People meet, people fall in love ... Not always unrequited, and not always reciprocated. There is passionate love when the chosen one or the chosen one gives in return the warmth of their soul and heart, and sometimes unhappy love. The latter case is very difficult, since not only the soul, but also the person’s self-esteem suffers greatly. After all, anyone dreams of having tender and mutual love in his life - the psychology in this regard is similar for everyone.
What to do and what to do if unhappy love has come unexpectedly into your life?
Firstly, you need to get rid of it as soon as possible. Why are you worried? For this, psychologists recommend the use of special techniques. Moreover, it is very important to clearly articulate your positive goal and go to it. How to do it? It is advisable to forget all the negative prefixes “not” and as clearly as possible imagine what you want, and not vice versa. That is, do not fixate on what you want to remove from your life. To achieve what you want, imagine the goal of your work on yourself - a self-confident, absolutely free person, before whom there are many opportunities (and the possibility of choosing a sexual partner). One who suffers from his love affection should at least try to remember his feelings before meeting with the object of unrequited love. Unhappy love doesn’t bring anything good to a person’s life, therefore, it makes no sense to keep feelings and try to lure the object of your sigh into separated networks by all means. We must try to get rid of this "addiction."
One who has unhappy love must relive and recall the wonderful feeling of absolute freedom from other people, independence, a sense of self-worth and independence, and also imagine how really cool it is to control your body and soul yourself and not depend on someone’s gaze and phone call. The feeling of the lightness of being that such memories carry, and should play a role for such a person - first a few minutes of happiness, then an hour, day, week, etc. You can imagine how a well-known film director accidentally notices you, offering to play the role of a happy carefree womanizer, who only does what he enjoys life (and girls can imagine themselves in the role of a confident and very sexual bitch who uses men only for their own needs and pleasure).
Imagine, do not hesitate to fantasize and imagine that your film career completely depends on the result of the film test, or in general - your whole subsequent life. Not a single director even needs a penniless miserable, yearning lover, similar to Pierrot from a famous children's fairy tale. This film is made about a happy person, an optimist who looks at the world like an innocent kid at a treasured vase with his favorite ice cream. The main thing is an ardent desire to try on a different image, and almost any person has a little imagination and willpower.
In conclusion, I want to say that it is not at all necessary, if you have unhappy love in your life, to constantly jump on the beds of different people in attempts to forget yourself for dubious pleasures (by the way, you can’t drink at all!). It’s better to remember that there are a lot of people living on our big Earth (and about three billion people of the opposite sex), and this means that you have a chance in life to find your only ideal. New faces, new meetings, new emotions will help to distract from problems and gain interest in life. Take a vacation at work and go somewhere far, far away, where there are definitely no objects or places that could remind you of your previous condition. Perhaps it is there that happy love will find you.