So, you finally managed to attract the attention of a handsome and seemingly interesting man in all respects, and he (cheers!) Invited you on a date? Awesome! Now you have a huge chance to consolidate the result and spend this unforgettable evening so that your positions become as strong as possible. How to behave on a first date so that it does not turn out to be the last?
The rule of the first date is number one: behave naturally and do not be nervous, talk in the manner that is characteristic of you, otherwise you risk looking like a bad actress during a rehearsal for an unsuccessful performance. After all, all the same, you won’t be able to “play” for a long time, nature will take its toll, and the man will be disappointed and decide that he was brazenly deceived. Imagine that this is not your first meeting with him, but the fifth or sixth, when people are already a little used to each other.
If you do not know how to behave on a first date, relax and try to just enjoy the conversation, enjoy it. The fact that you are worried is normal, as usually happens at the very beginning of a nascent relationship. After all, one wants to appear before a man in all his glory, to show himself only on the good side. Therefore, you should not torment yourself on the eve of a sleepless night, because in the morning you will find dark circles that are not very attractive under your eyes . If you do not want to look like a raccoon baby at a meeting, have a good night's sleep, and then you won't splash a glass of wine with trembling handles. Relax, because you already managed to hook him with something, since he invited you. Show your best feminine qualities, even those whose existence you read only in love affairs: shoot eyes, exude tenderness, give him radiant smiles, be sensual and confident.
No need to puzzle over how to behave on a first date with a man. Just tune in a positive and slightly playful way. Surely you have heard millions of times that a smile is the best decoration of a girl, so the image of a cheerful and cheerful young woman will now be very useful, even if in fact everything is very out of your hands. Do not tell the man about your problems, otherwise he will decide that you want to hang them on him (everything has its time). Also refrain from scolding the waiter for not putting sugar in your tea, and do not sit with a sour mine, you have been waiting for this meeting for so long! Your companion should be fascinated by you, he should be incredibly pleased to be near you, and then he will have a desire to see you again and again.
How to behave on a first date to conquer a man? The conversation should be on neutral topics. You should not dump on it all the ins and outs. Talk about work, study, interests. It is great if you find similar addictions or you can intrigue him with your own. This can be a great occasion to meet again. But under no pretext do not start a topic about your unsuccessful novels, as well as the details of your sex life or about what he, by and large, at the moment does not care about. Suppose that after a meeting he recalls you only as a cheerful, positive girl, and not a depressing beech.
How to behave on a first date, so as not to disappoint your gentleman? Let the man who invited you feel that way. Let him take care of you, open the doors for you, give a hand, move a chair, etc. Once he sees a woman in you, behave accordingly, even if in life you are not used to such a manifestation of gallantry. After all, who knows, you may soon get used to it, and you will like it. Show genuine interest in your gentleman, even if he tells you about the last football match or the breakdown of his car. If you need this man, listen to him and, if possible, at least pretend (but sincerely!) That you understand what he is talking about. Or you can not even pretend, but honestly admit that you did not understand anything, and ask him to explain. It will flatter him. If he tells you about any personal achievements, praise him, ask for advice if necessary. In general, let him know that you are a weak, tender and fragile creature, and you just need to be protected, cared for and cherished. But do not forget at the same time that you are a goddess, and the heart of the goddesses must be won. And how much time you give a man for this, of course, it's up to you to decide.
Now you know how to behave on a first date. We hope that these modest tips will help you achieve the result in the relationship that you need, and meeting with the man you are interested in will prove to be crucial.