Pickup is the art of seduction. And although now the phrase "pickup master" is often used as a mockery and irony of an unsuccessful boyfriend, this does not mean that sarcasm is the only answer to an attempt to seduce. It just needs to be able to. Pickup phrases can be funky, witty, funny and funny. It is important not only to know them, but also to be able to use them in different situations. We will consider their most diverse variations.
What is a pickup truck and what does it eat with
Initially, a pickup was understood as a whole complex of measures and actions, thanks to which it was possible to seduce a girl. Now, firstly, pickup phrases are becoming much more popular (so, for example, you can “hook” on social networks where verbal communication becomes the basis). And secondly, not only girls can seduce with this technique. Increasingly widespread are the phrases of a female pickup truck with its own characteristics.
Some terminology
The pickup is based on templates, with the correct use of which you can get acquainted with almost any girl. Pick-up phrases for girls in the language of this art are called "openers." They are usually tested by practice and actually effective.
Examples of club openers:
- Can I treat you / you?
- Hi beauty. What are we drinking?
Pickup Rules
Before starting to consider pick-up phrases, it is necessary to say a little about its rules:
- It is necessary to act carefully, but persistently. An explosive mixture - it is necessary to clearly maintain the proportionality of these two components. On the one hand, not to become too intrusive, on the other hand, to nevertheless clearly show that he intends to get his way anyway.
- Internal readiness: one, zero ... let's go! The main feature of the pickup is sociability. He should always be ready to talk. Talk a lot. Talk to anyone. This means the ability to start a conversation with any person, to be able to captivate him with the topic of conversation, to intrigue, interest, like.
- Do not be afraid of failure. Even the most professional pick-up may be denied. For example, a woman who knows how to professionally "solve" pick-up techniques. Or a girl who has a young man, and she no longer needs anyone. You never know.
- Learn body language. Subtle gestures, the way a person tilts his head and holds his hand, shrugs - all this has a certain connotation. This may show interest - and the pickup will be given a sign to continue in the same vein, or, conversely, hostility - and you need to either retreat or look for a different approach.
- Add a pinch of negativity. Pouring solid honey is not always good. "Honey is so sweet that it is finally bitter. Too much taste kills the taste." Remember this.
- Do not lie. Everyone watched "What are the men talking about?" One very important truth was told there: when a guy says to a girl, "they came to me, we’ll look at my collection of lute music of the 19th century", and he and she perfectly understand that they are not going for this at all. There is no place for straightforwardness. But open lies too. Do not give false hope. After all, a pikaper never sets himself the goal of marrying another beauty.
- Sometimes you have to wait. Each conquest is a new project, and sometimes it takes time. Step by step you will achieve yours.
How to hook a girl
Pickup phrases that cling to themselves don't mean anything. You can learn a couple of these, but say "off topic" and as a result, get only a puzzled look in response, or even worse. It is necessary to imbue the spirit of seduction - to understand the features of charming wit, from which the girls will be delighted.
Does your mom need a son-in-law?
It is necessary to clearly distinguish between relevant and beautiful pick-up phrases, those that have already become a button accordion and associated with the weaker sex only with annoying and boring boyfriends, and those that are outdated and familiar to everyone, but they can be screwed into the conversation as a joke.
For example, the phrase: “Your mother needs a son-in-law” has already turned into an established joke, so it can be turned into a conversation like: “I was wondering how to approach you. I’m already asking about my son-in-law, but I really want to!”
Individual approach
A pickup truck is not a “take off” technique right away with a dozen girls per day. This is the ability to find an individual approach to each. So pickup phrases may not be a universal solution to the problem of dating. Although some of them are designed in such a way as to catch on some common topics, without going into details and details.
Girls can not only not like very template pickup phrases, but also insult their interlocutor, that is, they will make it clear that the guy does not see her identity and, moreover, does not respect her, therefore, you need to be careful.
