Do you want to express your feelings to your soulmate, but are afraid to admit them personally? Write a romantic letter. Do not think that this way of expressing your feelings is outdated. Think for yourself: would you be pleased to receive a letter of recognition? In order for the person for whom you are trying to appreciate your action, you need to approach him very responsibly.
Write only to the person you trust
Romantic writing is personal and secret. Show it to someone third is not worth it. Only two should read it. Do not trust someone else to check your spelling. Even mom should not know what you write to whom. Moreover, you should not trust your feelings with your friends. Why such secrecy? The more sincere feelings a person has, the less people want to share them.
A girl who decided to write a romantic letter to a guy should fully trust her love object. Wrong choices can not only break the heart, but also damage the reputation. The letter that the guy will then show to all friends can compromise the girl. Before writing a letter, make sure that the person is worthy to receive it. You do not know if the guy will reciprocate? An intelligent person, even if he does not feel love for you, will be imbued with sympathy. He will understand the depth of your feelings and will not scoff at them.
Think design
A romantic letter should attract attention at a glance. Having opened the mailbox, a person must understand by the appearance of the parcel its contents. How should the message be drawn up? Take beautiful tinted paper and make an envelope out of it. You can decorate it with drawings or clippings from a magazine. The letter itself should be issued in the same style. Print the letters in contrasting ink on a piece of paper. The design should be beautiful, but not the main thing in the letter. Make sure that the text is the main accent, not the flowers around the edges. On the sheet that you want to use as the basis of writing, you can put a drawing in pencil or watercolor. The person who receives the package must understand that he is holding in his hands not a spontaneous manifestation of your emotions. A beautiful and romantic letter to your beloved girl is an indicator of the degree of your feelings. The lady will appreciate all efforts. Therefore, pay attention to the design, as well as the font that you will use when writing.
Write by hand
In today's world, there are many ways to write a romantic letter to a girl or guy. But you choose the one that our ancestors used. Write by hand. Firstly, a beautiful gesture will be received favorably, and secondly, consider handwritten writing as a precaution. By choosing the method of delivering a love letter through a social network, you will compromise yourself. After all, a person who does not reciprocate with you can very quickly send your message to all his friends. The same can be done with the letter, but still the authenticity of this paper will be difficult to prove.
You should write a letter by hand, and not print on the printer. The time spent on rewriting the text is an indicator of your sincere and warm feelings. The main thing in a handwritten letter is a legible font. If you do not write very beautifully, try to display the letters with special care. Otherwise, the object of your adoration will not be able to understand the meaning of the message.
Do not use patterns
When composing a romantic letter, you should be sincere. No need to use other people's templates. The imagination to write half a page of text is enough for every person. Why not use templates? Such an approach to writing letters can offend a person. If, after some time, your chosen one stumbles upon a sample of such a “masterpiece” and realizes that you copied it, it will be very difficult to justify itself. Do not commit acts for which you will later be ashamed.
When compiling and filling out a romantic letter to a beloved man, you should also not use templates. In this case, it will be difficult to do without a cliche. There are not so many ideas for drawings: flowers, hearts and cupids. But even these small pictures need to be arranged as you like. Do not pry on the Internet how to arrange stickers. Be individual and develop your imagination.
Draft First
Errors and blots hurt the eye and will certainly be noticed by a competent person. In order not to get into trouble, you need to approach with special attention to the text of a romantic letter to your beloved. Follow the standard plan: introduction, main part and conclusion. A similar scheme is familiar to any person who has written essays at school more than once. Written in this form, well reaches the human mind.
What is a good draft? By the fact that it can be rewritten many times. In addition to blots, you need to try to avoid mistakes and excessive "water". Remove from the text words-parasites and introductory words that do not color the written speech. Do not repeat one thought twice. If a person cannot understand something the first time, he will always have the opportunity to re-read the letter. Writing straightforward at once is bad because you will be afraid to make a mistake. And if you start composing on a draft, you won’t have to think about mistakes. Put your feelings on paper, and then bring them into a more readable form.
Write only your poems
A romantic letter to a loved one should not contain poetry that you like, but which you are not the author. Why? The object of your adoration may not like poetry, and reading someone else's work will not bring pleasure to a person. Another thing is when the lines rhyme specifically for him. It is very pleasant to read such verses. They cling to a person and touch the thin strings of his soul.
