You are alone, but how many of you!
How to affectionately call your girlfriend? Beloved, only, dear, mine, kitten, baby, sun, bunny, sweetheart, joy, flower, my star, darling, my soul, my queen, Your Majesty, my happiness ... How many different words are in verses and prose, beautiful and frankly strange for thousands of years has been spoken to women! How to deal with this, what will she like? And do you even have to fool yourself with this?
How many people, so many names! Notice, there are much more affectionate names than official names! After all, common names are often repeated, and these ... in general, they are like aroma, style, the image of a loved one, like, say, shoes ... You can see them on several women, but only on yours they sit in a special way. Or a hairstyle, manicure ... but who knows what? Your woman is a complex of external and internal data (a clear explanation for techies), in other words, it is a whole world created for you! How to affectionately call your girlfriend so that she likes your name?
Whom do you call: her, or ...
The affectionate name you give your girlfriend does not mean what she is, but who she is for you, how you relate to her. Speaking literally, you name your feelings for her, conveying her image in your perception, through special words that are completely understandable only to you two. How affectionately call a girl? After all, from this moment intimacy begins. Affectionate words - this is very important in a relationship between a man and a woman, because women love with their ears.
Mountains of books are written about the meaning of a name in human life. As the name affects your fate, the affectionate names that are given to each other in pairs determine the fate of lovers. Indeed, “As you call a yacht, it will sail!”
Never try to name a new girl after your ex. Create a new one, then call it in a new way. She is a new page in life, perhaps happiness is knocking on your door with her. You parted with your ex because you didn’t have happiness: it doesn’t matter for her or yours, the main thing is that your couple did not become happy. So why should new happiness give the name of a former misfortune? To pull the burden of the old negativity into a new life? Communicate more with your girlfriend, sometimes just watch her, you need to know her to understand if you need her, and the name will be born by itself. And it will be only her name, the name of your relationship with her.
Are girls' best friends diamonds?
Some men will object that they say I can’t express my feelings in words, I can’t think of something, it’s not characteristic of me, and do they need these kind words for my beloved? The girl needs gifts , flowers or help in something, because the language of feelings is different. It is possible in another way. But love and sex require diversity! Relationships do not tolerate routine, monotony, routine. Flowers, even if they are the most beautiful and different, become boring every day ... Domestic help becomes a habit, but what about the words? After all, it’s just meaningless sounds ... Yes, it is, and the best words are not needed if they are false and not backed up by deeds. But a simple "my beloved, the only one", said sincerely, can cost more than a gold ring, presented with a cold narcissistic smile. Try to be different in the manifestation of feelings. It is always good for a relationship.
Bunny, cat or lady? Need to figure it out.
Much depends on the occupation of the couple, education, worldview, cultural traditions, education. If you are a humanist, the main thing is not to go into their praises in the wilds. The girl must understand why you say to her: “my star” (and this is the appeal of the unrequitedly in love with French diplomat de Brillie to his love Anastasia Yaguzhinsky). How to affectionately call a beloved girl if she is a representative of a new youth subculture? The young creature from the group is unlikely to accept the appeal: "Ma'am, do not deign to taste this divine French wine?" But she also will not be delighted with the enthusiastic: "you are cool, like my new program!" Even if you are both bikers, she will not want to be called the latest generation tire model, despite the fact that this tire model has conquered the latest car show and costs a lot of money.
If the option is not suitable for her: cat-bunnies, babies - there is an opportunity to "play" with her name: Galya - Galchonok, Nadia - Nyusha, etc. Many use nicknames from social networks or images of their favorite movie characters. In general, the field for imagination is unlimited. It would be a desire and feelings.
It is clear that "... such an infection - the girl of my dreams" - will not lead to anything good, bright, and, for life, will not lead. And if it happens that for life, then, as they say, God forbid!
How affectionately to call your girlfriend - you decide. Call it in such a way that you want to repeat this name again and again, so that your heart feels warm and joyful, because it means that you love it.