Use original phrases, for example: "Hello, did you order a man?" or "Listen, do you like men?"
If I can make you laugh, why can't we be together?
Girls love guys with a sense of humor. This is an absolute and unshakable truth. That’s why pickup phrases are very popular and funny, because if a girl is sad, and the guy managed to make her smile at least a bit - this is a very, very good sign. People generally tend to remember who makes their mood.
Go to the girl you like and ask her: "You will not tell me how to meet you?"
Hello how are you
Have you ever noticed how rarely with already familiar people we start a conversation with the usual "hi-quack"? In fact, this phrase has already become so battered that it really needs to be used as rarely as possible, and it does not matter whether you are familiar or completely unfamiliar. If a girl receives such a message on VKontakte, it is unlikely to make any impression on her. Unless it suggests that the guy writes this to everyone and everyone in the hope that at least someone will respond. Pick-up phrases for girls on the Internet are generally a separate conversation, because this is a territory of letters, emoticons and audio recordings, which a real pick-up also needs to be able to manage.
Never start a conversation with hackneyed phrases. But sometimes the triviality can be “twisted” a little in the other direction, having received the original beginning of the conversation. For example: "Hello, girl! Do you know ... me?"
Read it like a book
Have to become Sherlock Holmes. No kidding. The best pick-up phrases are aimed specifically at a specific female. They are connected with her hobbies (in fact, everything is not so complicated, the appearance betrays a person’s personality), her personality traits (no, a strong-willed chin and a thoughtful look are actually far from rubbish).
If she is reading a book, ask about the book, if I saw that she had stopped at something, look at exactly what interested her. Ask to tell about it - she will definitely be interested.
This works great, by the way, on social networks. For example, she has a photograph against the backdrop of the Coliseum, write to her: "Do you love Rome the way I love it?"
Invisible compliments
All people love when their pride is amusing. Girls in particular. And you can play on it. To praise her style, for example, with the phrase "You have an amazing taste in clothes. Are you probably a stylist?"
How do these pickup phrases differ from regular compliments? Need to start a conversation. Not just saying a pleasant thing as a fact, but asking something on the same topic.
It’s important not to overdo it. To speak is necessarily simple and without pathos. Phrase: "You are so beautiful. I probably have no chance for you to answer me" can sound very different. It is necessary that the girl really believes that the guy is saddened that she may not answer him. After all, if the words will show pomp, the whole essence of the phrase will slip away, expose the speaker in a bad light.
In addition, why are such compliments called "invisible"? Do not emphasize that I wanted to tell her something pleasant. Let it be taken for granted. The simpler you say, the better. For example: "Gods, you are so amazingly beautiful. Sorry, I could not help but write to you."
We encourage response
All pickup phrases that catch on are built in such a way that it is very difficult to ignore them. Literally, they require an answer. It is desirable that such a conversation ensued or even a discussion. Saying a compliment, ask a question so that the answer is not just “thank you” and that’s it.
Use: "Are you gorgeous in painting, maybe we are going to an exhibition of paintings?" instead: "I like your drawings."
Or: "I see in your eyes all the stars of the world. And I want you to see them too, let me show them to you" instead of: "You have beautiful eyes."
Why can't you just cram
Now there will be a very strange analogy of a pickup truck with a school. This covenant was told to us by teachers, but, surprisingly, this is an important point in seduction. You can learn how to pickup, but if you just crammed his phrases, everything will be finished without having begun.
Why is that? A guy with an average appearance can be popular with girls due to charisma and confidence, as well as his well- hung tongue. But a handsome man who does not know how to speak will fail. Women love ears. A couple of memorized phrases will not save. If you drop a witty saying at the beginning of a conversation, success will have to be further strengthened - you need to develop a sense of humor so that you later come up with something of your own, rather than looking every time for pickup phrases on the Internet.
