So many jokes have already been compiled on the topic of female logic, so many girls who have “no luck” with relatives have heard so many bullying from men. The apogee of pain is the moment when a female person begins to ask herself the question: “What to do? I'm a fool". Everyone is mistaken, but if there is a person prone to sadism nearby, he will turn the knife in your wound with pleasure, attributing the failure to your low intellect.
I do not remember evil
If this is not the first time you are being offended in this way, begin to closely monitor the offender and ... write down all his mistakes. It will be like in a joke: “I don’t remember evil, so I need to write it down.” At the slightest collision, take out your piece of paper and read out the list. And say: “I have one mistake, and you have so much. And which of us is a fool ?! Don’t think what to do? I’m a fool, but I learn from mistakes. ”
I will send it ... for an asterisk
For the first time, the offender will freeze, as if struck by thunder. So if your phrase "Why am I such a fool" is inspired by the environment, defend yourself - and look for someone else's shoals. Yes, this is unpleasant, but necessary. In general, it’s best to physically leave the bad people — leave your parents, get divorced from your sadistic husband, and send bad friends to the bathhouse. You're not a masochist, are you?
All fools first
If you made a mistake in some work, thank God (or fate, to your taste) that you did it right now, and not in more difficult circumstances. Figuratively speaking, in the new field of activity, all fools and fools. And far from always, people are able to learn from the mistakes of others. Do not dream of miracles - without your own mistakes learning is impossible, so consider that you just paid the price for science.
And how stupid?
"What to do, I'm a fool!" - this is the cry of the soul. Stop calling yourself that. Who gave the right to you or others to relate yourself to one or another point of the scale of intelligence? Even in tests of intelligence coefficient scolded by all, there are no two gradations “clever” and “fool”, but there are more than a hundred possible numerical options. So calling yourself a fool is just an inaccuracy. If you are angry with yourself, then criticizing your own personality will not help, especially as destructive as a “fool girl”.
Relationships - Free Play Field
No need to concentrate on how smart or stupid you are. Think about what you did wrong. If we are talking about relationships, then in general the gradation of intelligence has nothing to do with it. It is impossible to manage relationships, no matter what they write in smart books. The interaction between people occurs in different ways, they do not always agree on the characters, that is, it is stupid to worry about what does not depend on you. And for each individual person, tactics and strategies will have to be selected separately. Do not transfer negative experience to a new relationship - after all, people are very different.
How to become smarter
The phrase "What to do, I'm a fool?" says that you are emotionally ill. And he’s not talking about anything else. It’s better to put the question in a different way: “How to become smarter?” Become more curious, inquisitive, read more, learn what is difficult for you, ask questions and find answers to them. Even reading hobby forums will increase your awareness and may indirectly increase intelligence. Do not despair and do not call yourself a fool! If you do not have a diagnosis of mental retardation, you can fix it.