They say that every person should have a good job, a strong family and a true friend who will always be there. And there is an opinion that it is easier to start a family than to find a true friend. Whatever it was, but friendship plays an important role in the life of every modern person. So who are we going to share secrets? And to whom do we cry for a waistcoat, tell us that we recently met the love of my life and generally lost our heads? To a friend. And what should be a true friend? Let's try to figure it out.
It is believed that there can be several friends, but a true friend is only one. After all, the truth is, you won’t go tell the secret to a close acquaintance who seems to be a friend, but it seems he’s not. To find a true friend, you have to sweat. Although, is it possible to find it. Here, like luck in a casino: either it is, or it is not. Most often, true true friends we meet in childhood, go to school with them, enjoy every event, and as adults, we continue to maintain relationships, remaining the closest people on the planet. But this does not mean that true friendship cannot be met in adulthood. Friendship, like love, all ages are submissive. I just want to say that a faithful friend will not fall on your head. It will take many years for him to receive the status of the present.
If you make a portrait of a real friend, then it should be something like this:
• Never leave you in trouble. He will always come to the rescue, even when you have to sacrifice your own plans or even life.
• Able to listen. He never interrupts, always answers the questions posed.
• Gives smart tips. This means that he will not advise something that can be harmful, for example, to hurt a love relationship or career.
• A true friend will not forget to wish him a happy birthday or another holiday. He will definitely make a gift, and even sign a card.
• He often calls and asks how are you.
• Never betray, substitute or use friendship for personal gain.
• He likes to go to the cinema together and then discuss the movie he watched.
This is only the smallest that a true friend can possess. In general, true friendship is an endless source of good deeds and joyful moments.
A person who has a true friend can be envied. Often people have dozens of friends, but among them there is not the one that is the most. Sometimes you have to burn yourself well, considering a true friend of the one that they will never become.
But I wonder, is it difficult to be a true friend? Here's how to look. On the one hand, yes, because a faithful friend takes responsibility for relations with other people. He can sacrifice anything for his own purposes, but not friendship. Most likely, this is why it is difficult to be a true friend, because very often life throws up situations when we have to make a difficult choice between friendships and something else. If you look from the other side, then why a true friend should be difficult. Not everyone deserves the title of “real”, but the one who deserves to cope with all the trials of friendships with success .
It should be noted that true friendship is not always eternal. Sometimes even the best friends lose relationships. It’s just that there is a feeling that is above friendship — that is love. And if two friends fall in love with one person, their relationship may well give a crack. It is generally accepted that one of the friends in such situations should concede, but who, because both are in equal position. True, if true friendship breaks up, then only in isolated cases.
Nevertheless, it’s great when there are real friends in our lives. Family is family, and true friendship never hurts. Just to find him, a real and most faithful friend who will never give up and fail.