Almost every woman at least once in her life was abandoned by her beloved man. Not so important - he went into the void or to another woman: pain and resentment, as well as a feeling of disappointment will visit you in any case. How to keep guys and independently manage the development of relationships? Can a loser become a permanent winner?
How to become special for your man?
If you feel that your relationship is on the verge, it's time to try to change something. The secret to keeping guys is simple: men linger alongside those women with whom they are comfortable. Think about how much you limit your boyfriend? Are you trying to impose his own views and beliefs on him or change his usual way of life? This is the wrong tactic: if you really want to stay with him for a long time, you will have to accept and share all his interests and habits. In no case do not limit his communication with friends, try to join their company or calmly let him go spend time in the male circle. If your main wish is: "I want to keep a guy!" - try to imagine with what girl he would like to be together. Your main task is to support and understand it, as well as to take care and not to bother. You should always be different - do not be afraid to experiment, to offer the most unusual options for joint entertainment. If he is not bored with you, it is unlikely that he will want to delete you from his own life in the near future.
How to keep guys: add a little bitchiness
You must demonstrate self-confidence with all your appearance. Never be jealous of him unreasonably. When asking who comments on his posts on social networks or calls him, you show your fear of losing him and, consequently, insecurity in his attractiveness and interest. But indifference is not worth it. The best position is to demonstrate that you are very happy to be with him, but you’ll survive the gap if something happens. Do not forget about your friends and interests. If you are always together, then it will be useful for you to spend a couple of nights a week separately. Soon you will understand how to keep the guys.
All men are conquerors by nature, so it should seem to him that theoretically you can leave when you wish. In other words, not dissolving completely in each other, but leaving a bit of free space for everyone, you continue to remain interesting people for each other .
What if the opponent still appeared?
One of the most common female questions: "How to keep a beloved guy, if he has already got a mistress?" The most important thing is without panic, the situation can always be saved. Do not make scandals; best of all do not give the appearance that you know about his infidelity. You have to become better than your rival and make sure that he notices it in time. Pay him more attention, try to communicate on neutral topics and talk about his problems. Try to organize interesting leisure activities and make small romantic surprises for him. Learn how to cook deliciously if you haven’t been able to before, and try something new in bed. Most likely, upon learning such an updated, interesting you, he will not want to waste his time on someone else.