And what about a person who does not know how to rhyme lines, but really wants to write a letter in poetic form? Take someone else’s creation as a template. In order not to arouse suspicion of plagiarism, you should take something very famous, for example, a letter from Tatyana. Refine the meaning of the passage to fit your situation. Such plagiarism will look very nice, although rude.
Write sincerely
A romantic letter addressed to a man must be sincere. Representatives of the stronger sex do not often express their emotions, but they like to hear words of admiration from the ladies. Do not be afraid to practice eloquence. It will be appreciated. Write about how you feel. Do you think the guy is handsome? Write that his appearance is driving you crazy. But it is better to pay attention to character traits or other advantages of the chosen one. For example, praise the nontriviality of thinking, courage, courage, self-control, or tremendous composure. How to make a phrase so that it does not resemble flattery? Do not write a lot of compliments right away. Choose three qualities that you guys especially like. Describe each of them in detail and remember the situations in which the guy showed his best side.
A letter after reading should leave a pleasant aftertaste. If you write in a too playful manner, the object of adoration may decide that you are taunting or decide to have fun at someone else's expense. Therefore, remove all arrogance and rudeness from the letter.
No need for long introductions
In the XXI century, no one is waiting for love letters. It is easy to imagine the feelings of a person who receives a pink scented envelope. Perplexity, confusion, embarrassment - all this will be felt by the person, taking out a letter from the box. So that a person does not suffer for too long, be brief. The entry of the letter should not be more than 4-5 sentences. Next you need to get to the point. If you spread your thoughts on paper, the reader’s attention will be scattered towards the middle. Writing is not a confession. It is not necessary to describe in it the whole story of your love from the first day you saw the object of adoration. Tell us that you love and want to know if feelings are mutual. Be sure to ask for feedback. Say that do not ask for written confirmation of sympathy, a normal conversation will suffice.
Do not hide the meaning behind the words
When a person reads a letter, he needs to understand its meaning. Do not try to speak very beautifully and ornately if it interferes with perception. Few people will like to wade through the jungle of aphorisms and winged expressions to get to the point. Having veiled the phrase in this way: “I sincerely believe that my life will be much better if a little more people who are nice to me appear who share my worldview and feelings.” There is no direct recognition here, nor is there a call to action. Scary to write: "I love you"? Then write that you feel a warm and sincere sympathy, which over time can develop into something more. But you do not need to write detached and develop some deeply philosophical thought. She will be inappropriate in a love letter. Make sure the content is clear and understandable from the first reading. After all, you don’t want a person to turn to friends for help in deciphering the meaning of a letter that came to him.
Complete the letter with something real
You need to put in an envelope not only a folded piece of paper, but also something else. Beautiful romantic letters are complemented by something sweet and pleasant. By sending a letter to a girl, you can put rose petals in an envelope. But such a gesture is only suitable for those recipients who check their mailbox every day. Stale petals will not look presentable, and besides they will exude an unpleasant odor. It is better to supplement the letter with something sweet. For example, you can buy a lollipop in the shape of a heart. An unexpected and pleasant souvenir will surely please the object of your adoration.
You can complement the letter with a more substantial gift. For example, put a heart pendant in an envelope. Depending on your financial situation, the jewelry may be jewelry or jewelry. True, in this case, it is better to send a registered letter to be sure that it will not get lost on the road. Such valuable gifts should be given only to those girls who exactly reciprocate. It will be a shame to see your jewelry on a lady who did not share your feelings.
End on a positive note
Beautiful romantic letters addressed to loved ones should always be completed with something pleasant. For example, the phrase that before going to bed you always think about the object of adoration or the image of a person always lives in your memory and heart. It’s nice to read such phrases. Do not end the message with threats or blackmail, like: if you do not reciprocate, I will die of hopelessness. A person may be afraid that you will carry out your threat, and will meet with you simply out of pity.
Never ask for a letter back. A person who has received written confession may think that you do not trust him and therefore want your affirmation of love to be with you.
A person should have a pleasant sensation of warmth when he reads the letter. It is always nice to know that you are loved and appreciated. You can end the letter with a phrase about the feeling you feel. Be sure to subscribe. It is advisable not to put a signature, but to write a name, and if not scary, then a surname. The recipient must know who he received the letter from in order to give you feedback.