Nowadays, mastery of the art of communications has become necessary for people who intend to achieve success in any important business for themselves. Indeed, without proper communication, achieving the desired in a capricious social environment is quite difficult, if not impossible at all. To understand this, it is not necessary to have a deep knowledge of marketing and oratory talent, because the basic concepts are accessible and understandable to any person living an ordinary life by generally accepted standards and standards.
If a person is not ready to broadcast positive in communication, but is inclined only to demand, express dissatisfaction or even knows how to teach or irony at all, he is unlikely to succeed in building any mutually beneficial relations. People listen, and what they hear in their address from this or that person in a particular situation will certainly leave an imprint on the nuances of interpersonal relations with him. It is a pity that we very often do not attach importance to the fact that the manner of verbally presenting ourselves to other people will certainly leave a mark, affecting the assessment and perception of us as individuals.
The power of an affectionate word
They say the affectionate calf of two mothers sucks. This is perhaps the most understandable saying with an obvious message, which should be kept in mind in the process of communicating with an important person for us. When building a personal relationship, remember that a pleasant compliment made to a person before voicing a request or expressing his attitude on any issue will avoid many misunderstandings and will allow you to convey the desired information to the interlocutor, excluding resistance. But you just have to say a few kind words to your beloved girl, "good morning", for example, as any day will be filled with pleasant emotions and harmony.
The numerous instant messengers and other online communication tools that are so widely used in the modern world, which are widely used in interpersonal interaction, make life easier for people who are not virtuosos in oratory. But such communication quite often leads to a wrong perception of the emotional coloring of the message, which is excluded when talking face to face. But even affectionate words to a girl’s man, as a rule, are more often written than spoken aloud.
The right parenting environment is the key to successful communication
It's no secret that a very big influence on our behavior in adulthood is exerted by the way our loved ones interacted with us in childhood. Raising a child in a positive way, in an environment filled with love, care and kind affectionate speech, will certainly positively affect his communication skills. The more often they share pleasant emotions and feelings with a child, verbally and sincerely express their love for him, the more successful and purposeful he grows up. And, accordingly, on the contrary, the poorer the emotional environment in which the child is brought up, the less likely he is to become a leader, which people will follow along the path of success.
To express one’s sincere emotions, to clothe one’s feelings in beautiful words is an art that any person can use to relieve himself of his psychological problems, because the emotional vacuum in which many people are accustomed to living in the modern world, the “collapse” of one’s own feelings leads to frustration psyche, with which only narrow specialists can help to cope.
Causes of coldness in communication
Many factors stop us from openly talking about how we feel: most often people are simply afraid to seem ridiculous or ridiculous, they are afraid of a negative assessment of others, "fall into the dirt", seem weak or infantile. This happens even with the fair sex, many of whom are already weakly able to show the world their natural gentleness and emotionality. And sometimes it’s strange and even ridiculous to hear the affectionate words “good morning” addressed to you.
And it also happens that, having experienced in childhood the excitement, confusion and discomfort of speaking in front of relatives, arranged by parents at some family celebration, and ending in collapse due to intense fear and grief, a person carries this childhood experience through his whole life , from which any attempt to sincerely come forward becomes a torture.
All of the above confirms that any modern person has an urgent need to be able to express their thoughts, feelings and emotions without hesitation, using a variety of turns in communication. This skill will certainly come in handy in life, including personal.
Male theories of "calf tenderness"
In more detail in this article we will touch upon the problems of a male approach to communication with the fair sex and even give some useful practical tips.
Quite often it’s quite difficult for men to speak kindly kind words to their girlfriend, since for quite some time it was customary in families to instill in the future defender the idea that he absolutely needed to be cold with women and should be allowed to give in to emotional outbursts as rarely as possible , which, in fact, the fathers often often demonstrated to the boys.
There are still followers who are convinced that one should not often speak affectionate words to a beloved girl, because this is supposedly not brutal and will ultimately lead to the fact that she wants to find herself a more courageous representative of the opposite sex. However, most modern young people are absolutely sure that it is absolutely necessary to mourn with your beloved and say affectionate words to the girl in the morning - the best start to the day. It is from this position that we will build on.
A bit about the traditions of communication in other countries
As everyone knows, the Russian language is great, powerful and very rich in various verbal turns. But, for example, in Thailand it is not at all customary to say kind, kind words to a girl or a young man, especially in public. Loving couples are limited to the word "cancer", which means "beloved / beloved." Cute love nicknames are also not very common in China and other Asian countries, where in everyday life it is not even customary to use the word "I", instead of which a name is used, or a conversation is conducted from a third party.
Hearing Aid - Proper Name
Of course, your own name is the sweetest sound for any person’s hearing. Therefore, when saying affectionate words to a beloved girl, a man should often pronounce the name of his beloved using diminutive forms, for example, Svetik, Vikushenka, Ladusya, Yulyasha, Sashenka, etc. And nothing could be better in the morning than saying the usual affectionate words beloved girl, adding: "Good morning, my dear Masha!".
List of the most common tenderness for your girlfriend
And now we present to your attention a list of the most common kind words of affection for a girl. In any case, a man should watch the reaction of his beloved, which will definitely make it clear whether to say one or another word or phrase again in her presence, because there are a lot of affectionate nicknames and it all depends on your imagination.
Of the most frequently used, it is necessary to single out, first of all, of course, words related to the animal world by their etymology, such as: zayinka, zay, kitty, cat, kitten, mouse, cat, male, bunny, fish, my fish, raccoon, Murka, chick, cat, kittychkin, little squirrel, chipmunk, deer, front sight, fox.
About cute nicknames with meaning
Often used are such cute nicknames as: baby doll, masichka, lapushka, relative, pet, cherry, sweetness, peach, kysya, cookie, sweet baby doll, fairy, princess, bead, pumpkin, musya, mine, sherry, baby, baby, lyalyka, little bun, lapusik, bud, treasure bar and many others. Such affectionate words to a girl carry a meaning, in contrast to the above. With these words, a man characterizes his beloved woman according to some of the most attractive parameters for himself, so such tenderness is more valuable for girls than just “zaya” or “kitty”.
Affectionate revolutions preserved from ancient times
From ancient times in Russia, there was a tradition of rewarding your betrothed or girlfriend with affectionate words, showing her appreciation for her mission - to be the guardian of the hearth, the good mother to children and the support and support of her husband. To receive a positive charge from a positive image created by such words as: my soul, my dear, the light of my eyes, my love, my tender, my dear, sweet, my light, my happiness, my dear, my dear, sun, my joy, my sun , beloved beauty, perhaps at present, so we recommend using them in everyday life.
Fancy nicknames for a loved one
No matter how strange some words and phrases may seem, if they introduce an intimate meaning and give a gentle impulse to communication between two loving people, it means that they will be used by partners. Fantasy without hesitation and often indulge your girlfriend with affectionate words! Even if they will be very unusual.
Reviews from the gentle
I would like to draw attention to the fact that, judging by the reviews of the fair sex, men who do not hesitate to pronounce affectionate words to the girl, short verses devoted only to her alone, are very successful with the ladies. Learning to do this is worth it to everyone. Moreover, a non-standard and creative approach to inventing and selecting gentle epithets is highly appreciated, since many girls are annoyed by the usual “zai”, “fish” and “pussy”. Loving men should always remember that an emotionally filled woman, surrounded by pleasant gifts and showered with affection, care and compliments, has incredible female energy, which she shares with her beloved with pleasure, helping to move along the path to success.