Let's be honest: more than half of all women in the world have never experienced an orgasm. Either experienced, but not the same as described in books. Unlike men, for whom it is immediately noticeably pleasant, whether they are or not, a woman can easily deceive a partner and never admit that the next intercourse brought nothing but disappointment.
In fact, this is sad information, because the beautiful half of humanity simply cannot enjoy sexual contact, turning it into torment and unconsciously lowering its libido. In this article, we will touch upon a topic such as contactless orgasm.
Introduction
Each woman is beautiful in her own way and deserves complete relaxation, pleasure and high. If she does not receive this, then all the accumulated energy is poured into something else, but this feeling of dissatisfaction and inferiority begins to haunt her. From here appear complexes, restraint and lack of desire to ever ever practice all kinds of vicissitudes. Let's find out how to learn contactless orgasm, what it is all about, and why every woman is simply obligated to practice her body throughout her life in order to receive incredible pleasure on a par with men.
What it is
A non-contact orgasm is pleasure without penetration (the entry of a male member into a woman's vagina). However, this term now also means the so-called energetic pleasure, which can be achieved at a distance, letting only the partner into your subconscious. But let's see which of the two types is true and more effective.
Self pleasure
A non-contact orgasm can be obtained if a woman has been training vaginal muscles for a long time. This activity is called Kegel exercises. The essence of the technique is that a woman maintains intimate muscle tone all the time.
The main problem of all women is the inability to get an orgasm. This is affected both by their psychological and emotional state, as well as their physical. Sometimes a girl is able to relax, and tune in to the desired wave, and disconnect from all worldly worries, but the orgasm itself cannot be obtained, because the whole process, as a rule, is very slow and long. This makes the woman nervous, annoying and annoying, so Kegel exercises are simply necessary in this case.
To get a contactless orgasm, a trained girl just needs to squeeze and unclench the muscles of the vagina, thereby regulating her sensations. At the same time, this kind of pleasure should not be confused with masturbation - neither additional toys nor help with hands are used here. Those women who have long been practicing the Kegel classes, note that they are able to give themselves pleasure at any time of the day or night, being at home, at work or even on the bus (in any other crowded place).
Tantric sex
In addition to bodily pleasure, you can also get the so-called energy orgasm. Of course, such a Hindu practice is questionable, because it represents the receipt of incredible sensations at a telepathic level. Is this true or fiction? Is there a contactless orgasm, or as it is also called - tantric sex?
In fact, such a practice is the highest form of intimacy. Not an animal passion, but just getting pleasure through knowing yourself and your partner. Ordinary sex involves intercourse and penetration, and the fact that people began to develop an energy connection is another. Of course, such a practice is to release all the accumulated energy in the process of intimacy, transfer it to a partner, literally connecting you at the highest level.
One of the dubious variations of tantric sex is to have fun without touching each other. In this case, partners can be as close as possible or reside in different cities. The bottom line is that both the man and the woman at one moment begin to immerse themselves in a certain meditation in order to connect at the telepathic level, to penetrate the body of another and deliver incredible sensations.
In fact, such a practice is much more spiritual and deeper than it is described. Someone believes that tantric sex is when patriarchy is established in a family and a woman becomes submissive, and someone believes that you need to open your subconscious and let your partner in there. Confident psychologists even say that with a good desire, you can achieve the first results in just 10 minutes and no more. But how reliable is this information, we will tell a little later.
Kegel exercises
Arnold Kegel was a successful gynecologist of the 20th century. He drew attention to the relaxation of the pelvic muscles, the lack of tone and elasticity of the tissues, so he developed an effective exercise, which was later named after the creator.
How the complex affects the life of a woman:
- Firstly, if you maintain intimate muscles in good condition, it will be much easier for a woman to give birth. The process itself becomes less painful and faster, since the ability to contract and relax tissues allows you to literally push the baby out of the womb.
- Secondly, Kegel exercises can restore sexual life after childbirth, when all tissues lose their tone, become more stretched and flabby.
- Thirdly, the complex prevents the pathology of the pelvic organs, in particular, and omission.
- Fourth, exercises allow you to achieve an incredible orgasm, increase libido and, accordingly, have a beneficial effect on a woman’s mental state.
How to train
There is a popular non-contact orgasm technique based on the famous Kegel exercises. You need to train intimate muscles with the same persistence as you would go to the gym to become the owner of elastic buttocks and a flat tummy. It is not fair that women all over the world ignore this part of the body, looking for a reason in the absence of orgasm only in a man or fictitious physiological pathologies. So how do you train the innermost muscles?
- There is an interesting simulator that is used in exercises. It is a small ball on a rope or a series of such spheres (2-4 pieces). Each toy is different in size and diameter, depending on the success of the woman. Using this “device” is simple: it is enough to wash your hands thoroughly with soap, handle the simulator, insert it into the vagina, and then slowly squeeze the muscles, lingering in a state of tension for 5-10 seconds. The main feature of such a toy is that it will take only 2-3 weeks for the first results to appear. For the development of intimate muscles, you can use different combinations, tensing the muscles with a delay, with interruptions, with great frequency.
