To find a person comfortable in everything with whom it will be possible to build strong and long-term relationships is real happiness in the life of most people. But love is not always healthy. Sometimes this feeling grows into something more, becoming attachment, mania, paranoia, jealousy and pain. In this article, we will tell you how to recognize crazy and crazy love, in which cases it does not have any negative consequences, and how to get the benefit out of it.
Preamble
Crazy love is a twofold manifestation of a warm feeling. On the one hand, it manifests itself in couples that overshadow each other around. Their worlds are built only next to the second half, each separation turns into torment. As a rule, this feeling in these couples lives for decades and is ready to withstand any blows of fate. Crazy love, on the other hand, is mania, the unhealthy affection of one person for another. Such couples often face conflicts and problems, they do not feel happy in a relationship, but continue to persistently torment each other. For them there are no such concepts as a habit or a sense of ownership, and they call all arising sensations inside simply “love”.
When you are in love, you cannot fall asleep, because reality is finally better than your dreams. Dr. Seuss, children's writer and animator.
Below we will consider the most interesting and famous examples of crazy love. This is a historical value because people have done something incredible to reach their soul mate.
Dashrath Manji - a man who broke mountains for his beloved
Dashrath Manji is known as the “Mountain Man” because he made a real feat. Once he said that he was able to move the mountain for his beloved and did it.
Dashrath Manji is a beggar man in Gelur (a small village in India) who lost his wife after being unable to take her beloved to the doctor after she fell off a cliff. With firm determination, Dashrath had broken one stone after another in the mountains for 22 years to continue on a 122 meter long and 9 meter wide road. His only motive was to provide local residents of his village with access to medical services so that no one would ever lose a loved one like him.
As you know, the Indians are much more sensitive to this feeling than the romantic French. Such stories can often be seen in interesting films and TV shows in Bollywood. For example, Crazy Friendship and Crazy Love is an Indian film adaptation created by Kahani Hamari. The story tells of a couple where the guy is the heir to a wealthy family, and the girl is a commoner. They were friends for many years until the main character overtook this incredible feeling of love.
Love that went beyond death
This is an example of a not entirely healthy relationship. Such love is often called insane and far from in a positive sense. The thing is that one couple (Shadil Deffi and Sarinya Kamsuk) decided to get married right after the guy finished his studies. However, his life turned upside down after the death of his beloved in an accident even before the two managed to tie the knot.
But death could not defeat his love. Deffy married his late girlfriend at a private wedding ceremony combined with a funeral, where he placed the ring on Sarigny’s hand, kissed her and let her go to another world. The celebration took place in Surin province in Thailand.
Crazy love is not always a pleasant feeling. Sometimes it drives people crazy, changing their behavior. For some, Deffy’s act seems creepy and wrong, but it is he who shows that even after death, he’s not ready to look for someone else on the side, but to be faithful to one woman.
David Heard and Avril Kato - From Crazy Friendship to Crazy Love
People write letters to their loved ones all the time. But the story of two people who met through letters and got married in the first minutes, as soon as they saw each other, is amazing. Yes, that’s how David Heard and Avril Kato created a strong alliance.
David Heard moved to New York in 1907, and it was then that he began to write letters to Avril Kato, an unknown woman in the Caribbean that he had never seen in his life. They began to share their lives with each other on paper, and soon became friends. A year later, David invited Avril to get married, she agreed. The couple met for the first time on their wedding day (August 1914) in Jamaica. These two loyal pen pal developed a deep and passionate commitment to each other, and after a short period created an incredibly strong family.
Anna and Boris - two lovers reunited 60 years after the separation
Anna and Boris are a couple from Russia who were married for only three days. The guy was taken to the front, and the girl and his family were sent into exile. So Anna and Boris lost touch with each other. The guy tried for a long time to find her, but everything was unsuccessful. Anna, in turn, was so upset by the separation that she was ready to commit suicide, but decided that she would not die until she found her man.
One fine day, Anna Kozlova saw an old man getting out of a car near her house. The elderly woman held her breath. She could not believe her eyes, because she recognized her old Boris in the old man. The couple reunited 60 years later, romance and love broke out again in their relationship.
I thought my eyes were playing games with me. I saw how this familiar man was approaching me, his gaze was fixed on me. My heart started beating very hard. I was sure that it was him, and could not hold back the tears of joy. Anna.
Unhealthy affection
Crazy friendship and crazy love are a common story that happens to most people on the planet. Indeed, a strong and passionate relationship is when a couple is for each other and colleagues, and advisers, and friends, and lovers. But there are times when the concept of love is defiled.
A huge number of people face domestic tyranny, not only women but also men. An autocratic person, hiding behind the mask of a man in love, will do absolutely everything so that his partner does not have his own happy life. They are mercilessly jealous, insulting and humiliating. Able to restrict and prohibit work, hobbies and walks. As a rule, tyrant partners choose weaker victims that can be easily controlled, because strong-spirited, confident people flee from such alarming calls.
Finally
Crazy love should bring you an incredible feeling of warmth somewhere in the soul. You must be aware that it gives pleasure, joy and happiness. If crazy love is torture and suffering for you, then do not put off making serious decisions in the distant box.