The sensual side of life has always been considered fertile ground for all kinds of experiments, even in Puritan times. And although the sexual revolution has long passed, many types of intimate entertainment are still a shocking discovery for many people. What is ballbasting? The stories that literally flooded the information computer network can create a false impression and cause a wrong reaction. What is it really about?
What is ballbasting?
The English word busting is a fairly broad concept that can be translated as “ruin”, “destruction”, “destruction” or “suppression”. That is, it is a kind of destructive violent action that some objects are subjected to. And the objects in this case are “balls”, and these are not balls for sports games, but the common slang name of the male testicles.
For some, the real shock is the news that torture of the scrotum may seem to someone an interesting and exciting idea - this is ballbasting. Stories about amazing feelings and a new sexual experience are somewhat contrary to the well-known fact: a blow to the genitals is not just painful, it is also unhealthy. How do such diametrically opposed things fit together?
Important principles of BDSM
You should not compare the torture practiced in BDSM with a deliberate desire to cripple, deliver physical suffering to a person who is categorically against such violence against himself. Ballbasting can be an element of role-playing, dominance or sadomasochistic relationships. However, the voluntary consent of each partner, trust and security remain the most important principle.
Those stories about ballbasting where elements of violence are savored without the consent of the victim are nothing more than fantasies. In the real world, this is classified as bodily harm of varying severity, beating, and violent acts that are punishable under the provisions of the criminal code.
Safety regulations
In BDSM, the male scrotum can be affected only with the consent of the partner. In this case, the word “torture” is only a generalizing term, but it necessarily lies in the framework of reasonable security, otherwise it would be very tragic stories. Ballbasting is spanking, tweaking, squeezing and twisting the scrotum. There may be electric shock, in some cases punctures may be practiced, but this requires the highest degree of trust in the partner and his qualifications. The main condition - no harm to physical health, even if it comes to kicking. The force of impact is measured in such a way as not to cause irreparable damage. Beginners can better start with ice cubes and tickling with a special feather panicle. For impressionable people, this can also be torture.
The main fuse in BDSM sessions is a stop word, after which any game stops. If the ability to speak is limited by a gag, then in this case a conditional sign with the same effect is specified. Stop-word is assigned in order not to confuse role-based pleas for mercy with this team to stop. This approach eliminates any possibility of misinterpretation of signals from the one who chose the role of the victim.
Real ballbasting: stories from life or fantasy?
The intimate side of life is so subtle and delicate that there should be no place in it for the principle "I will start - you will like it." This misconception is caused by sexual illiteracy and a lack of sensitivity between partners. An anonymous express survey among users of an information computer network yielded truly shocking results. It is traditional and “right” sexual relations in many cases that are associated with the imposition of unpleasant and painful practices, when the other side is deprived of the right to express their dissatisfaction and refuse. Emotional blackmail, manipulation, and other unpleasant methods of influence aimed at making another person obey are used. BDSM provides for an open and honest discussion, voluntary consent and concern for the needs of a partner, even if it is a ballbasting. Stories about how someone was beaten in the groin, and then he liked it, these are just pornographic stories.
Emotional component
What is the essence of this strange practice? Why do men agree to torture and even desire it? First of all, it is worth remembering that it is not torture itself that excites, but the expectation of pain, anticipation. Fear plays an important role here - it makes the heart beat faster, adrenaline spills into the blood. In such conditions, even a light slap on the scrotum becomes a kind of “warning shot”, the imagination immediately complets to what extent it hurts if we act in full force. The adrenaline wave rises above, emotional return becomes maximum.
Read stories and stories about ballbasting really can become an impetus for erotic fantasies. But they do not have to be implemented in order to get an exciting effect.