For millennia, all women have been tormented by almost the same questions. "How to become desirable for a man?" or "What is feminine attractiveness, how is it manifested and how to learn to be feminine?" - these are eternal topics that you can talk about and argue endlessly. Each woman has her own opinion on what true beauty and attractiveness means, therefore there is no and cannot be a universal answer to the question of true femininity. However, there are undeniable facts that give a clear idea of what female attractiveness is in the eyes of men. Let's learn more about them.
What is the difference between beauty and attractiveness?
You may have noticed more than once how a simple and not very beautiful girl is more successful in men than a lady with perfect appearance, but with an arrogant and cold look. And you probably have a question: "Why do men pay attention to such a homely person at first glance?" The answer is simple: if a girl who does not have an ideal appearance by nature is able to competently emphasize all her advantages and knows exactly what a man wants to see in her, then she will always be surrounded by a crowd of fans. As you can see, natural beauty and female attractiveness in the eyes of men are not exactly the same concepts.
Definition of female beauty
The ideals of female beauty change very quickly: if a hundred years ago full women were considered the standard of beauty and health, then today they have already lost their former glory. Slenderness, lightness and grace - these are the qualities in the forms of lovely ladies that are now the main ones. Due to the variability of fashion trends and trends, it is very difficult to determine what features of the girl’s face are ideal in the eyes of men. And given the fact that each man is individual and has his own preferences regarding the appearance of a woman, then it is simply impossible to draw an ideal of true female beauty!
A bit about feminine appeal
If we are talking about female attractiveness, then we can confidently say that its foundation is primarily harmony in the soul and endless love for life and people. Believe me, if a girl is in love with life, then her eyes will sparkle like little diamonds, that sparkle of positive and cheerfulness that will not leave a single man indifferent will shine!
An ideal woman through the eyes of a man: what is she?
We, the fairer sex, can list for a very long time those qualities that, as it seems to us, an ideal woman should possess. However, let's try to look at this issue from a male point of view. What is female beauty through the eyes of men? A girl can be perfect for one man and the most ordinary, unremarkable for another. It all depends on the perception of a particular person and on his personal preferences. So, for example, for eastern men brought up in patriarchal families, the main thing in a woman is such qualities as respect for the male sex, obedience to the husband, devotion to the family, a sense of deep maternal duty, as well as god-fearing. But men with a Western mentality appreciate a woman’s determination, self-confidence, a broad outlook and intellectual abilities. Be that as it may, nevertheless, in every representative of the stronger sex, certain instincts are laid by nature. They work the same way for all of them, regardless of parenting, mentality or age. Let's find out what a woman should be like for a man to instinctively pay attention to her.
The instincts of men, or What qualities appreciate "males"
Even in our modern world, when culture and moral values are so well developed, primitive instincts still continue to guide us in a variety of life circumstances. Men are also no exception, therefore, when meeting a new beauty, they almost always evaluate it, comparing it with the internal image of an ideal woman. Meanwhile, this image is caused by just the same instincts that have been inherent in us since the creation of man. So, we offer you a peculiar overview of the signs of female attractiveness, contributing to the fact that men have an “instinctive desire” to get this particular woman.
- External data. Men always first assess the appearance of a woman, and only then - spiritual qualities and character. As many studies have shown, men prefer women who have a healthy appearance, well-groomed hair and a sincere smile. If we talk about forms and proportions, it is worth noting that the female body should be able to bear, give birth and feed the child. Indeed, every man, without exception, sees in his chosen one, first of all, the future mother of his children.
- Personal traits. It is also important how a woman behaves surrounded by men. For real "males" it is important to see in her respect for the man, modesty, fidelity, shyness, but at the same time, a woman should have hidden sexuality, accessible only to one chosen one. It is also necessary to be fragile and a little timid, it is these qualities that arouse in men the desire to protect and protect the girl.
Of course, these components alone are not enough to become an ideal woman. There are many more qualities that a girl must develop in herself in order to be one and only for her chosen one. Next, we will discuss what guys put at the forefront when they are looking for a sweetheart not for a couple of months, but for life; let's name the main signs of female attractiveness; through the eyes of men we will try to look at ourselves, loved ones ... Perhaps we will have to change something in ourselves. So...
