"What are preludes in sex?" - if you ask such a question, then you and your soulmate, most likely, do not get even half of the pleasure that you could give yourself during intimacy. For many people, contact with a partner lasts from 20 to 30 minutes, although such intercourse could be divided into several hours, receiving a sea of new impressions and unforgettable emotions. In our article we will try to highlight this issue in more detail and give recommendations for men.
Disconnect the girl's senses
Sex without preludes makes no sense, because during the soon-coming intimacy, the girl practically does not get pleasure. Well, for a man, according to psychologists, the main reward during intercourse is a female orgasm, bringing to which a beauty can be very problematic. However, there are still some proven methods. For example, to “turn off” a girl all senses, except touch, so that she can concentrate on the sensations that the receptors of her body perceive.
If you want the girl to moan and wriggle under you like a snake, then try blindfolding her with a thick cloth and inserting cotton plugs into her ears. Of course, with her full consent. Having lost the basic sensory organs, your partner will be able to receive information from the outside world only with the help of touch, smell and taste. The last two do not play a special role for us, but the first will bring the girl to the peak of pleasure in just a few minutes. But don't stop there once - just keep having fun.
Give the partner a leading role
Decided to deliver the girl unforgettable sex? Then you should consider giving the girl a leading role during intimacy. Most women have to obey their partner, being in the role of a slave. Destroy this stereotype! Of course, you should not give your lady a whip so that she completely dominates you (although this can be fun), but let the young beauty do with you what she wants.
By the way, in order to give a leading role to a girl, it is not at all necessary that she initiate intimacy herself. To give maximum piquancy to an intimate moment, start to caress a girl at the most unexpected moment, for example, when she just enters your apartment or is busy with some important business. A few minutes of foreplay - and then give her the lead role. Let her also kiss you in intimate places and choose the pose that she likes.
Show more affection
Remember yourself in your student years. Remember how you tried to give pleasure to the girl with whom you had your first time. Did you ever wonder what preludes are in sex? No, you just tried to give your partner maximum pleasure in all possible ways. Of course, over the years, everyone gets used to a partner, and sometimes you just want to finish as soon as possible in order to continue to do household chores or go to work.
Unfortunately, it is precisely because of this attitude that some girls begin to look for connections on the side, because they simply do not have enough affection. Of course, we do not justify infidelity, but men are also to blame for this. Strive to give the girl pleasure and forget about time completely. Kiss her in the neck, abdomen, inner thigh and other erogenous areas, or just caress her breasts with your hands.
Fix your gaze
A gentle prelude before sex is, of course, good, but a correct look during intimacy also plays an important role. For example, some men prefer to simply look at their movements and the way their genitals penetrate the vagina. You must make the girl understand that you want not only her body, but also the soul. Fix your gaze on the eyes of the beautiful woman and watch her facial expressions during your specific actions.
Scientists have found that during arousal, our pupils dilate greatly. You can observe a similar phenomenon from each other, being at a distance of 10 to 50 centimeters from the face of your partner. In this way, establish an emotional connection with the girl and do not take your eyes off her until she experiences feelings that she has never had. Only after that it will be possible to think about your own pleasure.
Ask the right questions.
Many people have sex without preludes, but some act no less stupidly - they ask meaningless questions during intimacy: "Are you pleased?" or "So good?" The answer to such nonsense will almost always be an affirmative “Yes!”, Although in fact the girl has something to say. So ask the right questions: “Faster?”, “Stronger?”, “Deeper?”, “Right?”, “Left?” etc. So the partner will be able to guide you.
In addition, experienced sexologists also recommend during sex to start arguing with a girl about some stupid reason in which she will defend her position, and you will be against it. Punish her every time she objects to you. Let your partner know that she is completely in your power. To do this, beat her in the ass, speed up her movements, slightly press her throat - in general, behave ruder than usual.
Play role-playing games
People who ask the question: “What are the preludes in sex?”, Most likely, have never heard of role-playing games during intimacy. However, many experts recommend such actions, because during such sex both partners feel that they are not in contact with their soulmate, but a completely different person. The stronger your acting talent, the more fun you can deliver to a girl.
Just buy some interesting costumes for yourself and your sweetheart in the workwear store or sex shop. The most common outfits for girls are:
As for your outfit, it should be based on the individual preferences of your partner and fit well into the conceived game. For example, if you decide to dress a girl with a schoolgirl, then a strict teacher's suit and glasses will suit you best.
Buy sex toys
"How to prepare a woman for sex?" - a question that worries millions of lovers around the world, although an answer has long been found to it. In addition, a huge number of sex toys have been developed specifically for this purpose, which can not only excite the girl, but also bring her to orgasm. You can buy such gizmos in your city’s sex shop or order online - cheaper, and you don’t need to “disgrace”.
As for the types of sex toys, there are a lot of them. All of them are aimed at realizing the most intimate fantasies of the girl and her partner. The most common option is ordinary handcuffs in fur, with which you can fasten the girl to the bed and do whatever you want with her. Such games allow you to get new impressions of sex and experience an unforgettable physical pleasure.
Video and conclusion
As you can see, to organize beautiful sex with a prelude, you can use a variety of methods. Their choice should be based on the desires of your partner and your own fantasies. However, if you still have not found anything suitable for yourself, we recommend that you watch a short video in which the author talks about things that will help bring the woman to frantic delight. We strongly recommend that all men watch this video.
We hope you now understand better what a prelude to sex is. The tips from the video and our article should help you make the girl an unforgettable pleasure, so be sure to use them next time. Remember that the prelude to sex is very important, so do not rush to use your main "weapon" as soon as possible, otherwise the beauty will experience only disappointment instead of pleasure.