Few people know what tantric sex is. But it is he who in difficult circumstances can soften and improve relations in a pair. Moreover, its essence lies not only in physical pleasure, but also in psychological. It is designed to establish a psychological connection between partners, to harmonize their relationship.
First you need to recall what sexual intercourse is. This is genital contact between individuals in order to procreate or enjoy. The latter applies to humans. He needs to enjoy it, and tantra can help in mastering the methods of getting something more than just sexual intercourse.
Tantra originated in India. The Indian followers of this teaching believe that tantric sex increases the sensitivity and refinement of the person who uses it, leads to a deep knowledge of his inner world, union with God and finding harmony.
This type of sex has many specific features. There must be a strong spiritual connection between partners, you cannot do without it. A strict taboo is imposed on the ejaculation, since, together with the release of sperm, the man also leaves the life force. The process of tantra sex should go slowly, slowly. Partners during it do not make any unnecessary movements, but only enjoy each other's bodies and inner world. The highest point of pleasure is getting an orgasm. Sexologists have found that in men, an orgasm lasts no more than twelve seconds, and most women do not experience it at all.
Tantric sex is characterized by a long duration of this highest point of satisfaction, moreover, a man and a woman must experience an orgasm at the same time, so that the effect intensifies several more times. To please your partner in tantra is considered a matter of honor and duty of a man.
This can be learned. But provided that the person who wished to do this is set up to know his inner world and seek harmony. It must be emphasized that the main thing in this lesson is proper meditation, those who are looking only for “sex, sex and again sex” will soon be disappointed and begin to blame their disappointment for what’s unclear what and who.
Before you begin the process itself, you need to acquire some skills in the art of yoga. Then, after overcoming this stage, it takes almost a whole year to go through a new one, which is called the "stage of adoration." First, a man suffers various humiliations from a woman, is obliged to sleep at her feet. Then, after four months, he can lie down beside her - on the left side. And again, after four months, the partners switch places. And most importantly - for this whole year there should not be a hint of any kind of sex, even the most innocent one. Thus, novice tantrists adapt to, so to speak, an atmosphere that will reign when they regularly practice tantric sex.
A significant role in the development of tantra is played by good sensuality. You can develop it in many ways. For example, listening to a song, you need to try to catch any instrumental part present in it. There is also an exercise with a partner. It consists in memorizing and recognizing any material with a single touch. You can find several pieces of different tissues and ask your loved one to alternately touch them to any part of the body. Anyone who needs to guess the fabric, soon after this exercise will feel that it develops softness and all that is required for successful tantric sex.
Tantric practices cannot be skipped when mastering the laws of tantra, because they are its beginning, the basis, without which further progress in this area cannot take place.