Why are guys watching but not getting to know each other? Many girls believe: since they are beautiful, they have a good figure and an angelic face, then this immediately solves absolutely all the problems associated with communicating with the opposite sex. All the guys instantly become yours, rivals, of course, if they are not prettier than you, very far behind. And here you are at the party, come up to the man more interesting ... And then something unusually strange begins.
This man, who has been eating you eyes all evening, showed with his whole appearance that he likes you, is suddenly embarrassed, leaves the conversation, mumbles and, obviously, is completely not inclined to get to know you. Moreover, after a couple of minutes you see how he actively communicates with another girl who is inferior to you in all respects. So why do guys watch but don't get to know each other? Everything is extremely simple.
Firstly, beauty is not a reason to start a relationship, much less to continue it. Moreover, it may be the reason that men do not get acquainted with the girl. It causes them rejection and fear. Now let's talk about this in more detail.
So, let's say that at the festival you see a man who stares at you all evening, but does not take steps towards it. Why aren't the guys fit to meet? What are they thinking about? Most likely it will be assumed that they are simply afraid to hear the rejection of you. That is, the main reason here is the low self-esteem of the man. He thinks that you are not a couple and he is not worthy of you. It is unlikely that such a guy is suitable for you, because the complexes for him will always be in the first place. If you still think that you need it, then you should go and get to know him yourself.
Another reason why the guys are watching, but not getting to know each other, may be because in some particular case you came across a
sissy. Then you are definitely not lucky, because such people, before taking even a step, will wait for approval from their parent. Not only will there be no sense in such, but also problems can be gotten. So if you notice that a man sits alone all evening, does not communicate with anyone and shies away from people, then run away from him quickly and away.
But if the funny, sociable, adequate guys are watching, but not getting to know each other, then you should think about the fact that they probably just don't like you. Even the fact that the guy admired you all evening does not mean anything. Maybe he just looked at you as a beautiful picture. Or he has a girl who suits him in everything.
There is another reason why guys watch, but do not get to know, because of the long-established stereotype that women are either smart or beautiful. This is especially true for glamorous girls whose style does not symbolize the presence of intelligence. And this can be an advantage in meeting only in case of exclusively sexual interest on the part of a man.
There are some guys who do not want a long-term relationship, because they mean spending and troubles. Girls with ordinary looks are cheaper.
So it’s up to you to decide whether you need to communicate with those who from afar devour your eyes, but are not suitable to get acquainted first.