In the life of each couple there is always a date that is celebrated as a holiday. It is, of course, about the day of acquaintance. Even twenty years later, the couple celebrates this day with special love, considering it to be crucial in their successful marriage. However, the day of acquaintance rarely coincides with the day the relationship began. Only in rare, exceptional cases does the novel begin to flare up from the very first minutes after the meeting. Therefore, another imperceptible date is much more important - the day when the guy suggested the girl to meet. Perhaps this event will not seem so significant to girls, but for boys it means a lot. Indeed, many of us have a very poor idea of how best to invite a girl to meet, especially if the girl evokes very strong feelings.
The fear to make an offer is explained by two factors: fears of hearing a refusal and fears of “ruining everything”. The first one can be easily fought. It is enough to feel confident and clearly follow your goal, regardless of real and imaginary obstacles. However, there is an opportunity to spoil the relationship if you make an offer too soon. Therefore, it is necessary to figure out how best to offer the girl to meet, leaving for himself an emergency way out of the situation.
The best way is to probe the soil. For example, in a joking manner to ask, “What if you and I started dating?” or “so that you would think if you knew that you and I would be together in a year?”. Such phrases do not sound like an official congratulation, but they allow you to find out the girl’s reaction to a possible proposal. It is likely that the reaction will be positive, and then a serious proposal can be made. For example, if she answered a question written earlier, something like “wouldn’t mind”, just take her hand and say: “let's meet, seriously?”. As you can see, everything is very simple, and you don’t need to puzzle over how best to invite the girl to meet.
If “sounding the soil” does not give a clear answer, you can always translate everything as a joke, but on the other hand, it will be a bad sign for your intentions. If you seriously want to date this girl, then you certainly need to use other more decisive ways.
Try to be confident. Do not understand how best to invite the girl to meet, but act as if you are already together. You can introduce her to friends as a joke as your lady, etc. If she does not mind, everything will be resolved by itself. If she becomes indignant, then she can clearly and confidently answer her objections: "I know, but soon you will be mine." The main thing is that this does not sound like a threat, otherwise you will be accepted as a maniac, but as self-confidence.
If all the methods do not work already, and the simple “I like you, let's meet” does not work, then you need to resort to the original methods. For example, ask your love how best to make a proposal to a girl. Ask as if in jest. She will immediately understand that you want to make her an offer to be together, but will not give a look and begin to reason on this topic. After which, you should translate the conversation without saying a word to her about your feelings. The girl will go crazy with conjectures, and when after 7-10 days you invite her to meet her in a way, she will perceive this as the most pleasant thing that she has heard in her life.
You can act not so extreme, and prepare a proposal for a girl to meet in verse. This method is perfect for romantic natures. If the verses are also sung to the guitar, then few can resist. In general, be creative and fear nothing. In any case, you will remember the day of your proposal to be together for a long time. Even if it is funny and ridiculous, it will be your personal victory, which can be celebrated after many years.