'Butterflies in the stomach' - the first sign of love

Ah, youth, youth and freshness ... Evening walks in an embrace secretly from parents, test dates, first timid kiss, teenage love. What could be more beautiful than such a carefree time in the life of every person? These feelings will not be repeated again, they will never and forever remain a reminder of the bright days of romantic youth.

Surely many are familiar with the statement about love associated with the feeling of "butterflies in the stomach." It is most popular just among the younger generation. But sometimes understanding it is not so simple. However, exactly until a certain person settles in your heart to whom tender feelings suddenly flare up. What are these notorious “butterflies in the stomach” and why is love described by such an unusual concept?

In fact, this, in fact, is the very euphoria that a person experiences during a period of love experiences. For example, when an object of adoration passes by, then from a pleasant excitement and an obsessive desire to draw upon itself even a small fraction of its precious attention in our stomach there is a peculiar sensation of vacuum. At the same time, the stomach shivers tremblingly, and light tickling with muscle contraction causes these same “butterflies in the stomach”.

This metaphor reflects the unusual reaction of the human body to changes that occur in it during love. At the same time, each of them has their own. Someone invests in this beautiful and romantic concept of unlimited happiness that arises during a time spent together with your soulmate. Others say that they have butterflies fluttering in their stomachs when they are in love secretly and at the same time do not trust their secret to anyone. After all, what can be more sensual and intimate than being next to your idol and at the same time burn from the desire to touch his hand, feel the warmth of the skin, gently cuddle. Indeed, there are so many people, so many opinions about this literary utterance. Unrequited love has always been an object for the emergence of completely new unusual expressions.

One thing is certain that “butterflies in the stomach” appear exactly when it comes to sublime and passionate feelings. There is no place for cynicism and cold calculation. Over time, such a feeling may well develop into something big. Then people already say that they cease to be surprised at such an extraordinary phenomenon as the light weightless touches of small playful wings somewhere there just below the ribs. When relations move to a new stage and rise to the next level, “butterflies in the stomach” rightfully give way to calmness, measuredness and peace. Is it bad? Not at all. Stability only strengthens couples, giving them peace and harmony. This is very important, especially in cases where partners have been together for a long time.

As you probably already managed to make sure, the feeling of fluttering in the stomach is not only inherent in careless youth with a wind in their heads. After all, love, as you know, all ages (as well as statuses) are submissive. Do not be afraid that “butterflies in the stomach” will disturb your sleep, peace and your usual way of life. Even the most strict and adult person sometimes just needs to feel something special inside. And what could be better than simple love? Even if this does not become something more than an ordinary flirt or the so-called “spa romance”.

“Butterflies in the stomach” is the surest sign that the time has come for some crazy actions. Forget at least for a while about your everyday duties and problems, the need to stay within the framework of public morality. Lovers do not have any hard and fast rules. Feel yourself again the very young and inexperienced boy who once timidly waited for his girlfriend at the entrance, awkwardly clutching a bouquet of daisies or tulips behind his back. And you, a strict respectable lady. Forget for a moment about your office suits and stilettos of expensive model shoes. Remember how you once kissed under a warm summer shower. To dizziness ... To ringing in the ears ... To butterflies in the stomach ...

Source: https://habr.com/ru/post/B15946/


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