Even before a man realizes that he is in love, processes occur in his mind that affect behavior, gestures and facial expressions. He becomes different, those around him notice, his friends begin to banter good-naturedly, and passers-by turn around after him. In most cases, a person whose heart, expressed in an old-fashioned poetic language, "pierced by the arrow of Cupid", becomes kinder, he smiles more often, but sometimes he finds inexplicable sadness on him.
Quite normal is the desire to take care of the woman who has become the object of this bright feeling, to isolate her from some unpleasant circumstances, or, in extreme cases, to simply amuse, make laugh, or even cause a smile. After a man realizes that he is in love, his whole attitude changes. He does not know what to do, but understands that it is necessary to act. At the same time, many representatives of the stronger sex do not want to discover their feelings before the moment when reciprocity is established, fearing the mocking “from the gates of the turn”. So doubt makes us cowards ...
But, according to popular wisdom, the sewing in a bag cannot be hidden. The gaze of a man in love speaks more than the love arias from all brilliant operas, and surpasses the play of any talented actor in terms of expressiveness. It has everything: hope, and fear of irresponsibility, and adoration, and despair, and hope again. Only a blind and completely heartless woman will not understand that such-and-such a (name-nosed) has gotten into her ears. But in this case, there will always be someone who intelligibly explains to her this circumstance.
From the outside, it is often funny to watch how a man realizes that he is in love. This in movies and novels describes an instantly flashing passion. It happens in life, but this is not about lust or the play of hormones, but about a serious and all-consuming feeling, and it requires reflection. The process is gradual, at first it seems that nothing special, just like a woman, and that’s all. Then comes the understanding, usually defined by the word "gone."
Hussar gestures of a man in love, expressed in unprecedented generosity, even among those who were previously known as stingy, are explained by the desire to become irreplaceable. The desire to enter the life of a beloved woman is combined with the hospitably open doors of her own inner world. If there is something to show them, it’s fine, but one should take into account the sad fact that not everyone is interested. Of course, you can give smart advice not to rush, but first find out the preferences of the lady, but who will listen will be the recommendations of a sober mind when the heart trembles in her presence, and yearns when she is not around!
Lovers need other advice; they want to determine how attractive they are for the object of their adoration. And without waiting for wise speeches from friends, relatives and acquaintances, they begin to carefully monitor their appearance, try very hard to show off wit and erudition, in general, to stand out. In some ways, this reminds one of peacock mating, but what to do means that the representative of the male tribe should behave this way according to the laws of nature.
So still, how does a man understand that he is truly in love, and not just passionate? He feels it with his heart. If at the thought of a woman a warm wave of tenderness arises in the soul, then yes.