So you made up your mind. You know exactly what you want to be together with her in joy and sorrow, in health and in illness, and further on in the text read as usual in the registry offices. She is your chosen one, she is your goal, she is your meaning in life. But you don’t know how to tell her about it, you are afraid to hear the words of refusal and generally have a poor idea of ​​how to propose to the girl. This text is for you.
First get rid of fear. If you have been dating for a more or less long period, spend a lot of time together, discuss different topics and understand each other well, then you already have a feeling. You are already not indifferent to her, just as she is to you. And yet, so as not to put her in an awkward position and not to remain deceived in her own expectations, still first find out how she basically relates to the institution of marriage. Under a convenient pretext, start a conversation about family life, about children. If you do not want to reveal your cards ahead of time, do it in a relaxed discussion of the life of your or her parents, some acquaintances, friends. This will help to understand whether it is worthwhile to force things or to wait a bit longer.
Now about the offer of hands and hearts. You know, there are many tips on this matter, but don’t even hope to find a “step-by-step instruction” on how to make an offer correctly. This simply does not exist, because we are living people, and your beloved - she’s not like everyone else, she’s special, otherwise why do you feel so good with her. This means that she deserves special words addressed only to her, a special ritual invented exclusively for her. No, of course, your words and actions will be similar to the words and actions of thousands of lovers around the world, and yet they will not be a template.
There are rules only regarding how you should not make an offer. First of all, categorically it is not recommended to confess love while being drunk, even if it is only “five drops for courage”. Recognition made on the go and in a hurry will also be poorly received. The bed option, although it seems appropriate, is actually not at all - the sentence may sound like gratitude for sex or like a reckless impulse at the moment when a person can forget about everything. And yet - you can not rely in such an important matter on the phone, email, skype and so on; an offer is made only in person, eye to eye.
Perhaps this is the main thing that should be avoided, and now - actually about how to make an offer to a girl. It is clear that for this there must be either a very unexpected or just a romantic atmosphere. If both of you are not alien to extreme sports, if you are both diving into the depths of the sea or soaring above the ground by parachute, this can be used. However, if you really live in such an interesting and eventful way, then you yourself have plenty of such ideas. In another case (and we will not call it nasty) there are no better proven options - a restaurant, or a romantic home dinner, or a walk along the promenade. Do you think this is trite and beaten? Believe me, there are things that never depreciate. Yes, in this version there is no particular originality, but this is a classic! For centuries, young people puzzled over how to make an offer to a girl, and did not come up with anything new, and went to a restaurant, and they got it. And you "ride", do not hesitate.
The very fact of a dinner in a restaurant is perhaps not enough, if only this is not the first time you go to a restaurant together, but before that you have been treated by McDonald's. It’s worth adding a little “exclusivity”, say, to agree in advance on candles, a musical number “with dedication”, a prepaid “gift from the establishment”. If at the right moment the waiter brings a velvet box with a ringlet on a tray - this will also be very comme il faut. By the way, if you don’t have any idea what ring to make an offer with, it’s better to do without it, because for any girl it’s a very important detail - she has to go with this ring all her life (as you expect). Therefore, if, in your opinion, the ring should be an indispensable attribute of a declaration of love, take care to know her jewelry preferences well, consult her parents or best friend, specify the size (circle any ring on the inner contour on paper and subtract one, if she wears this ring not on the ring, but on the index or middle fingers).
As a rule, girls are well aware of what labors give the guys “simple” words: “Marry me.” And if you decide on them, then it is already worth a lot. But women still love with their ears, so the text of recognition and offer should be at least a little longer than these four words. What exactly to say - the heart will tell you the way. It will be appropriate to mention her qualities, tell about her feelings, a couple of strokes to describe your life together. Perhaps preparing and memorizing a speech in advance is not a bad idea, but don’t have to stammer and, moreover, go into your pocket for a piece of paper if you forget the text. Speak in your own words - she will understand!
Well, now, now you know how to propose to a girl. And any knowledge only becomes valuable when you use it. So go ahead! And be happy!