You broke up with a guy, and after a while realized that you still love your ex-boyfriend. But now the young man does not pay attention to you and does not perceive as an object of adoration? How to fall in love with a guy again? Read about it below.
Attention to appearance
All guys love eyes. The girl with whom the young man broke up will remain attractive to him for a long time. But still the guy will perceive the lady as something from the past. And if a young man was rejected by a girl, then he will be afraid to approach her a second time. How to fall in love with a guy again? Need to change outwardly. Such a change will intrigue the young man. He will be pleasantly surprised to see something new in his former lover. You need to change dramatically. Change hair color, hairstyle, change clothing style. Your task is to make the guy perceive you as a completely new person in his circle of communication. Then he will have a dissonance, which he wants to resolve, to get to know a familiar lady who is hiding under an unusual shell.
Find out the interests of a guy
Think about why you broke up with a young man? It is likely that your interests have diverged. How to fall in love with a guy again? Find out with your mutual friends what your ex-boyfriend is doing now. Explore the guy’s hobbies in detail and prepare to share it. If a young man likes to ride bicycles, you can write to him on the social network that you really want to ride, but you have no one to go with. An old friendship guy will certainly offer you his services as a companion on a bike ride. Does a young man like to play board games in his free time? Then carefully study the rules, and better play with your friends a couple of trial games. After such training, find out with mutual friends where your ex-boyfriend is playing, and go to this place.
Common interests bring together and provide a topic for conversation. Against the background of common interests, it is easy to establish first friendships, and then romantic relationships. And if we consider the case of an ex-boyfriend where friendship already exists, it will be easy to introduce romance with the help of flirty phrases.
Speak compliments
People like to hear nice words. The compliments that a person receives from persons who care about him are especially pleasant. How to fall in love with a guy again? Start with a playful conversation with a young man. If you are afraid to go in person, you can write to a guy on a social network. It’s convenient to start a conversation with a compliment. Praise the new avatar of the young man. It is advisable to compliment not appearance, but any ability. You need to choose the characteristic trait or skill that the guy is proud of. For example, if a young man posted a photo where he does something, for example, sawing, there is no need to paint how his muscles look beautiful. Better say that the guy has golden hands, and you have known this for a long time. Here it will be useful to recall some case in which a young man helped you with something or made something for you. Mention that you are still using this item.
Coming up with compliments, you don’t need to slide into flattery. She is very few people are pleasant. Guys love honest girls. Therefore, do not try to cajole the young man with pleasant words that reflect the qualities that the guy does not have.
Feel free to start a conversation first
Girls are afraid to take their first steps, but in vain. Guys have self-esteem, therefore, if you reject your gentleman, he will not be eager to resume relations with you even after a long period of time. Do you want to make contact with your ex-boyfriend? Start chatting on a social network. What to write to the guy? You can start with a simple greeting. After that, you can start a small talk about nature and about common acquaintances. The guy may be surprised at your message. Therefore, you do not need to immediately disclose your intentions. Just chat. In 3-4 days you can resume the dialogue again. And only after two weeks can you offer to meet. But if the guy is really interested in your candidacy, he will invite you to meet much earlier. So do not get lost and act according to circumstances. If a young man comes into contact with you, then he does not mind renewing the relationship. At first, this thought can warm your soul well.
Spend more time together
It is difficult to ignore the person who is in full view of you all the time. Don't know how to fall in love with an ex-boyfriend? Then try an effective method. Meet with a young man more often. May these meetings be “random." For example, after learning from mutual friends about a party, try to get an invitation and go there with a girlfriend. Faced with the former, pretend that you are very surprised that he was invited to the holiday. You can meet and just on the street. If you know what route a guy goes to work or to study, then walk towards him. Faced with a young man, start a conversation. You can mention that you don’t even believe that fate constantly confronts you. You can even hint that the universe likes to see you together.
Try not to interrupt communication with a young man. After parting with a boyfriend’s friends, you can go to the cinema with him or visit friends in common. People who split up peacefully are much easier to renew their relationship with than couples who broke up with the scandal.
Keep in touch on social networks
One of the simplest ways to keep in touch with your ex-boyfriend is to communicate on social networks. What to write to the guy you want to chat with? After a simple exchange of pleasantries, you can throw off funny pictures or good songs. The second option is possible only if you and the young man have the same musical taste. Talk with a guy like a friend. Drop him interesting films that you watched and would like to discuss with him. Ask the young man what his plans for the weekend are and invite him to interesting city events. Such friendly communication, if desired, will easily be transformed into a romantic relationship.
It’s better not to write notes to the ex-boyfriend by hand. They can greatly compromise you. You don’t know what exactly the person who received the note will think. He can show it to his friends, and they will judge you with your feelings. Therefore, it is better to write messages on social networks, but in this case, choose words and phrases, as you mean the possibility that a young person will not read your messages alone.
Ask for help
Remember, it’s not at all embarrassing to contact friends for help. What attracts guys in the first place? Femininity, tenderness and peculiar quirks. Young people like to help their girlfriends. Guys love to catch grateful looks and sighs of admiration. Therefore, do not hesitate to ask your ex to help you, for example, with the choice of a new computer, if the guy understands this topic. You can also seek advice. For example, if you trust the literary taste of an ex-boyfriend, ask him to advise you on a good book. Friendly communication will be possible to establish only if you treat the guy as a friend. At the initial stage of the resumption of relations, this is not a bad option.
Don't be intrusive
What to do if you like an ex-boyfriend? Do not try to fill all the space surrounding the guy with your candidacy. No need to treat the young man as if he had already agreed to meet with you again. Do not call or write too often. Do not impose your company on him every day. Yes, it is useful to catch the eye from time to time, and it’s not bad to remind about your candidacy. But don't overdo it. Remain a friend for the guy and let your young man take a decisive action to renew your relationship.
Take care of self-development
Being a friend with an ex-boyfriend is not so difficult, but taking a lover's place again will be problematic. Why? Once stepping on a rake, a person without much enthusiasm will step on the same rake again. Therefore, to prove to the guy that relations with you are a win-win option, try to change all the time. This does not mean that you need to change the appearance. Self-education will help you become an interesting non-trivial person with whom you want to communicate. You must be able to support absolutely any topic of conversation. And if you don’t know about something, or if the topic is not close to you, you should learn to change the course of the conversation so that you bypass unknown topics. Learn, become more interesting, and then people will reach for you.