Every girl ever wondered how to get to know a guy. But there are many aspects hiding in such a short question: where to get to know each other best, how to start, what to say, how to understand whether it is worth continuing a conversation, how not to get into a stupid situation ... and much, much more.
To begin to understand the topic, how to get to know a guy first is, of course, with a choice of place. It can be your work or institute, an interest club, frequently visited places (theaters, exhibitions, libraries), a home yard, public transport, a store. Of course, there are such situations that at work only a female team, an interest club is called “cutting and sewing courses”, and the most visited places are only home and work, and getting to know on the street or in transport seems indecent. What to do then? To search. That is, not to hope for a chance meeting, but to make a little effort to ensure that this meeting takes place. Then it remains to determine what type of man you need. If strong and sporty is your ideal, then go to a sports club several times or go in for martial arts, or start skiing, in general, as they say, combine business with pleasure. If the main thing for you in men is intelligence and education, then you should look into libraries, exhibitions, enroll in courses in literature or history, go to theaters. Of course, in the store “hunter and fisherman” you can meet a candidate of sciences, but nevertheless, in “thematic” places the probability of this is much higher.
The next question in the series “How to Meet a Guy” is the method of dating. The vast majority of men are by nature their defenders and assistants, although often because of modesty or constraint they do not show this. In this case, you need to help them a little. The easiest way to meet a guy is to ask him a question or ask for help. For example, if you saw a guy you liked at a bus stop, you can turn to him with a question about which bus you can get to a certain stop, ask if he saw when he was driving 56 (“otherwise I’m standing, I’m standing, but he’s not there, here , already beginning to doubt whether he even walks here ”). The main thing here is not what you say, but that the conversation has already begun, so if a guy liked you, he will support him in 90% of cases.
A win-win option for meeting a guy is to go to a tackle shop and ask a guy you like to help you choose a tackle as a gift for your dad (brother, uncle). And if at the same time we add with an absolutely sincere and unhappy look “I don’t understand anything at all, and you are so good at everything”, then no man can resist you.
If you are concerned about the question of how to get to know a guy in an original way, here are a few simple options: Go up to a guy you’ve liked and say absolutely surely something like: “Hello, how is Oleg doing? I’ve not seen him for a hundred years. ” When the guy begins to explain to you that you were mistaken, it remains only to take an embarrassed look and begin to apologize, and then the guy is likely to continue the conversation himself, because not a single "true gentleman" will allow the girl to be sad because of such a stupid mistake . Another option is very original, but only suitable for self-confident girls. Walking next to the guy you liked, pretend that you are talking on the phone with a girlfriend (do not shout all the way, but so that he hears) and begin in this “conversation” to describe what an interesting young man is walking next to you. How good he looks (a great figure, so handsome, so stylishly dressed, his hair is just top class, and so on on the list), and that even at first glance you can see how smart, wonderful and funny he is. After he heard how good and cheerful he is, he will have no choice but to come up to prove to you that all this is true.
If you are afraid to get to know a guy first because you think you might look ridiculous or ridiculous, then just do a mini experiment. Ask 10 of your friends guys how they can describe the girl who will approach them in two words, and you will see that among the answers: “bold”, “interesting”, “unusual” there will not be a single “ridiculous” one. The main thing to remember is that you need to get acquainted easily and unobtrusively, provocative or aggressive behavior is simply inappropriate here.