Which man does not like sex? Unfortunately, this most enjoyable of physical activities can lead to dangerous, irreparable consequences. Sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies lie in wait for men in literally every club. It would seem that those who have a constant sexual partner, healthy and faithful, can breathe a sigh of relief and enjoy free intercourse with a maximum of sensations. But the likelihood of becoming parents after 9 months, for which you are not prepared neither materially nor morally, remains high.
And if sexual partners change with the change of the day of the week, reliable protection is needed, which today is a condom.
Basic concepts
What is a condom? This is a contraceptive that will provide quality protection for partners against AIDS, hepatitis, gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia and trichomoniasis. Modern latex condoms are safe and practically do not cause allergies. Minimum subtlety preserves maximum sensations. Moreover, the product does not have a harmful effect on the body, is not hormonal and has no contraindications.
Understood the concept of what to do next?
Realizing the importance and necessity of using a condom, a representative of a strong half of humanity goes to the nearest store and confidently declares: “Give this package!” With even greater zeal, he goes to the place of the intended use of the subject of protection, and here the fun begins.
At the most piquant moment, it turns out that condoms are large or short or narrow or wide. A much bigger incident if they are overdue, substandard or defective. Result: the evening is spoiled, the partner is not satisfied, the man is indignant and confused.
Security issue
Experts say that those who know what condoms are and are able to use them correctly can expect 99% protection from STIs and unplanned pregnancies. Condom breaks in 1 case out of 1000. Therefore, information that this is a fragile and unreliable way of protection during sexual intercourse can be considered an absolute fiction.
A lot of research has been done on this topic. The results of each of them are almost identical. Perhaps the problem is with users. For tidy men who put on a latex product sedately and without haste, it never breaks. When it is impossible to curb the impulse of passion, tears, cracks and other troubles are commonplace.
It is possible that the whole blame for the lack of the proper amount of information about the rules for using the subject. Every fourth person who chooses a condom as a means of protection has never seen a slow demonstration of the correct process of putting it on and its subsequent use. And if you have any questions? Who should I ask them to?
The question of choosing and using a condom does not tolerate hasty and rash decisions. On the contrary, only a calm and thoughtful attitude will work here. To help men in love with sex, an article on what a condom is, how to choose it and how to use it.
Where to buy?
In order to protect yourself from fakes of expensive brands, expired or low-quality goods, you will have to forget about dubious round-the-clock stalls, kiosks at stops, etc. Even in large chain supermarkets, intimate goods may be unsuitable for safe use.
Only a pharmacy can guarantee that contraceptives are stored under appropriate conditions and do not lose their declared properties throughout the entire shelf life. It is important to check the expiration date, which is usually indicated on the cardboard packaging.
If condoms are used with an enviable frequency, it is advisable to purchase large packs of 12 or more pieces. This will save a little, and in the case of unplanned intercourse to stay fully armed.
About materials: widespread latex
Today, the vast majority of condoms are made from synthetic material - latex. With minimal fineness, it shows good strength and elasticity. Effectively protects against AIDS, a number of other sexually transmitted diseases, unplanned conception. Affordable for the average man and will not cause problems in use.
It has latex and disadvantages. This includes the likelihood of a rupture with intense friction or pressure, absolute incompatibility with grease based on fat (they lead to the destruction of the material) and a banal allergy to latex. By the way, the last problem today is increasingly pestering both men and women. The main symptoms are redness in the area of contact, rash, dizziness, headaches.
Perfect polyurethane
In response to a question about which condoms are the best, any specialist will say: "Polyurethane." They are 2 times stronger and at the same time can be 3 times thinner. Their surface is noticeably smoother, thermal conductivity is several points ahead. Of the greases you can use the most diverse. Condoms fit perfectly to the body and minimize the chance of slipping.
However, a drop of tar was found in this huge barrel of honey. Polyurethane varieties are 4-6 times more expensive than latex. Not everyone can afford to use them on an ongoing basis.
