Marriage is a vivid and memorable event in the life of a family. Every bride dreams of the role of a princess from an early age. Young people in honor of such an event put on a festive costume. And from just a beloved young man turns into a beautiful prince, who rushed to his beloved on the wings of love. But couples often do not want to celebrate such an event as their parents did. Wedding customs that have developed over the centuries seem ridiculous and inappropriate to them. They have outlived themselves.
Boring ransoms - no! Unrestrained fun - yes!
Young people prefer to celebrate the wedding in a different way. They hate ransom with competitions a la the 80s. Do not like the gatherings at the table with songs under the button accordion. A modern wedding is the solution to the problem. Weddings imply style and theme. Every little thing is important for the general atmosphere, right down to the dress code of the guests. A wedding happens once in a lifetime, and you want to arrange a celebration not only for the body, but also for the soul.
Starting preparations for the wedding, make up the script. Doing this:
- the newlyweds themselves;
- leading;
- Event Agency;
- friends;
- relatives.
Location and time determined. What's next?
Before you make a script for a modern wedding, determine the concept of the event. It is worth carefully considering the venue of the wedding. It can become:
- a restaurant;
- Vacation home;
- yacht;
- forest.
The subject of weddings depends on the venue and desire of the young. A pirate party on a yacht is a scenario of a modern wedding for newlyweds, in whose company there are few representatives of the older generation. You can mark the wedding in the restaurant as a social event. Ladies in long dresses and gentlemen in tailcoats will not leave indifferent even the older generation. And the musical accompaniment of the symphonic ensemble will delight the hearing of the sophisticated audience.
Conservatives, go ahead!
Those who pay tribute to traditions would like to arrange a ransom of the bride. Instead of money they use alcohol and souvenirs. And the buyback scenario is offered modern. Invented contests are distinguished by non-standard thinking. More precisely, this will be the passage of the quest. It can be organized absolutely in any territory selected for the celebration. You can do a traditional romantic photo shoot in the early morning before the wedding.
So that everyone could enjoy the celebration, the modern wedding can last two days. At the first, young people attend a solemn registration in the registry office and go to a photo shoot. This eliminates the need for guests to travel for the newlyweds around the city in search of successful locations for photos. And on the second day, young people and guests enjoy the fun. The bride can wear the same dress twice or appear every day in a new outfit.
Exit registration will help not to divide the wedding into two days. It will take place where the young people plan to have fun with the guests. Instead of the standard hall, the young registry office is waiting for the arch, decorated with flowers and waves of fabric, a path of flowers and petals, beautiful live music and friends on both sides of the arch. What could be more romantic?
The father or godfather can lead the bride to the altar. This will emphasize the continuity of generations and the transition of the girl into a new family. After that, the young people pronounce wedding vows. It all depends on the wishes of the newlyweds.
Upon completion of registration, you will not have to stand in traffic jams, getting to the place of the banquet. Guests and young people can start the fun.
When composing a script, it is worth considering all the questions regarding:
- musical arrangement;
- light design;
- color scheme;
- floristry;
- costumes for young and guests;
- leading.
Ageless Classics
Do not forget about the representatives of the older generation. They do not always share youth trends. When organizing a wedding, it is necessary to take into account their interests. There are ceremonies that do not change for a long time:
- The burning of a family hearth. Young mothers give them a piece of heat from their hearth.
- The first dance of the young. This is one of the most beautiful and delicate dances at the wedding.
- Dance of the bride with her father. He emphasizes the depth of feelings between them.
- Cake cutting. By tradition, young people sell the first piece. This is an additional contribution of guests to the family budget of the new cell.
All have fun
When preparing a script for a wedding, funny and modern trends need and can be used. Humor has always been the key to success. Therefore, it is worth a couple of humorous contests that will not hurt the feelings of guests. Such competitions will amuse those present and cheer up the young. Obeying modern trends, you can record a humorous movie about the wedding. In general, how to bring a touch of humor, decide young. The main thing is that it pleases them and others.
