For many years, psychologists have been trying to “deduce” a certain combination of external and internal qualities, which will give an idea of the ideal woman. But, alas, each study gives some completely new results - and it is difficult to obtain an impeccable image based on them. The fact is that each man has his own idea of the ideal. Try to say what should be a normal growth for a girl? Or hair color? Or a style of behavior? Each man will have his own preferences here. In addition, trying to understand what an ideal girl is through the eyes of men, you need to keep in mind that we can talk about a wife, lover, girlfriend or colleague. Depending on who exactly the man has in mind when drawing up the image of his dreams, the set of important qualities also changes.
But there are still some common features, on the basis of which one can understand how the ideal girl as a whole looks through the eyes of men.
1. The mind. No matter what they say about the preference by men of fools, in reality this is by no means the case. Times are changing, emancipation is taking leaps and bounds, and a girl, regardless of whether she is a wife, lover or girlfriend, is a full partner, from whom a man expects to make some decisions, advice, support. And the more successful the man, the less he needs a fool as a constant companion. As a temporary lover, yes. But no one will call a temporary mistress an ideal girl, otherwise she certainly would not have become.
However, a girl worthy of becoming a dream girl will never show a man his mental superiority. Men love smart girls, not smart ones.
And one more thing: the mind, talents and quick wits do not justify the complete lack of self-care. No matter how much a man appreciates your mind, scruffy nails, dirty hair and a torn shirt will very quickly make him doubt your mind. Doesn’t a smart girl know that men still love with their eyes?
2. Appearance . The ideal girl through the eyes of men is always well-groomed. Please note: it is not so beautiful as well-groomed. Of course, men like girls with a good figure, but a good figure is also part of personal care. Even a pretty chubby girl, if desired, can get a good figure if she forces herself to refuse cakes and go to the gym and pool.
An impeccable girl always has a neat manicure and pedicure, she has clean hair (most men prefer long loose hair), discreet makeup. She is dressed tastefully and in accordance with the circumstances.
3. Sexuality. Almost half of the men believe that the sexuality of a girl is more important than her appearance. However, contrary to popular belief, the ideal girl through the eyes of men is not at all the sex giant who has studied the entire Kama Sutra. It should be liberated and without complexes, and to satisfy most of the men, 2-3 poses are enough. Moreover, too much sexual experience of a girl of some men even repels.
Oddly enough, many men believe that the dream girl should be able not only to give pleasure to the man in bed, but also to get it herself. The notorious male egoism is a myth. In fact, it is important for men to realize that he was able to bring his girlfriend to orgasm, this increases their self-esteem. Therefore, if you want to be considered a perfect lover, enjoy sex, and if it doesn’t work out, learn to imitate it in a qualitative way!
4. The ability to create comfort and coziness. No man will like to live, sorry, in the barn. Even if Angelina Jolie lives with him. A very important quality of a girl of excellence, according to men, is the ability to create comfort and coziness. But! In no case, without forgetting about the other important components of a perfect girl ...
So to become a truly perfect girl is not so simple, but it is quite realistic if you set yourself such a goal!