Vintage leather
The skin or gut of a lamb is still used to make protective equipment. Can a condom protect against STDs? Not! At the same time, it is expensive and deteriorates from lubricants. There is no need to talk about realistic feelings. But they do not clog the environment and quickly decompose, unlike their latex and polyurethane competitors.
Their only justified purpose is to buy as a souvenir.
Size matters
What is a condom in terms of length and width? Ultra-thin case that has various sizes. Characteristically, a measure of width is more important than a measure of length. Judge for yourself, too wide a condom can slip in a fit of passion, a narrow one will rub, crush, cause discomfort, and the likelihood of it breaking will increase several times.
When choosing a size you need to know what to consider as a guide. It will not be superfluous to make preliminary measurements of self-worth. For those who do not want to push the most favorite part of the body into the framework, you can go for a long and complicated trial and error method - each time you buy a new size condom and look for the perfect one. Only choosing the right one can hope for maximum safety and fullness of sensations.
The fact that regardless of the measurements of a man is amusing, in the world there are only a few standardized sizes. European standard: length - at least 170 millimeters, width from 45 to 55 millimeters, and the most common width - 52 millimeters. For reference: this indicator is equal to half the circumference.
In Russia, condoms are the largest: according to state standard 4645-81, the following sizes exist: length 178 mm (+/- 2), width 54 mm (+/- 2).
Wall thickness is a separate issue. The most common indicator is 0.06 millimeters. Super-thin latex condoms offer a wall thickness of 0.045 millimeters. While standard polyurethane have only 0.02 millimeters.
To make a choice, just familiarize yourself with the data presented on the package. Please note that this is not about the bright sticker Large XXL, but about the information presented on the back. Specific data on the parameters of the products contained inside is presented here.
Texture and shape
To meet the needs of all categories of customers, manufacturers have created a wide range of products that differ in surface texture.
So, contraceptives are:
- Smooth - a classic option for lovers of simplicity and comfort.
- Tight fitting - made in anatomical form, repeats the slightest bends of the body. Through a condom this form partners get the maximum sensation.
- Textured. Their surface is covered with pimples, ribs, rings, has a spiral shape. In the process of frictions, the walls of the vagina and the trunk of the penis receive additional stimulation.
- With nozzles. The purpose of such products is in most cases decorative. It is likely that the condom will remain inside the partner. Then the scenario of the evening will change dramatically.
Lubricant - varieties of grease
All existing condoms can be divided into 2 types: those with lubricant and those without it. The times when they were produced with dry and slightly powdered talcum powder have sunk into oblivion, and today we can enjoy all the benefits of smooth penetration.
Lubricants are of the following types:
- Standard silicone. Below is a photo of a condom treated with this type of lubricant.
- Plentiful. Double dose of lubricant.
- With a good taste. For oral sex.
- Flavored. With the scents of citrus, chocolate and vanilla.
- With an antiseptic. Reduces sensitivity, thereby prolonging sexual intercourse.
- Spermicidal. The active ingredient Nonoxinol-9 slows down sperm motility, which minimizes the risk of conception.
- Glowing. A phosphorescent substance is added to the grease, which emits a blue-green light in the dark.
Popular manufacturers
In an effort to maximize safety, it is advisable to purchase well-known brands of condoms. Creating a recognizable brand is an extremely costly process. Therefore, manufacturers will maintain a consistently high level of quality for their products.
For example, Contex condoms. A brand with a worldwide reputation, which confidently takes one of the leading positions in the market of contraceptives. Each package has an official stamp with the batch number and expiration date of the product. For information, these data are applied to an individual bag with the product. For the safety of the latex condom and the lubricant in which it is located, a protective foil package is used, which protects the product from damaging sunlight and other damage.
Case for small. It remains to properly wear a condom. Haste and lack of assemble in this matter will play a cruel joke. It is necessary to check the integrity of the bag, carefully tear it and get the product. Squeeze the tip with your thumb and forefinger, put it on the head of the penis, and slowly swing the other hand along the trunk to the base. After use, carefully remove, taking care not to spill the contents, and discard.