Everyone dreams of love, especially beautiful people. But it happens that a married man fell in love with a woman. And then many women are lost and do not know how to behave properly and what to do in such cases. After all, a married man can also bring happiness to some kind of female destiny. Yes, and men have the right to be happy, and marriage can only be a simple formality or mistake that was once made in youth. The love of a unfree man can be manifested in different ways. And also pursue different goals. Therefore, a woman should be prepared for the fact that one day she will exclaim: “What to do, a married man has fallen in love with me!”
Signs of male love
Understanding that a representative of a strong half of humanity is seriously sympathetic is sometimes very difficult. To do this, you should take a closer look at it. There are signs by which it will be possible to determine that a man shows interest in a woman:
- Often men to the object of their feelings are very restrained, and sometimes they also show coldness.
- He tries to participate in the life of a woman, helps her.
- Constant "random" meetings.
It turns out that sometimes a married man himself falls in love and does not know how to behave, since he is not free. And this means that he must be very careful, to avoid any exposure. Therefore, even providing assistance, he will not act directly. This is to prevent his wife or someone else from learning about his feelings.
Because of such a fear of being revealed, a married man cannot openly invite a woman on a date, so he will try to organize unexpected and “random” meetings. In order to avoid any suspicion, such meetings will usually take place in the circle of friends, colleagues or acquaintances. If a married man falls in love, signs of such behavior will be suppressed by children or his wife, so their manifestation can be carefully hidden.
How should a woman behave?
When a woman suddenly says clearly in her subconscious mind: “A married man has fallen in love with me”, then a problem immediately arises with how she should behave. The object of sighing is especially nothing to rejoice because most often such love brings only only suffering and problems.
Based on statistical data, as well as on the life experience of many women who have been in a similar situation, it can be affirmatively said that men rarely leave their families. Satisfying their sexual needs, they return back to where life is already settled, and therefore it is so comfortable, stable, cozy and warm.
But if, nevertheless, he has been holding nothing in marriage for a long time, if a married man has fallen in love and is tormented, then he can in fact forever go to his new lover. If she is not married.
How to determine that he is in love?
When a woman meets a man who is married, then usually she asks the question: "Did a married man fall in love with me or just use it?". If he loves, then the seriousness of his intentions will certainly show. If he is not going to build a long and serious relationship, then this can be determined by his behavior.
A married man always tries to avoid talking with a new lover about how they will continue to build their life together. At the same time, he will also forbid the woman herself to talk about these relationships, which are usually accompanied by a large number of gifts, but there will be not so much attention from him. Usually, lovers always have some common dates that they celebrate together, and they usually spend all the holidays together. With a non-free person this will not be all.
If the question is whether a married man really fell in love or not, then you should pay attention to how he tries to break off relations with his wife. If this does not happen, then you should get away from such a person, since there is no love. Most often, such a relationship can last a long time, but in the end he will still remain with his family. To justify this behavior, men give such arguments:
- The wife is ill, and he cannot leave her in such a situation.
- You need to wait until the children grow up.
When they leave the family
When a married man falls in love with another woman, he can leave the family, if there are good reasons for this. Most often the family is abandoned by those representatives of the stronger sex who have reached the age of forty. It is believed that the fortieth anniversary for a man is the line at which he is experiencing a crisis and sums up the half of his life that he has already lived. It happens that a man does not like life at all, and then he decides to change everything around.
When a man decides to change his life, he changes not only his work and appearance, but also his friends and family. Such representatives of the stronger sex are often spoken of: "gray hair in a beard, a demon in a rib." Men are owners, and falling in love, they will certainly wish to tell the whole world that this woman belongs to them. But for this they must be free. Therefore, if a married man falls in love with another woman, then he will break off relations with his wife.
Cheated wives
When a woman finds out that her husband has fallen out of love, she is lost and does not know what to do now. But here it is worth doing the opposite, that is, no need to get lost. First of all, you should still make sure that a married man has fallen in love, signs of which should be manifested in his behavior. After all, no matter how the husband tries to hide his feelings for another woman, the wife will still soon feel the changes that are happening to him.
It is known that usually spouses who have been living together for a long time have perfectly studied each other's behavior, so they immediately notice any changes in the behavior of their other half. Moreover, when the spouse feels serious sympathy for another, then not only his behavior, but also his mood changes.
If a married man falls in love with a married woman, signs will help determine this. So, already between spouses there will be no sexual relations. He will always find a reason to just sleep. For example, he may say that tomorrow they may pay attention to each other, or that he is very tired, or that his head suddenly begins to hurt.
A sign that a married man has fallen in love with a young woman is the use of a good perfume. Also unexpectedly, the spouse begins to carefully monitor his appearance: changes the style of clothing, can go in for sports and even make a fashionable haircut. But still, the main sign of a man’s love is the phone, which is constantly with him, as if he was afraid to let him out of his hands.
Sometimes a spouse, realizing that he is to blame for his former beloved, can avoid any contact with her or, on the contrary, he tries to surround him with even greater care.
