From a young age (11-14 years old normal), the weaker sex begins to visit menstruation. Woman is a delicate and sensitive nature. And during the “these days”, in addition to the emotional state, it happens that a woman has painful sensations in the abdomen, back, etc. More often than not, non-standard sex is offered by men. And girls are not against it. But they face a lot of questions. Is it possible or not? Why can not have sex during menstruation? How safe is it? Yes, there is still a lot of incomprehensible in this matter. Let's figure it out in order.
Menses
Any girl hates menstruation, but the desire to become a mother helps to put up with the monthly cycle. At the reproductive age (from the first month to the climax), the female body is renewed every menstrual cycle, so that a new egg is always ready for fertilization.
The weaker sex experiences all hardships and hardships approximately every 28 days (plus or minus 7 days). But with the onset of sexual activity, partners also have difficulties. It is difficult for men to understand the true reasons for refusing to have sex during menstruation. They are alien to the sensations that the girl experiences during critical days, except, perhaps, aversion and disgust.
The partner wants to have sex during menstruation, and you do not
Of course, not all men are sexually preoccupied. Many will not persuade a girl to have sex against her will. But if persistent offers are received, and penetration is categorically unacceptable for you (there is discomfort or pain during this period), this should not become a reason for losing a good guy. There are several options:
- Try to talk, show on the Internet or on paper the reasons for your refusal.
- Go to an appointment with a gynecologist together.
- Recall other ways to have sex.
Do not forget that female vibes and odors during the period of renewal of the body are a catalyst for sexual activity for susceptible males.
The weaker sex really wants
Even before the onset of menstruation, hormonal failure occurs, which affects frequent mood swings. This period is known to any adult man. For them, it sounds like the mysterious abbreviation PMS (premenstrual syndrome).
The hormones of happiness secreted by orgasm are an excellent antidepressant. Sex during menstruation, if there is no pain, gives more vivid emotions for both partners. Abundant discharge, an increase in the walls of the vagina, and increased sensitivity make the orgasm sharper and emotions brighter. If a woman’s desire coincides with the ability to satisfy her harmless impulse, do not limit yourself. It is only necessary to take into account some features of such sexual intercourse.
How to have sex during menstruation?
When an obstacle for a couple is only the aesthetic side of an intimate question, the solution is simple - a shower. Due to this, spotting and a characteristic smell will become less pronounced. Do not take a bath on days of such discharge. It is dangerous without sex in the "red days". You can compare with an open wound.
Even if the expression “which is natural is not ugly” is normal for your couple, you will nevertheless have to prepare.
Take towels to protect the bed from the bloody trail, take care of contraception. Sexual intercourse can cause discomfort. It is better to give preference to the pose where the girl is lying on her back - this will reduce pressure and copious discharge. During penetration, ask your partner not to rush. If you experience pain, slow down the process. After all, the inflamed reproductive system requires caution. After the climax, take a shower.
Unprotected intercourse at the beginning of the menstrual cycle minimizes the risk of conception, but there is still the possibility of becoming pregnant. Quite often, modern ladies choose a tampon as a means of hygiene of the genitals on the days of menstruation. Some leave him while having sex. Gynecologists do not recommend the classic version of intercourse with a swab in the vagina.
Why can not you have sex during menstruation with a swab inside?
- The tampon intensively absorbs moisture, making it difficult to slip the penis.
- Passes deep into the "delicate" organ.
- It provokes injuries and pain in both partners.
On anal, oral and other ways of satisfaction is not affected, on the contrary, will help maintain the aesthetics of the event.
The benefits of eating the forbidden fruit
For the stronger sex, such an unusual process is more likely to bring moral satisfaction than benefit. After all, he was well done, helped the beloved normalize her emotional stress, coped with her increased libido in difficult days.
A reverent attitude and a moderate pace of love joys can relieve uterine tension and reduce the pain of dysmenorrhea. Internal stimulation of the muscles of a healthy reproductive system during the renewal of the body will help shorten the period of menstruation.
For lovers, such a frank intimacy as sex during menstruation can affect your usual lifestyle. It is better to discuss intimate moments of this nature in advance, avoiding embarrassing situations during a passionate rush.
The reverse side of temptation
After learning about the benefits of sex during menstruation, you should pay attention to the existing risks from the "bloody" connection.
Intimate places are quite vulnerable. The natural acidic environment of the vagina helps to destroy harmful bacteria and fungi and protects against damage to the appendages. During the period of menstruation, the existing daily hygiene of the genitals leads to the destruction of an acceptable environment, and external intervention with non-sterile objects or parts of the body increases the chance of infection. This is the danger of sex during menstruation. Disease can be prevented by observing cleanliness before and after the act, with both partners. Contraception should not be neglected either.
Pain in the lower abdomen before or during menstruation indicates the presence of inflammation in the organs of the reproductive system. Most often these are symptoms of dysmenorrhea. The presence of such a pathology is accompanied by headaches and certainly does not excite.
If pain occurred during intercourse, then try to slow down, perhaps this is a consequence of excessive activity, and there is no reason for concern. At a moderate pace, the pain did not stop? It is worth contacting a gynecologist.
Regardless of whether you are protected or not, sex during menstruation can lead to endometriosis. On critical days, blood comes out with other secretions. But it doesn’t completely come out - through the genital tubes a small amount enters the abdominal cavity. In this case, the probability of developing endometriosis is high.
Blood entering the urethra of men can also cause inflammation. Intercourse on “red” days can trigger bleeding or prolong menstruation.
Contraception during spicy sex
Today, with any sexual intercourse, the most effective protection is a condom. Having a regular partner, the girl is confident in his integrity towards her. But still, a condom will be a reliable remedy for an unplanned pregnancy. After all, menstruation does not protect 100%.
It is not worth mentioning the need to use a condom with female promiscuity. A chaotic intimate life, especially of the fair sex, to put it mildly, adversely affects health.
Marital Duty Alternative
The proximity of spouses, frank stories about their secret desires in bed - a rather delicate issue. A loving man will not insist on all kinds of perversions that are not characteristic of his half. And sex during menstruation cannot be called traditional. But there are safer ways to “caress the dear.”
It is no secret that the physiological needs of the body are very individual. So how can you satisfy the sexual appetite of a husband who is deprived of classic comforts?
For such cases, there are quite acceptable solutions:
- Fellatio penis hands spouse will bring a lot of pleasure.
- Continuing stimulation with oral caresses, you can lead your loved one to ejaculate.
- Anal coition is also widespread in couples. It requires training.
What do the doctor's say?
Most female health professionals speak out negatively regarding the invasion of the “bleeding shrine,” based on the high probability of a healthy person’s illness.
Actually, medical contraindications are given individually, for example, with dysmenorrhea. With thrush, colpitis, or with bacterial vaginosis, they also advise lovers to tolerate. In order to protect yourself and your loved one, it is better to play it safe and consult your gynecologist.
Can I have sex during menstruation? You must answer. After all, no one can ban. But even in the absence of contraindications, it is necessary to follow the recommendations on safety and prevention of family health.