Each girl has a different attitude to anal sex . Some people like this type of intimate pleasures, and some believe that it is unhygienic, shameful and painful. It is possible that the latter even had experience of anal sex, but something was done wrong, as a result there were only negative memories.
To avoid trouble in this delicate matter, you need to know how to prepare for anal sex correctly. Indeed, the outcome of such proximity depends on this stage. Some women, knowing all aspects, can also enjoy anal intercourse, with brighter and longer orgasms than the traditional form of intimate relationships.
We will begin to understand this issue.
As you can imagine, the rectum is not intended for sexual gratification. This is known to everyone. But for some reason, most of the male representatives around the world dream of anal sex. They literally require their partners to agree to this type of intimate relationship, while not paying attention to the fears and experiences of women. But not all girls are inferior to men, since they are afraid for their emotional and physical health, it, as you know, is more expensive than any desire of a young man. But still, how should the preparation for the first anal sex go? What needs to be done in order to avoid bad consequences?
How to prepare for anal sex?
Without preliminary preparation, this type of intimate joy will really bring a lot of trouble. After all, you can injure the rectum or sphincter, and this is not only unpleasant, but also very dangerous for health. As you know, preparation for anal sex is a prerequisite.
Psychological retraining of a man
If your young man has seen enough of “adult” films in which young beauties begin anal sex, not thinking about the preparatory stage and preliminary caresses, explain to him that in the movie this is not true. Before shooting such a scene, the actress (girl) is massaged by the sphincter, preparing it for an intimate process.
If your partner does not want to waste time preparing the ass for anal sex, then it is better to abandon such fun. Remember: if during a period of such sexual intimacy a woman becomes hurt, then this means that something is going wrong at all!
Psychological training
You yourself must decide for yourself whether you are ready or not. If there is a fear, then it is necessary to get rid of it, since fear will compress everything inside, as a result of which you simply cannot relax.
Tension is not the best start for such an important undertaking. Talk to your family member about what is bothering you. If you have an inner constraint, then it is possible that some “adult” film will help you. Watching such a video, your consciousness will get used to such intercourse in reality. So it will be easier to accept this
type of sex.A couple of useful tips
If you plan to have anal sex in the future, then you need to drink enough water every day. It helps to remove toxins and waste from the body. In addition, the stool will become softer from the liquid. And if the bowel movements are softer, then the process of cleansing with an enema immediately before anal intercourse will be easier.
Also pay attention to nutrition, add more fiber and whole grains to it. "Why?" - you ask. Food with fiber helps to maintain intestinal health, as well as improve its peristalsis, and also makes feces softer, making the washing process easier and more enjoyable in the future.
Hygiene and anal sex
How to prepare a girl for such intercourse in terms of hygiene? Now we will explain. The young lady, when she thinks of such proximity, immediately wrinkles her nose. Although we all know what is in the rectum. But the fact of the matter is that the organ of a man usually does not reach her. At the same time, it is not a matter of the dignity of a young man, just few people know about the structure of this intimate part of the body.
Let's now figure out how everything is arranged there. To begin with, what is the sphincter - this is the ring of the anus. It is outside. It is also called the “external sphincter”, since there is also an internal one, the length of which is about 13 cm, its purpose is to compress the entrance in front of the rectum in order to avoid the involuntary withdrawal of feces. It is in this place during anal intercourse is a member. As you know, he is not a rectum. This means that both partners have a practically zero chance of getting dirty. Especially if you take care of your hygiene in advance by going to the toilet a couple of hours before the proposed event.
In addition, you can do such a procedure as a cleansing enema. Just do not forget that you can’t do it often. You can injure the sphincter with an enema rod, as well as disrupt the microflora. If you belong to those girls whose muscles of the internal sphincter are from weak diseases or are naturally weak, and it is probably not easy to keep the contents of the rectum, you will immediately run to the toilet with any urge to avoid unpleasant incidents. It is worth giving up such intimate fun. They are contraindicated to you. If you stretch already weak muscles, then in the future you will have many problems with stool retention.
Enema
So, back to a procedure such as an enema. Preparation for anal sex is, first of all, after psychological preparation, of course, bowel cleansing. To clean it, a two-liter enema with ordinary running cool water will be enough for you. So that the liquid is not absorbed, salt (table) is added to it. Then it "collects" a little fluid from the walls of the intestine, resulting in a better cleansing.
Preparation process
How to prepare for anal sex to avoid pain during the process? Understand that you can’t just take and start the process of intercourse, especially if this is your first time. At the first stage, your young man should accustom you to unexpected communication, caressing the sphincter. Such a massage should give you pleasure. After you get used to such caresses, learn to enjoy them, you can proceed to the next step. It is necessary to penetrate the anus (only!) With one finger. All this must be done very carefully and extremely carefully. At the first request of a partner, the guy should immediately remove his hand. Your main goal is to overcome embarrassment completely, and also begin to experience the pleasure of such stimulations. The goal of a man is to make the girl relax and overcome all fears.
With how to prepare for anal sex, we figured out a little, but you need to further comprehend this interesting art. So, when you finally cease to feel discomfort, a man can begin to use two fingers. Then, if there is no pain, then you can try to enter three fingers into the anus already. Now you can stop.
After all, three male fingers is the approximate thickness of the penis. Therefore, they will be enough to properly prepare. Remember that the preparation process can take several days, a week or even a month. There is no hurry in this matter. Only you can decide when your body is ready to receive a male organ.
Can I get satisfaction from anal sex
Preparing for the first intimacy of this type, the girl thinks about whether it is possible to get pleasure from this process? The fact that young people receive satisfaction from such intercourse is understandable.
Male dignity is closely grasped by the entrance to the sphincter, thus giving him pleasure. In addition, the guys are seriously excited by the moral side. They invade the forbidden place, so to speak, in the "holy of holies." Well, what about the girl? What does a girl get from anal intercourse?
Expert opinion
Scientists have come to the conclusion that a woman cannot have an orgasm during such sex. They explained their opinion as follows: there are no erogenous zones inside the sphincter, the stimulation of which leads to the appearance of pleasant sensations. This begs the logical question. “But what about homosexuals?” - you ask. If it were impossible to get an orgasm with such intimate intercourse, then it is likely that there would not be male couples at all. Scientists on this occasion say that the guys have a different physiology. They experience orgasms from anal sex, since during anal intercourse the prostate is stimulated. And the girls, as you know, have nothing of this kind in physiology.
At the same time, many ladies claim that they can receive hundreds of bright orgasms during anal intercourse. Perhaps the point is in physiology or in the moral and ethical side of the issue. But the fact remains: many women welcome this type of intercourse and get a lot of pleasure from it.
Last but not least important tip
The girl who is preparing for the first anal sex in life, of course, is very anxious. What if it is disgusting? There is one secret that will help you overcome any fear and get a good experience in this matter. Of course, this is trust in your partner. If your young man really appreciates and loves you, then he will never make you suffer because of his sexual fantasies and desires. He will try only for you. Doing everything so that his girlfriend received great satisfaction from anal sex and so that in the future she was not afraid of him. If your young man is just that, then do not hesitate in him and try to enjoy this unusual pleasure in bed.
A small summary
Now you know what anal sex is. How to properly prepare for it so that there are no unpleasant consequences, we also told you. We hope that our tips will help you overcome all fears.