Signs of femininity: the most charming and attractive
If you believe the polls, the comments of most men regarding female attractiveness can be divided into several groups, each of which also has its own nuances. So, here are the main signs of female attractiveness:
- Female beauty (through the eyes of a man, of course) is well-groomed. You must admit that healthy skin radiance, beautiful nails and clean hair have always been and remain the main components of the image of a beautiful woman.
- In second place is such a quality as intelligence. Each man would like to see next to him a wise companion who can support any conversation, advise something sensible, or simply surprise his chosen one with new curious discoveries.
- Another sign of an ideal woman is the way she dresses. Her style should be unforgettable, emphasize all her virtues, and most importantly - clothes should not be defiant or too frank. No wonder they say that they are met by clothes. Below we will give some recommendations on the topic of choosing clothes to create the look of an ideal girl.
- The ideal woman also has a sense of humor, she is not alien to self-irony. Men can forget an insanely beautiful girl with perfect body proportions and facial features, however, believe me, they will forever remember a woman who can make them laugh and cheer up. The sense of humor in women and men has its own characteristics and differences, so a girl who understands men's jokes and can also make a joke herself is of great value in the eyes of men.
- And another sign is energy. A real woman should radiate such a strong love for the world around him that the man next to him will feel it and transform itself. Feminine beauty and the power of femininity (through the eyes of men, as you understand) lies precisely in what atmosphere this woman creates around herself. When a man experiences the effect of such energy, so to speak, on his own skin, he instinctively wants to always be with a lady who radiates this craving for life and energy.
Secrets of female attractiveness: through the eyes of men, we evaluate our appearance
There is no single standard for determining female beauty, so there is no point in killing about your external shortcomings. After all, there are so many people in the world, and each has its own ideal of beauty. Some like puffy brunettes, others like slender blondes. If we put together all the opinions of men from different countries, we get the following wording: "Women's attractiveness in the eyes of men largely depends on the nature and behavior of the woman, rather than her external data." It is not necessary to have perfect facial features, because men first of all evaluate the whole image: the main thing is nice facial features, the correct proportions and body structure.
Secrets of famous women
Take a look at the famous ladies who have become symbols of true femininity. Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, Jennifer Aniston - these and many other women won the sympathy of men due to their tenderness and mystery. The basis of femininity is a light gait, correct posture, a gentle sonorous voice, long silky hair and, of course, harmony in the soul.
The talented Coco Chanel has repeatedly given lessons and tips on choosing clothes, so you should definitely listen to her recommendations. One of her mottos is: "A woman is made by a woman accessories." Use a variety of beads, bracelets, rings and earrings to make your look delicate and stylish. It’s so beautiful and natural to be feminine!
A few educational tips
Being a woman is a huge job, requiring time, patience and considerable expenses. In addition to the presented nature of appearance, it is worth paying attention to the education of femininity in yourself. Try to become calmer, gentle, kinder and more obedient. Feminine appeal in the eyes of men is respect and submission to all his requests. Remember that in no case should you try to dominate your husband. Thus, you will forever kill in him any desire to be a protector, earner and hunter. A woman can achieve more from a man with the help of soft, kind and gentle words, so try to get rid of harshness and irritability.
But how to keep your only one?
We examined what is female attractiveness from the point of view of men. An attractive girl can charm any of them, but this is not enough. As a rule, then the question necessarily arises: "But how to keep the chosen one next to you?" There are several recommendations, following which you can gain eternal power over his heart. So:
- Learn to be a real keeper of the hearth. Surprise your chosen one with a variety of dishes, learn new recipes and do not be afraid to experiment! Let him get used to your food so much that he won’t try it in another place.
- If you want him to always listen to you, say less empty and unnecessary words. It is known that women, unlike men, talk a lot, and you try to get rid of this habit (well, at least next to it).
- Take care of your body. Go in for sports, eat healthy foods and don't forget about beauty treatments. If a girl does not love her body and does not care about him, then what kind of man will do it?
You may not have perfect beauty, but knowing the principles of femininity and correctly applying them, you will be able to charm any "hunter". I wish you success and ... femininity!