The prize gets ...
Well, what a wedding without contests! After all, just sitting at tables and periodically going out to dance breaks will be boring for guests. Representatives of two families gather at the wedding. Most of them are practically unfamiliar. Competitions will allow everyone to get to know each other closer and make friends.
“Bearded” contests with balls and pencils are not in fashion today. Self-irony and creative vein became the whales on which modern wedding contests are based. For example, you can offer to congratulate the young in a comic form. A second example of a competition could be the listing of flattering and laudatory epithets addressed to the bride and groom. Whoever calls more, he won.
Favorite game kids in forfeits also does not stand aside. When compiling a list of modern contests, do not forget about the favorite competition of all newlyweds: determining the sex of the firstborn with the help of sliders and money from guests. Witnesses are doing this. Young mothers also should not sit around the table. They are invited to swaddle the baby at speed. After all, they can soon become grandmothers, and remembering the skills will not be amiss. A competition with a rope will amuse guests. Pulling it at a decent height, guests are invited to go under it, dancing. Each time, it falls lower and lower. Only the most daring and flexible guests will reach the finals.
Songs until the morning
Modern performers delight listeners with various musical compositions. They can be used to design musical pauses throughout the celebration. But for the entertainment of guests, many presenters offer to make some kind of karaoke. For this, melodies of famous hits are taken, and the words are written independently. They sound congratulations to the young and various wishes. If you have no time to come up with words, you can use the ready-made ones and choose among hundreds of compositions to your taste. Such modern alterations for the wedding will appeal to all guests, regardless of age and social status.
Host of the evening
As for the leaders of the wedding, then you should not save on them. Even the most thoughtful and well-planned modern wedding can be spoiled by the unprofessionalism of the host. Toastmaster with little experience or invited at random may behave incorrectly, which will embarrass newlyweds and guests.
In order for the young not to have to worry about their holiday, a modern master of ceremonies for a wedding is required. In the conditions of fierce competition, the presenters try to please the guests and the groom with the bride as much as possible. They will not allow bearded contests and toasts. Jokes below the belt will not be a lot. In order to avoid other troubles, it is worth stipulating in advance all the awkward moments regarding the forbidden topics and preferences in the conduct of the holiday.
Modern presenters, as a rule, collaborate with sound engineers, which will save time on searching for it. They can also take on the lighting design. They can also advise an inexpensive company for decorating the hall.
From what, from what ...
The traditions of modern weddings are presented in a wide range. These include:
- outside registration;
- engagement;
- hen and stag parties;
- exchange of wedding rings;
- showering of young sweets, petals, rice, millet, etc .;
- dance of the young;
- throwing a bouquet and garter;
- launching pigeons;
- the wedding cake;
- gifts to parents.
The list of traditions is wide. It includes the main components of any wedding. They can be supplemented by others or modified in accordance with the wishes of the bride and groom. But in the bulk they are preserved. Almost no couple can deny themselves the pleasure of having fun before the wedding at stag and hen parties. And not to give gifts to people who gave life is a crime on such a day. Identifying the next in line for family happiness has also become a good tradition.
Congratulations to the young
As for the guests, they also want to be as original as possible. To do this, they come up with all kinds of ways to surprise the newlyweds and their guests. Reading a greeting from a postcard and giving a present is considered trivial. It is much more interesting to congratulate young people with songs of their own composition or perform an original dance. It will be useful to compose and show a sketch from a large and friendly family. Such congratulations will be remembered for a long time in the memory of young people and guests. Pop stars can congratulate the young. Such modern wedding greetings will make a lasting impression. This will allow you to show your talents and your extraordinary.
A successful modern wedding involves many nuances. Their observance is mandatory for all invited and newlyweds. It is necessary to choose a professional presenter and carefully develop a scenario, invite relatives and relatives to your celebration, come up with modern wedding contests. Then you can put on a beautiful outfit and enjoy your deeds. The main thing is to love and be loved, and the organization of the holiday can be entrusted to professionals. May you live happily ever after!