Are you crazy about your soulmate, but are afraid to seem annoying? How not to bother a girl? You need to behave completely naturally and not show love. Remember: the less people are consecrated in a relationship of two, the stronger they are. Please your girlfriend, arrange romantic evenings and interesting dates for her. Do not be afraid to seem ridiculous and stupid, build relationships as you see fit.
Keep the girl in the spotlight
Everyone loves attention. Therefore, provide it to your soulmate in full. In a conversation, always be interested in the girl’s opinion on this or that account, find out how the day of a pretty person passed and do not forget to cheer up the lady. How not to bother a girl? Don't be a bore and talk less about yourself. If the lady is interested in something, she will ask. Do not shock your sweetheart with too frank information. The girl definitely does not want to know how many friends you had before her and how far your relationship went. But don't go to extremes. You don’t need to be secretive either. Find the right balance between appropriate frankness and remarkable talkativeness. Let your girlfriend talk. Women love to talk if they are listened carefully.
Give the lady compliments
What do the fair sex like more than talking? Accept compliments. Do not skimp on praise. But remember that it must be appropriate. Do not turn into a dog who will helpfully bring slippers and bark at the request of the hostess. If you like how the girl looks, tell her about it. Mention that the dress sits well on her gorgeous figure or that the outfit fits perfectly into her emerald eyes. Do not be afraid to make difficult compliments. Your task is not to overdo it and dose out your admiration. A girl should understand what attracts you not only physically, but also intellectually. Therefore, from time to time, remind the lady that she not only looks wonderful, but is also well educated for her age. How not to bother a girl? Do not say the same compliments. Each time you will need to come up with something new.
Give nice presents
A young man should surprise his beloved. The easiest way to do this is to present small surprises on a date. And don’t think that you can buy a girl’s love. You do not need to shower your beloved with gold. Simple presentations that have been selected specifically for the girl will delight her lover. How not to bother a girl? Present her with unique things that will help the lady feel special. For example, buy a box of tropical butterflies. Opening a beautifully tied gift, the girl will be pleasantly surprised to see motley moths flying out of the box. You can present the lady something made by yourself. For example, a pendant carved from wood or a bracelet woven from leather. A wonderful gift will be the flowers. For a girl, you can choose something exotic and non-trivial. For example, give her a composition of large Dutch plants.
Make nontrivial dates
Impressions - this is what helps lovers to maintain their mutual feelings for a long time. The more pleasant experiences two people have connected with each other, the stronger their connection will be. Where to invite a girl on a date? No need to lead a lady to a good restaurant. There were many similar meetings with the girl. Choose something more interesting. For example, invite your sweetheart to dine on the rooftop. Such a meeting can be organized independently, or you can use the services of agencies that help lovers make life brighter. You can go with a girl on a tour of the night city. Such excursions can be both walking and boat trips. Look for the option that is possible in your city.
Drive out into the nature
What could be more romantic than spending the night under the stars. You will not see the starry sky in the city, so you can take your girlfriend out to the forest for a weekend. Take a tent and a guitar. Make a fire and sing your sweetheart serenade. Positive emotions for the girl will be provided.
You do not know where to invite a girl? Think about which forest or lake you can go to. In order not to be scary or boring, you can invite friends to such an adventure. The forest is large, you will find a place where you can retire with your sweetheart. Well, if it gets boring, you can always join a friendly company of friends.
Find a common hobby
How not to bother your girlfriend? People get bored in each other's society if they do not have common interests. Think about whether you have a common ground with your beloved. Be sure to find them, and if there are no common hobbies, then create. Take an interest in what a girl likes to do at her leisure. If any of her hobbies is close to you, then join her classes. If the lady does nothing, introduce her to your interests. Joint hiking, fishing, playing volleyball or tennis, as well as watching movies and reading books are very close. You will not be bored with each other. In case you cannot devote time to a hobby, you will always have the opportunity to talk about it.
Do not be afraid of separation from your sweetheart
Some guys think that a girl is a property. You can’t treat your beloved in this way. A guy should understand that a girl is a person with her interests, hobbies and outlook on life. The lady has friends with whom she wants to maintain her relationship. In general, the girl’s world does not close on you, and this is normal. Do not forbid the girl to walk and do not be too annoying. How often to call a girl so as not to get bored? It is advisable not more than once a day, or even once every two to three days. Calls should be not only on your part, but also on the part of the girl. Do not be afraid to disappear from the life of your beloved. It is useful for a girl to get nervous and suffer from doubts from time to time in order to understand her feelings and understand her attitude to your person.
Do not forget about romance
Flowers for a girl - this is an occasion once again to make sure that she was not mistaken with the gentleman. If you want to see your beloved in a great mood, give her bouquets not only on holidays, but also for no reason. And also do not forget about romance. At the beginning of the relationship, lovers get ready for dates, tidy themselves up and the apartment, sprinkle rose petals on the floor and place candles on the table. Try not to lose this romance. Cook romantic dinners from time to time. What to cook for a girl? Consider pampering your sweetheart with a new culinary masterpiece or cooking up a girl’s favorite dish. Both that and other option will be a pleasant surprise for the girl.
A couple who has been dating for more than a year may completely stop paying attention to each other. Try not to forget that you have a soul mate. Take her to the cinema, theater and restaurant, give her a massage and arrange pleasant surprises.
Take the time to talk about feelings
Have you been dating recently? Then take your time to make declarations of love. What do girls like most? Beautiful gestures. But your lady of the heart will be shocked if you tell her about your feelings a week after meeting. Therefore, do not fall into love ecstasy and try to think soberly. A hasty admission can scare a girl away and make her overly nervous when meeting you. Most of the mistakes made in the first months of acquaintance, the guy will be forgiven. But remember that not everything can be accepted and forgotten. Therefore, have patience.
Don't be rude
Girls love when men behave insolently. But remember that there is a fine line between permissible rudeness and immoderate disposition. Walking on it is dangerous. Therefore, do not too often show your character and something to forbid your beloved. Refusing to meet, you must argue your decision. If you do not want the girl to go somewhere or do something, then reasonable arguments must also be given. The phrase "I want so" does not work. The lady will decide that she meets with a tyrant and a tyrant.
Do not swear at the girl obscene. A strong word can fly off your lips, but only when it is appropriate. Talking obscenities, you demonstrate your bad manners, not masculinity.