Of course, the wedding day is very exciting not only for the hero of the occasion, the beautiful bride, but also her no less beautiful mother.
The role of the mother during the wedding ceremony is invaluable: it is she, the woman who raised a charming girl from a little girl, that she should meet her chosen one, hand him her treasure, bless both her children now and correctly pronounce the mother’s farewell daughter at the wedding.
What is the power of maternal blessing?
From time immemorial, we honored father and mother and listened to their every word. Maternal words at a wedding become especially significant when she gives her daughter to another family and, of course, is very worried that her child shows herself there in the best possible way. So that everything goes well for the daughter both in the household and in the relationship.
Therefore, the mother’s parting words for the daughter at the wedding should bear, firstly, a positive charge, and secondly, be based on the experience of the mother herself, having gone through the crucible of family life and knowing how to behave a wise woman.
The presence of icons enhances the effect of good wishes. To bless the young, as a rule, they choose the icon of the Mother of God, but you can take another one. The main thing is that after the wedding this icon remains in the house of the young.
How to prepare for the admission?
Of course, no matter how you prepare, no matter how sedative or drink, the traitor, a tear, no, no, and shine in front of my mother's eyes. It’s nothing, it’s natural, and it should be so. The farewell of the daughter’s mother at the wedding, to tears, touches not only the bride and her mother, but also all the romantic guests.
However, the mother of the bride should control herself so as not to “stick out” at all - excessive sobs at the wedding are inappropriate.
On the eve of the solemn event, write a few options for congratulations and parting words. Read each out loud. If you can’t stop at one thing, ask the opinions of your husband or close friends - with their help you will be able to choose the best wedding wishes from the mother of the bride.
Several readings guarantee memorization and allow you to more calmly and without unnecessary emotions relate to pronounced touching words - do not ignore this rule.
In addition, parting with a leaflet is not solid. Mom’s wishes should come from the depths of the heart, and a cheat sheet in her hands can negatively affect the opinion of you future son-in-law and all guests.
Are jokes acceptable?
Honestly, the mother of the bride on her wedding day is not at all a joke. And it’s somehow not customary to “make fun of” your child, who is now on the threshold of his new life, among mothers of brides.
Moms have more in honor of a beautiful, gentle, wise speech, appropriate for this celebration. And another important point - parting speech should be capacious, but short.
Give the right to funny greetings to young people, friends and girlfriends of your daughter, and concentrate on useful and wise tips in beautiful and non-artistic words.
For example, such:
“My dear daughter. Only now, when you are on the verge of your happiness, I understand that you have grown up, that you can build your family, create comfort in your home, give birth and raise your children. Remember, my dear, that even a strong woman has the right to be fragile and vulnerable and count on the help of her spouse. But she also has a duty: to help and support him in everything.
By giving you marriage, I also gain a son who, I hope, will protect and love you, and you, daughter, reciprocate, because the family rests on that - on mutual understanding. And it will always be so. Strengthen this ancient tradition with your example. ”
In verse or prose?
Parting words of the mother of the daughter at the wedding are welcome both poetic and in prose. The only requirement for one and the other is that they must be very beautiful, memorable.
If you are really afraid to forget words from excitement, issue a farewell note in the form of an old letter with a seal or a letter in an unusual envelope. So you will provide yourself with a hint, and the young ones with an original souvenir.
The only problem is that congratulations to my daughter on the wedding in verses are very similar. You can download them in bundles from various sites and not find any unique ones.
If you have a talent for rhyming, you can independently invent a poetic parting word, which will not be equal anywhere. If not, congratulate in prose. But speech should not be fresh, mundane and banal.
Indeed, even such hackneyed wishes, such as family well-being, female happiness, the frequent arrival of a stork, love, can be submitted in a completely unusual form.
If you doubt your literary ability, you can entrust the preparation of maternal wedding speech to specially trained people. Any copywriter, screenwriter, poet, and especially gifted host will gladly help you, and your mother’s parting words at the wedding will be individual, and may even become a wedding-congratulatory masterpiece.
And one more thing: your mother’s parting words should be remembered by your daughter not only as a wonderful congratulatory speech, but also as a storehouse of female wisdom, which she can use in her family life.