Everyone understands: a loving person does not want to intentionally insult his soul mate. But life's accidents make their own adjustments, and it can not happen that your girlfriend is offended by any of your actions. And perhaps the matter didn’t even come to an act, it just accidentally popped up a word that seemed to your girlfriend to be completely unpleasant.
What to do? Apologize as soon as possible!
An apology to the beloved is actually quite a common event. Any male can be in a similar situation. The most correct will be to utter these very words of apology to your girlfriend as soon as possible. After all, your lady is offended, it is not known what she can think of for herself at that moment while you decide whether or not to ask for forgiveness.
Undoubtedly, he himself does not always want to ask for forgiveness, realizing that he is guilty. But if the guy does not do this, then the girl, being very proud, may not go for rapprochement. Therefore, the guy, the stronger sex, as a more balanced one, usually goes to ask for "peace."
A few tips so that an apology to your beloved goes well
- Apology rate. We have already considered this item. Apologize as soon as possible, think less. Of course, this advice is relevant only to people who value their girlfriend.
- Wholeheartedly. Sorry to apologize with sincerity. The lady who suggested that you do not really repent of your mistake and now apologize "for show" will definitely not forgive you.
- Eyes to eyes. Do not try to send a bunch of soulless SMS. No need to try to get through to an angry girlfriend. Moreover, all this can simply turn out to be unread SMSs and missed calls. So get ready and go pronounce the important words “live”. Looking at her, seeing her reaction. So it will be more reliable.
An approximate plan-apology to your beloved
So, your meeting has happened - how to act and what to say?
- Be sure to name the lady by name.
- Next are the standard words "forgive me," "I'm sorry."
- Now be sure to mention your mistake. What were wrong, what offended, what did not. In general - what are you repenting now.
- Question for your girlfriend. Will she forgive you?
- Expectation. Yes, just stand and be silent after all this. And you will see how she begins to answer you.
Not a stone heart
- Almost a hundred percent can be given to the fact that your beloved, most likely, will reconcile with you, forgive. The explanation is very simple: if the girl did not want to put up with you, she simply would not meet now in order to see you and hear what you can say in your defense.
- Want to add another percentage to the probability of forgiveness from your beloved? Excellent! Before meeting with explanations, go to the flower shop. The bouquet presented to the girl with a plea for mercy is likely to play a positive role. Although ... there is a possibility that at first, in a fit of anger, she may use your present for other purposes.
- But if you add more verses when apologizing to your beloved, and those that you composed yourself, then it’s as if her heart will thaw and give you forgiveness.
- Does your lady expect “high-profile” actions from you? Give her them. This means, for the sake of the girl, do something so that besides "Ah!" nothing could break from her lips.
- Have a hundred friends. Especially good when their opinion for your lady is not in last place. Her brother, best friend, sister - talk to them and tell them how you suffer from your act yourself, how bad you are without her. Most likely, they will pass on this information to your beloved girl. Just be careful! Do not try to do this trick through her father. The chances are small that you will have time to say something to him at a meeting.
Many tools are good for preserving and enhancing love. You can use these tips, or you can come up with something yourself, knowing your girlfriend better.
It is necessary to show her how you value your relationships, feelings. Show that she is very important to you.