In the life of every person there are such moments that remain in memory for a lifetime. One of such unforgettable moments is, of course, the wedding! The groom and the bride and their relatives are carefully preparing for this event. Every couple wants their wedding ceremony to be flawless. To do this, they think through everything to the smallest detail: where the celebration will take place, how to treat the guests, choose dresses, and most importantly - they are determined with the date of the wedding. Increasingly, young people choose the autumn season for a wedding, in particular November.
Why choose November for your wedding?
The reasons for choosing this particular month are many. According to wedding agencies, during this period the hype for weddings, and therefore the cost of the services offered, is significantly reduced, which will make it possible to save an already joint family budget.
To reserve a restaurant, a room for young people, to choose a photographer in the so-called wedding period, which begins from the beginning of summer and ends by the end of October, is quite problematic. You must either book at least six months in advance everything you need, or choose a different time of year. As for November, this month it will not be difficult to choose a restaurant for the celebration, which is to your liking. The photographer is already not so loaded with work, he will better than others retain wonderful moments in the first family photographs. And you donāt have to choose an operator who is not yet busy.
The reason for the wedding to take place in November is signs that promise the newlyweds wealth and prosperity in family life.
Also, in November, the cost of travel packages begins to decline. A couple engaged in late autumn gets a great opportunity to go on a honeymoon to warm countries at an affordable cost.
What does the newlyweds foreshadow?
The Slavs have long been respectful of religion, honored Orthodox holidays and have always listened to folk signs. Each month is rich in its signs, November was no exception. In this regard, many young couples want a wedding in November. Signs this month promise them family happiness and long years of life together. Also in Russia, late autumn was considered the best for wedding festivities. This was due to the end of the harvest and harvest, from which various dishes were prepared for a feast. National signs of November what promise the newlyweds?
The guy who decided to marry in November will be incredibly lucky with his wife, she will āflutterā over him, as a torn leaf circles around a tree.
If the first snow fell on the wedding day, the bride must make a couple of steps on it, then she will always be the first and only spouse in her life.
Popular signs of November say that leaving the house, the groom needs to bring a maple leaf and a bunch of mountain ash. Having met the first woman on the way to the bride, it is necessary to hand her a maple leaf, which symbolizes the loyalty of his wife. If the first is a man, give him a branch of mountain ash to live in abundance.
Summing up the past weddings in the old days began on November 27, considering this date the end of the wedding season, as preparations for the Christmas fast began, and no festivities were held during this period. The newlyweds enjoyed their family happiness, and single men prepared a dowry for a future wedding.
Signs promising wealth in the house
Flawless in many ways, the wedding in November. Signs portend grace and wealth, and nature surprises with its colors.
For a happy family life in the attributes of the bride should be present a yellow tint, for example a bouquet consisting of autumn flowers, decorated in gold tones.
To live in wealth and financial well-being, the festive table should be decorated with twigs of viburnum, the berries of which are a symbol of November.
On the wedding day, it is better to enter the house of the first woman with a bouquet of autumn leaves, with whom she will bring prosperity to the new family.
Signs before the wedding for the bride
Women by nature are more suspicious, and sometimes even a little more superstitious than men. They await the wedding day with awe, mentally sorting out all the nuances of the upcoming event, so as not to lose sight of any of them. The girl on the eve of the most important day for her is doubly superstitious, respectively, omens before the wedding for the bride are very important.
- The bride before the wedding should sew in a linen a grain of sugar for a sweet life, a crumb of bread, so that everyone in the house is full, and put a coin in a shoe - for wealth.
- At night on the eve of the wedding, the brideās shoe must be put at the window, then the moonlight will bring family well-being.
- So that love and harmony reigned in the family, the bride should put a mirror under her pillow on the night before the wedding.
- For prosperity and strong family ties, married friends should wear earrings to the bride.
- The longer the train on the brideās dress, the longer family life will be.
Wedding: omens, rites
With the onset of the most exciting and anticipated day, the experiences of the young reach their peak. The day that they have been walking for so long has come, I want it to be the most unforgettable, but further married life was no less happy and careless. For this to happen, according to the legends of our ancestors, you need to adhere to wedding traditions and rites. Here is some of them:
- The blessing of parents. The most expensive people in the life of the bride and groom are, of course, parents. Their blessing and parting words are an invariable, centuries-old tradition. Before the young people go to the registry office to fasten their love in marriage, in the brideās house, parents bless their common children now for a happy, comfortable family life.
- Meeting with the loaf. When the bride and groom return after painting, on the threshold of a house or other venue, they are met by the groom's parents with a loaf, in the center of which salt is poured. The bride and groom bite off a piece, salt and feed each other. According to the legend, they āsaltedā them for the last time, and whose piece of loaf will be more, that will be the head of the family.
- The ceremony of removing the veil. She removes the veil and covers her head with a handkerchief in her mother-in-law, thereby showing that the girl is no longer a bride, but already a wife.
- Family hearth. For all centuries, fire among different nations is considered a sacred element that brings warmth and comfort to the house. The lighting of the family hearth symbolizes the emergence of a new family. Traditionally, the motherās hearth is lit on both sides, conveying her experience and wisdom to the newlyweds.
Weather for the wedding: folk signs
If the wedding is in November, the signs associated with the weather are especially relevant.
- Is there frost in the street? The first-born of a couple will be born healthy and strong.
- It snows on the wedding day - to financial well-being, the larger it is, the richer the family will be.
- A strong wind promises young frivolous life.
Signs for the newlyweds during the wedding
There are many signs gathered that can be interpreted as to what the future family life of the newlyweds will be like. Over the long years of existence of different nations. Here are some unusual signs:
- During the wedding, before signing on the first joint family document, the bride and groom need to eat a piece of chocolate in half so that life is sweet.
- The newlyweds will have a long and happy marriage if, at the end of the wedding ceremony, they look together in one mirror.
- In order for the bride and groom not to be jinxed, it is recommended to attach them on the pin with their heads down.
- The newlyweds should not sit on the chairs, and even better, the bride and groom should sit on the same bench, and nothing should separate them.
- Guests are not allowed to wear black clothing at the wedding. If the witnesses at the wedding are divorced, the marriage of the bride and groom will be short-lived. Also, a married couple cannot act as witnesses - it promises a divorce. These are some of the main wedding omens for guests.
All four seasons for the wedding are beautiful in their own way, each has its own signs and rites. In fact, there are many more than described. The article selects the most suitable signs for a wedding in the fall season. Remember: it doesnāt matter what month you decide to tie the knot, the main thing is that this desire is mutual, and then all the signs will become irrelevant to you. May you live happily ever after!