- If you do not have a simulator - it does not matter. You can do it in "artisanal" conditions, just in your free time, reducing and relaxing muscles. It is advisable to do exercises every day, for 5-10 minutes. Accustom yourself to train intimate muscles at any time and will be able to do it when you go to school or work, while doing household chores or even in the process of coition. In any case, the technique of non-contact orgasm is to maintain vaginal muscles in good shape.
How to give yourself pleasure
How to get a contactless orgasm without resorting to masturbation and the use of sex toys? First, do Kegel exercises in good conscience every day - and within a month you will feel that muscle contraction and relaxation bring you pleasure. Secondly, relax as much as possible and take a comfortable pose. It is advisable to lie on your back, and bend your legs at the knees. Place a small roller under the basin to lift it. If you find it easier to have fun with your eyes closed, then plunge into the darkness. Begin to slowly squeeze and unclench the muscles of the vagina. Feel how blood circulation improves and excitement captures you. For the sake of sensation, you can caress yourself with your hand, touching the inside of the thighs, chest, abdomen and other erogenous zones, but trying not to touch the clitoris. Your task is to have fun by stimulating only the vaginal muscles and the treasured point G.
Do not be discouraged if the first time you could not feel the orgasm. Try again after a week of training. You should feel your body as much as possible, understand how it works, listening to his requests.
Debunking Myths
Contactless orgasm - true or not? If we talk about getting pleasure through training intimate muscles, then this is a very real truth, backed up by many reviews of women who have practiced and practice Kegel exercises to this day. But an energy orgasm is the same as the existence of psychics, ghosts, or time travel.
It is still impossible to prove the existence of such an energy exchange, since practice itself involves the conversion of all the accumulated light into subtle vibrations that can only be felt by a person with open chakras.
Power of thought
Let's find out how a non-contact orgasm is made using energy redirection. You can tune in to the right wave not in a fit of sudden passion, but through a deep sense of love and tenderness. Attraction to a partner should be on a spiritual level, when even a hug makes you feel as if a fire broke out in your chest.
The meaning of Tantra is to direct all sexual energy to human development, to eradicate animal instincts, which practically do not distinguish us from other creatures on the planet. It is believed that an energy orgasm is enlightenment and spiritual development, a new step in evolution. In this case, it is erroneous to believe that such a pleasure in feelings should be similar to ordinary animal intercourse.
What sensations should tantric sex cause?
You do not recognize completeness in the process of coitus, as is commonly believed. There will be no such tides and bright physiological bursts, but the fact that you can open the doors to your subconscious is for sure.
Numerous reviews prove that a contactless female orgasm at the energy level gives a feeling of lightness and flight. This can only be compared with meditation and immersion, a departure from all worldly concerns. Energy orgasm is the wrong name. It is better to give this sensation a term - the energy growth of consciousness, which gives an incredible sense of pleasure.
Best method
A contactless orgasm can be obtained only after both partners have mentally prepared for a new experience. It is important to understand that this is not quite a habitual intercourse, so men or women may begin to be shy, losing confidence in each other. The main feature of this practice is that partners should not wait for the cherished result, but completely immerse themselves in the process, because it is on it that the methodology is focused.
Learning tantric sex is best in a comfortable environment. It is not necessary to do this at home, it is possible in nature, and rent a good hotel room. The environment should be at your disposal for a new experience, so do not be afraid to use oriental incense sticks, patchouli and ylang-ylang essential oils, candles, soft pillows and base oils (grape seed, peach, olive).
How to prepare mentally
Tantric sex is a very capricious technique, so it is very important to completely relax and avoid an uncomfortable state. If you are constrained and prone to embarrassment, then it will be almost impossible to get an energy orgasm.
Tantra itself is a slow and deep process, so it is recommended to start while in clothes. Everything should happen smoothly, do not forget about light kisses, slow undressing, languid breathing. At this moment it is important to feel what you are feeling - touch, warmth inside, pleasant excitement, palpitations. Do not focus on stimulating the most erogenous zones!
Easy practice
Want to experience an energy orgasm? Connect all your senses, especially tactile sensations. Put your hand on your partner’s chest, hear his heart beating. Try adjusting your breathing at the same pace without accelerating or slowing each other down.
Do not lose eye contact, hug each other, as if you are trying to penetrate the body of your partner and touch the most hidden corners of the soul. Massage the body, but not only the erogenous zones, as this is not sexual stimulation. You should not strive to get a physical orgasm, but just enjoy and feel the energy of your partner. After this practice, sex may be, but it is not necessary. The main thing here is that you will enjoy the process itself and sensuality, reveal your feminine and masculine principles.