Many people even believe that there is no friendship between women and cannot be. Especially men are sure of this. Well, in vain. Girlfriends can not only gossip about their friends, talk about clothes and other nonsense. They are interested in the joys and sorrows of each other and sincerely share them. But sometimes the female sex is too talkative and says something that should be silent. What questions can I ask my friend, and what is better not to ask?
To begin with, what is better not to ask:
- About intimate relationships, in particular, about sex, sexual problems, former and current partners, lovers, husbands;
- about earnings, savings, passwords, etc., especially in cases where you work in one place, this unwittingly leads to thoughts of malicious intent;
- about problems that have come down to you from third parties, you do not need to "step on a sore spot", especially if the person himself does not want to voice it.
What questions can I ask my friend:
- you can take an interest in hobbies, it suddenly turns out that you have something in common, it will help to get closer;
- discuss her outfit, slim figure, and generally good appearance, she will most likely enjoy your attention, but, most importantly, do not overdo it;
- talk about children, because there is always something to tell about them, you can talk about pets, for lack of children;
- ask to talk about how she spent her vacation, there is practically no need to strain about what interesting questions you can ask, because rest is always pleasant memories;
- About cooking, discussing some delicious recipes.
Close friends
There are neutral topics, you can talk about them with anyone, even with a friend. In this state of things, one thing is important. It is advisable to distinguish between what issues should be discussed with a good friend, and what questions you can ask a person who is not too close to you. But with a real girlfriend you can talk about everything without exception. People close in spirit should not have secrets from each other. Almost every girl or woman has a best friend.
What questions can you ask your friend who you think is the best:
- she and only she will tell you the truth about your outfit, even if it is not very pleasant, because from the side it is more visible, it is difficult to judge such things alone;
- she can be asked what to do in a particular situation relating to your personal life, as she is aware of current events and can give objective advice;
- you can consult with her about choosing a gift for relatives, she will surely tell you something sensible, because she knows many people personally;
- only she will tell you the truth about your cooking, and will not be so easy to praise everything in a row, point out flaws and help to correct the situation, providing useful recipes;
- only a close friend will help you pass the time for the benefit of yourself, advising which books it would really be worth reading, what music to listen to.
If a friend is really close, then she is like a native person. She can be trusted. And, most likely, you don’t have to think about what questions you can ask your girlfriend, because soulmates feel each other.