The farther the progress goes, the more obsolete the methods of acquaintance and communication of people. Now few people begin their relationship in a park, cafe or theater. The Internet has reached the podium, whose network is spread all over the world, entangling everyone who wants to find happiness in their personal lives with virtual tentacles. In this reality, it is much easier for the majority to communicate than in the real world. Indeed, in virtual life there are no awkward pauses in conversation. You can always say that you were away on business or talking on a phone that suddenly rang. With a lack of eloquence, many borrow phrases in the same network. Therefore, communication on the Internet can be called the most comfortable. But here there are subtleties.
To begin with, it is still worthwhile to make sure of your own literacy and ability to express thoughts in writing. After all, there are such people who are easier said than clothed words in a story. Unfortunately, too little attention is being paid to literacy. But some users categorically do not want to communicate if a person makes five mistakes in one simple word. Therefore, in order not to appear in a negative light, one should first of all take care of the presence of at least the primary and most basic knowledge of the Russian language.
Communication on the Internet in real time still requires a good reaction and the ability to quickly express yourself without thinking for a long time about every word. Otherwise, the interlocutor will simply become bored with having a conversation with you, and he will disappear under any pretext. If it is a desire to get to know each other, then think about the dialogue in advance if possible. At least some of his key points. It would be nice to first inquire about the interests, hobbies and tastes of the interlocutor. Then there will be much more common topics, and the conversation will go easily and naturally.
Communicating with a girl on the Internet requires sufficient skill. You must be polite and not rude, even if it seems to you that a person is frankly saying something not too smart. The fact is that the inability to convey emotional coloring in such a dialogue often hinders the correct presentation of thoughts. Consequently, the interlocutor could well have in mind something other than what you understood. Therefore, do not rush to draw any specific conclusions without talking to a person in real life.
If you chose communication on the Internet for your acquaintance, it would be nice to first look for joint acquaintances with the interlocutor. After all, you need to somehow justify the interest in his account. The network is big. Surely the interlocutor will ask why you chose him for the conversation. And in this case it is better to say something pleasant. If you have no mutual friends, then why not directly admit sympathy? Indeed, a person probably has at least one photograph. Compliment the look. This will be the beginning of a pleasant conversation.
You should not start communicating on the Internet if you absolutely do not know how to maintain a dialogue. It is extremely important here to constantly maintain the interlocutor's interest in his personality so that he does not disappear on the expanses of the world wide web. And if after the duty phrase “Hello. How are you?" if you can’t squeeze anything out of yourself, such an acquaintance will become completely empty and useless. Keep in mind that all people are different and speak differently. Therefore, you should not tune in to a high-profile conversation with a representative of a club party. In turn, an educated and cultural person will not support a dialogue saturated with profanity.
No matter how interesting and fascinating communication on the Internet may be, do not forget about the existence of the real world. It is also full of amazing things and breathtaking events. Take a look around. Near you is always a great many interesting interlocutors. And in the end, you will have to live with a person right here, and not on the Internet. Learn to make contacts in reality.