Legends are made up of these days and even jokes are told because there is not a single man who has never been touched by the unpredictable behavior of a woman during critical days. First of all, such increased attention is caused by the fact that women during menstruation become more psychologically vulnerable and emotionally unstable, which will certainly affect their normal behavior. Increased swelling, moods and constant mood changes due to raging hormones are only a small part of the not very pleasant symptoms accompanying menstruation.
However, the right approach to the mood of a beloved woman in such a difficult period will help any man not only avoid annoying misunderstandings in communicating with her, but even help not to deprive the partner and herself of the pleasure of carnal pleasures, since the opinion that you can not have sex during menstruation out of date.
The opinion of gynecologists
Of course, a lot of questions certainly arise. Is it dangerous to health? What are the contraindications? What should you think about first? You can find the answers to these questions in the article.
On the topic of whether it is possible to have sex during menstruation, there are two polar opinions of gynecologists: some strongly oppose such an action, arguing that this can lead to diseases such as cervical erosion, endometritis and even infertility in the background, for example , decreased immunity in women.
Other gynecologists, most of whom say that sex during menstruation is quite possible, explaining this with many advantages, which include a decrease in pain and an easier flow of menstruation. In any case, a particular pair should think and make a decision about whether this is possible or not.
The myth of the inability to get pregnant during critical days
First, let's talk about a fairly common misconception that during critical days it is impossible to get pregnant. This opinion is groundless, since the period most favorable for conception is ovulation, which usually happens closer to the middle of the menstrual cycle, but there is a possibility of its shift by several days. And since sperm are able to remain viable for a long time, while in the female body, become pregnant by practicing sex during menstruation, it is possible, which confirms the practice. Therefore, first of all, partners need to take care of contraception.
Possible trouble
It is also necessary to remember that during the period of menstruation, a woman is at great risk of contracting unpleasant sores, since blood is a wonderful environment for the growth of bacteria. And since the cervix is ajar, sex during menstruation allows the infection to penetrate deep inside, which can subsequently lead to inflammation of the mucous membrane inside this important female organ.
It should be borne in mind that, due to a decrease in the amount of natural lubricant that is washed out during the natural process, this additional barrier to pathogens disappears. The use of contraceptives will help to avoid all these troubles that threaten women's health, and preference should be given to their barrier species.
Arguments for"
A big plus is that during the period of menstruation in the organisms of the beautiful half of humanity, the levels of estrogen and testosterone increase significantly, which inevitably leads to an increase in female libido. Of course, if the female hormonal system is functioning correctly. The increased hormonal background allows a woman to experience more vivid sexual sensations.
The question arises: can sex during menstruation be used as a tool to more quickly achieve a woman's orgasm? Will this help make sex more intense in terms of sensations? Yes, no doubt. Moreover, the fact that the vagina narrows due to the powerful influx of blood to this organ also has this fact, which makes the sensations as bright as possible for both men and women.
Additional active contractions of the uterus during orgasm lead to intensive separation of endometrial tissue, which shortens the period of menstruation and reduces the pain of sensations, due to the fact that the female body releases natural pain blockers at this time. Only in rare cases, sex can increase periodic pain. This can be due to various factors - from too strong frictions to the characteristics of a particular female body.
Important hygiene rules
Mandatory hygiene rules will help a couple who have sex during menstruation, eliminate unpleasant moments and will avoid the occurrence of health problems. First of all, both partners need to take a shower, approaching this process more scrupulously than in ordinary times.
It is advisable to use special intimate hygienic gels, which are currently offered in large quantities by the pharmaceutical industry. Girls are not recommended to do deep douching, since the natural environment of the vagina, which is a protective barrier against the penetration of microbes, is also washed with blood.
Important preparatory moment
It is also necessary to think in advance about where the action itself will take place. Sex during menstruation in the usual place - the bed, without preliminary preparation of the "bridgehead", threatens the couple with a completely unromantic end to a pleasant night, since you will have to spend time on cleaning the spots that will appear.
A very practical, but very prosaic method will be the use of disposable hygienic diapers, and, of course, reusable oilcloths will become even more inappropriate for a gentle relationship. The couple will feel much more comfortable sitting on a large and dense towel, which may become the only affected item. A shower cabin can also be a good alternative, because the consequences are remarkably eliminated, and instantly.
Most suitable positions
You can have sex during your period, using the most suitable positions for this period, excluding deep penetration in order to avoid the appearance of sad bloody consequences and discomfort and pain in a woman. The partner needs to be as careful about the process as possible, because it is easy to understand that he will be different from sex in normal times.
Sexologists note that for sex during menstruation you can practice in the “butterfly” position, when the partner is located on the edge of the bed, with her legs resting on the shoulders of the partner standing in front of her. Another common posture on such days is the well-known missionary position.
Soft tampons to the rescue
It should be noted in the article a very useful and cutest in appearance hygienic product, invented by German gynecologists. These are the so-called Soft tampons, made in the shape of a heart and very similar in structure to a soft porous sponge. These tampons are made of components that are safe in composition and perfectly absorb, and the soft structure of the heart allows you to absolutely not feel it inside during sex.
When using such a tampon, only one small difficulty can arise - it is its removal after use. Since this hygiene product does not have ropes or shoelaces, but only an inconspicuous slot to be removed with your finger, you may need some skill to fulfill your plan.
When sex during menstruation is not possible
And yet, you should sometimes listen to the opinion of gynecologists and take into account that during menstruation you can not have sex if the woman's discharge is plentiful and she experiences severe pain. In order for a man to understand that he should stop and postpone sex, he needs to be more attentive than usual to any reactions from his partner. Absolutely, sex during menstruation cannot be continued, and should be completed immediately if the partner felt ill.
As for the aesthetics of the process, everything is pretty simple. You should take into account your habits and not try to break yourself for the sake of your loved one. Sex during menstruation should not be allowed if one of the couple does not accept the type of blood, as this can threaten not only loss of consciousness, but also a deterioration in the relationship between partners, which, of course, is a rather rare case.
More often, people who love each other, on the contrary, begin to trust each other more, and men even become more caring in relation to their beloved girls.