In the recent past, a mailbox hanging in the porch or on the door of a house was an integral part of everyday life and was often associated with a surprise. You’re wondering what’s inside this time ... Maybe a letter from a friend? What if the love message from that boy? Those letters ... They were as if alive. Warm paper, random or carefully selected envelope, familiar handwriting, as a piece of the sender’s soul, as a gift to its addressee. And now nothing has changed, we are still waiting for news and notes from dear and beloved.
To compose and write love messages to a loved one in the old fashioned way, with a pen on paper is a slightly forgotten kind of creativity. Modern software applications for messaging by phone and on the Web offer a wide choice for all sorts of interpersonal communication. Nevertheless, for the adherents of the classics, the good old letter of the paper format is more suitable, which can be carried with you and re-read many times.
Where to begin?
The idea came to write a love message - that means a start has been made. Which paper to use? Any. You can take the usual white, color, beautiful blank, ready-made drawing of a suitable theme or a picture created by your own hands, the main thing is that the color scheme has pleasant shades and pleases the eye. The ink or paste in the pen should match the color of the selected paper to make it look beautiful.
Volume, style, spelling
Whether a love message reaches the goal that the author pursues depends on several important points. A tiny letter will not make a serious impression, and too long risks being unread to the end. One, maximum two sheets of A4 format is a perfectly suitable amount. The style of the message must be taken with all seriousness, because it, as in a mirror, reflects the character and intentions of the writer. Too complex syllable, teeming with metaphors, looks rather pathetic.
An overly “clumsy” style of presentation is also undesirable, similar to the straightforward “no rules” style, often used to communicate on the Internet, as it can create a negative impression or cause laughter in the recipient. The golden mean is the natural presentation of your thoughts in a conversational style, the absence of grammatical errors and the correct construction of sentences. If literacy is difficult, numerous resources on the Internet will help, including those aimed at checking spelling.
Message to the chosen one
You should start by addressing by name to your lover. Then you should introduce yourself, write something about yourself. What exactly to tell depends on the proximity of the acquaintance between the author and the recipient. If you are well acquainted, then writing about yourself is not necessary; in other cases, you can literally briefly describe your hobbies and life principles. Further it is advisable to write about:
- how and when the meeting occurred, after which a feeling flared up;
- how did you decide to write a message;
- what exactly attracted the chosen one, and what features in him delight;
- what intentions does the author have and what offers, for example, can be said about the hope of a reply letter or even a personal meeting, and this will complete the message.
Message to Spouse
Perhaps a quarrel has occurred, the relationship is broken, the heart is heavy. Or everything seems to be in order, but the freshness of feelings is lost, the former interest in each other remained only in memories. In this case, a love letter will help to maintain or revive the former connection. In a letter to the missus, it makes no sense to write that he already knows, for example, about his hobbies. But to name a spouse by name is quite appropriate, for the beginning of the letter, such words as “dear”, “dear” or “beloved” are also suitable.
If a conflict has occurred and you want to improve relations, it is best to write about your chagrin and your own contribution to the quarrel that has occurred (you should not blame your spouse). You also need to communicate your desire to make peace and do not forget to apologize. It will be useful to emphasize all those qualities of a life partner that have always been expensive and especially liked.
Marriage is many years old, and household worries replaced all romance from relationships? This happens, a love message will help revive fading feelings. It will be good to remember the first meeting, about gentle kisses and declarations of love. Further, we can mention how much has happened over the past years and emphasize that feelings are alive, and that the spouse is still the most beloved and desired person in the world. An offer of a romantic dinner or a joint trip (only for two) will organically complete the love letter.
New technologies
A modern love message to a guy or a girl can be done using a text program, it will not take much time. Advanced users will be able to create an interesting letter in a graphical editor or even mount a small video clip. A mini-film invented by my wife using home photo and video archives is a wonderful love message to her husband and also a pleasant surprise.
The main thing is to put yourself in the message of the present. True experiences will certainly be heard, and it doesn’t matter what package they are in. Sincerity and lively feelings make love messages valuable. A loved one will certainly like your letter, and even if he cannot reciprocate, in his heart “forget-me-nots will blossom”.