Originality on that and original, to be one such, completely unique. If you conquer a girl with the words that he himself came up with, you can be 100% sure that no one else said anything like this to her, and she is unlikely to say that. But the "original" phrases from the Internet, unfortunately, are quite repeatable, although they can also bring success.
Need more synonyms
You can tell a girl once that she is beautiful. But the second, third, thousandth - and it will be boring. Use multiple epithets in your speech, refer to synonyms. The great and mighty Russian language is more than rich for them.
“Stunning”, “charming”, “charming”, “feminine”, “wondrous”, “irresistible” and “unique” - these are just a few of the examples on which adjectives you can build compliments.
You can choose your "crown" word. For example, "awesome" instead of "awesome." People are remembered by such trifles, make up a holistic image. Girls like exceptional men, in which there is something “their own,” something that they can surprise her with. Let her associate with you with some specific words, some own manner of expression.
Highlight her features
Girls are very fond of asking what guys like best about them. Most of them will blaze upon hearing that their legs are "divine" and the figure is "the best I have ever seen." Tell me about her "bottomless blue" or "passionate amber" eyes. She will take this care into account and remember it.
At the first meeting, the guys tend to cast a glance at the girl, and years later do not remember the color of her eyes. Pay attention to it right away, it will distinguish it from others.
Foreign languages
You can say the phrase completely in another language or screw in a charming French appeal like "bel ange" (beautiful angel). The main thing is to be sure in translating what you are saying and in how it is pronounced correctly. On the other hand, minor meaningless errors will make the philologist laugh and will do their job. After all, this is rule number 1: "Make her laugh."
Top 5 in English
Consider the best pick-up phrases, dating with which will take place not only in the territory of the former Soviet Union, but also abroad. This five sounds great in both English and Russian.
1. No, I'm not drunk, I'm intoxicated by you. (No, I'm not drunk, I'm just fascinated by you). Agatha Christie once said that a man who is trying to seem in love is courteous and gallant, but one who is actually in love "looks like a sheep." Explain your strange behavior by the fact that the lady turned her head absolutely and irrevocably to you, and you will be at your best.
2. I bet you (...) you're gonna turn me down. (I bet on (the nth amount) that you will refuse me). A win-win situation! Either you get a girl, or money.
3. - You owe me a drink. - why? - When I looked at you, I dropped mine. (“You owe me a drink.” “Why?” “I dropped mine while I looked at you). "White" dance in a club pickup is declared open. Why offer a lady a cocktail when she herself can treat you with something stronger?
4. I was wondering if you had an extra heart. Mine seems to have been stolen. (Do you happen to find an extra heart? Mine seems to have been stolen). A little eccentric phrase that will captivate girls who love beautiful turns. That is, almost everyone.
5. You're so beautiful that you made me forget my pickup line. (You are so beautiful that I forgot my pickup tricks). A witty phrase like this, firstly, supposedly reveals to a girl all your cards, secondly, becomes an assistant if you really forgot all pickup phrases: funny, funny and catchy. As they say, honesty is the best policy.
If flattery is not to your liking
They say there are girls who do not like compliments. And they really are. They don’t like flattery, beautiful pick-up phrases will only annoy them. What trump card to go in such a situation?
In such cases, you need to be extremely polite and intelligent. You can impress with a catch phrase or aphorism, lines from love lyrics.
For example: "I will drown in your eyes, can I?" (poetry of Eduard Asadov) or “I haven’t seen such beautiful people” (Sergey Yesenin).
The less a woman we love, the more she likes us
Alexander Sergeevich was unbearably right. There is such a pickup technique that does not need to be courteous to a girl, on the contrary, more unbridled, but also more sarcasm and wit. If everything is done correctly, the girl will appreciate both resourcefulness and humor.
An excellent example of the application of this technique are Celentano quotes:
- "I’ll definitely marry you, in extreme cases, call you."
- "What will be your positive answer?"
- "If they gave me a dollar every time I thought about you, I would ... started thinking about you."
