of SMS we have an excellent opportunity to congratulate a friend in the very first hours of the day. Most people enjoy the first congratulations. You can send congratulations to a friend in the form of SMS after 12 nights, and for sure you will be the first congratulator. Whether he wakes up from an SMS signal is unknown, but even if you wake him up, he will be pleased, moreover, reading an SMS will take one minute, and you can sleep peacefully. This is much better than calling at night and telling a person sleepily sniffing into the phone how much you wish him well.
SMS will be an ideal option for those people who are far away, for many hundreds, or even thousands of kilometers. It is always pleasant to realize that those who cannot be near remember you. Such may be, for example, congratulations to a childhood friend with whom you live in different cities and see you very rarely.
Cons are available too. The size of SMS is limited, albeit not very much, but if you write a long verse, it may well come only in half. It depends on many factors, and even if you have a super phone and excellent communication, do not flatter yourself: everything can be much easier with a friend. If this holiday is New Year’s, then ... Perhaps there’s nothing to explain here, even the first-grader knows: it’s almost impossible to send SMS or even get half of what was sent to you.
And one more minus congratulations to a friend in the form of SMS: after all, it is very simple. Therefore, if you want to do everything perfectly, it is better to use three components. First, congratulate via SMS, either at night or in the early morning. Then, day or evening, a greeting card with a sincere greeting, hand-written by you personally. And, of course, a gift. A good gift is a separate topic, but one rule can be followed. If finances are bad, anyway give something, albeit small, but pleasant - as you know, the main thing is attention. And if money allows, do not offend him with a petty gift, he surely knows your possibilities. If you have a salary of 60 thousand, and you give a souvenir for 20 rubles, it will be at least ugly.
But congratulations to a friend from a girlfriend should be delicate. No matter how inveterate a bachelor your friend may be, he may have a girlfriend at any moment. And your friendships may be at risk if you write something extra.
In any case, when we write from the heart, congratulations become much more interesting and better. Let us often delight our dear people!