Funny phrases for dating
Although every girl believes that love and relationships are something sacred that cannot be taken lightly if you used funny pickup phrases, funny and funny, to get to know her, she will at least remember such a boyfriend. At most - fall in love. Women, they are, in 90 percent of cases, even the word "idiot" is pronounced lovingly and with affection.
Therefore, why not tell the girl: "I bet for sex, will I sleep with you?" or with a very serious face to ask: "You will not transfer me to the other side?"
How are you? / How you doing?
The character of the famous sitcom "Friends" Joey "quadrille" the girls famous: "How are you?" And how, it was shown many times, it really worked, and without fail. You can try this catchphrase. In our non-serial world, she has one advantage - the girl is likely to recognize her, and you will immediately have a conversation topic. Especially if she is a fan of the series.
Female pickup
Is there a female pickup? On the one hand, why not? After all, can a girl seduce a guy. On the other hand, the weaker sex usually acts in such a way as to encourage the young person you like to get to know each other, rather than take decisive steps by yourself.
A guy doesn’t really need to say pickup phrases, because girls know best how important it is not what you say, but how you do it. In one simple “hello” they are able to put as much charm and charm as not a single guy in a long dialogue will succeed. And casting languid glances, throwing a leg over a leg and straightening hair - there is so much sexual energy in these gestures.
Nevertheless, lovely ladies are sometimes lost in what to say. And they start to think if there is a pickup for girls? Correspondence (it’s sometimes difficult to find phrases) makes the weaker sex shy and timid. Indeed, in social networks and SMS you need to be able to show talent almost literary.
What to write to the guy?
Girls like to use hints, but guys don’t understand them. And this is the main problem of female pickups - you have to be as direct as possible, but at the same time remain inaccessible, mysterious and alluring.
Take his phone. This does not oblige anyone to anything, nevertheless it is the first stage of acquaintance.
Ask him: "When will you invite me on a date?" This phrase will enable the young man to prove himself, and he will also know for sure what is required of him and never blunders.
And what if a failure?
Of course, something may go wrong. Not all guys are able to survive the blow to pride, when the girl decided to take the first step herself. On the other hand, some of them will only be flattered by this turn of events. So never be afraid to go up to the guy with the question: "And who will you be, handsome?"
We get rid of obsessive gentlemen
Ah, how many unlucky boyfriends have divorced recently. In times when storage of information was not so widespread yet, men seemed much more noble and polite. But, most likely, because their "punctures" were somehow not covered in secular society. But now very often “unique” and “pickup masters” are found.
You can simply ignore them - strange "whistles" on the streets do not cause any desire to respond, and VKontakte can always send a "dream man" to the black list.
You can directly refuse, saying the question firmly: "No!" and on this and end the conversation that has not begun.
And you can answer witty and cheer yourself up. They called it a fish? Tell me you’re sending worms to eat, and therefore you can’t talk right now. Such pickup phrases for refusal work perfectly and without prejudice to the pride of others.
Why is a pickup not for everyone?
A variety of books, articles and trainings are now offered on the topic of pickup. They say that everyone can learn a pickup truck. But it does not seem to be for everyone. Some look absolutely ridiculous and do not achieve anything in this field. Why is that?
If you started reading this article without any preparation for seduction, hoping just to draw a few useful and effective phrases, you will have to be disappointed. From the nature of a timid and shy person, they will not turn into a hero-lover. This is the first.
Secondly, the pickup is aimed at emotions - to amaze, impress, be remembered. But as soon as this moment passes, a person faces a choice - to keep this brand for some time (which is very difficult, if in fact it is not at all in his style), or look for other methods of attracting attention.
Thirdly, a pickup truck, of course, is a great way to "rent" a girl for yourself, but it is not very suitable for finding a loved one. Is it worth wasting your precious time when you can just be yourself and live, hoping one day to meet a person with whom you will have one world for two? True love is such a miracle, why build a framework for this beautiful feeling and disown it?