You can often see women who start their messages on the Internet with the words: “A married man has fallen in love with me, but I don’t know what to do.” But even in a more incomprehensible situation, there is a wife who is being deceived and she does not know what to do now: to remain silent and reconcile, pretending that nothing is happening, or still destroy the family and divorce the unfaithful.
It is advisable that the spouses can easily talk to each other and find out what all the same both want. According to psychology, to understand that a married man fell in love with a married woman is not difficult, it is more difficult to understand why he needs it. Indeed, most often this is only a passing hobby, since from his wife during this period he received insufficient attention. If, however, this is a real feeling, then you should decide how the spouses will continue to live. Maybe, after all, they would be better off.
Novel at work
Office romances are often found in modern life. Often at work it happens that a married man falls in love with a married woman, since he spends a lot of time with her, as with a colleague. A beautiful lady can immediately guess that the representative of the stronger sex fell in love with her on many grounds. For example, he can bring her coffee, accidentally touches or even offers a ride home.
Such an affair with a co-worker is also convenient because everything looks decent to everyone. The wife will see her husband, who calmly arrives at work on time, and there will be no hint that anyone else is interested in him. Of course, there are some "symptoms" by which it can be determined that a married man fell in love with a married woman, the signs in this case will be more masked. But an attentive wife will be able to solve them.
Office novels have their bonuses:
- Intrigues with colleagues at work make a man always in good shape.
- Such a representative of the stronger sex will monitor their appearance.
- If a man has an affair with a boss, then there is the prospect of career growth.
- A romance at work allows a lover to spend a lot of time with a woman he likes. This allows him to know everything about her.
- It is known that the general always brings together.
- A man who wants to show his love, but can not do it, heats up his emotions to the limit.
The only disadvantage of such a relationship at work is that when love passes, it is already more difficult to build a relationship with such a woman at work. This can even lead to hatred.
If a woman is married
It also happens that when both partners are not free, then feelings can suddenly flare up between them. Explaining why a married man falls in love with another woman who is also married is not easy. Most often, such relationships are accompanied by correspondence on the Internet. They will rarely meet, and there will not be many gifts, since this is unsafe.
It is known that a married man and a married woman are well aware that their relationship will not last long, so they carefully hide their feelings. It is believed that a married man still prefers a relationship with a married lady, since she always knows what she wants and will not demand much from him. The main reason why a married woman needs such a relationship lies in her tiredness from a constant life that deprives her of joy in life. In addition, such relationships on the side help her to diversify her sex life a little.
Such a woman will not demand constant attention from a man and will even calmly react to the fact that he will be late for a meeting or will not come at all. She will never cause scandals, and she does not need gifts.
Types of unfree representatives of the strong half
Can a married man fall in love with another woman? In the modern world, this question has long received an affirmative answer, since mores have changed a bit and become more liberated. From how a man who is officially married will behave with a woman to whom he has feelings, you can determine what type of men he belongs to. Today, there are three types of behavior of men with women in whom they fall in love outside of marriage:
- Good family man.
- Complainant.
- Casanova.
Let us dwell on each. So, the man is a "Good family man." For a long time he will try to drown in himself feelings for another woman. Often these men are very careful. Their behavior in public places seems just perfect for a married man. He will also cautiously and carefully treat the woman’s feelings if she reciprocates. But here, most likely, he will never be able to leave the family.
To understand that a married man of this type will never leave the family, you need to look at his behavior. The main features will be the following:
- A man forbids him to call and send messages to the phone.
- If he answers the call, he speaks in a whisper, and often drops it.
- Trying not to talk about future plans.
- Very attached to his children.
- Easily agrees with everything, but takes no action.
- It forbids a woman to talk about herself or their relationship with her friends and relatives.
- Does not accept gifts.
- At meetings, he often deceives and behaves nervously.
If the first type of unfaithful men seems just perfect, then the male “complainer” will constantly complain about his wife, who annoys him greatly. But such men will soon begin to get annoyed with their new lover and criticize all her habits and behavior. Usually, wives themselves divorce these men with pleasure, having endured them even for more than twenty years. Moreover, the separation will not be easy, but most likely will be accompanied by a scandal.
You should not build your woman a relationship with a man whose behavior is so characterized by the following features:
- A sharp reaction to any woman’s mistakes.
- If a woman says that she lacks care and attention from him, he will try to give her something to get away from this unpleasant conversation.
- A lover for such a man becomes property.
- He always easily makes promises that he will divorce his wife, but does not fulfill them.
- Constantly comparing with his wife.
- Most often, he does not care about his children and even considers them an obstacle and a burden.
Relations with the Casanova man will develop rapidly and rapidly. He is not shy about anything, trying to approach a woman so that they quickly have a sexual relationship. He is not afraid to look after his mistress in crowded places. It is easiest to persuade him to leave the family, but such a man’s new marriage usually does not last long, since he will soon have a new romance. It is simply impossible to tame such a man, as he will always seek outside entertainment.
The main reasons for cheating
Women often think about whether a married man can fall in love with another. Usually a man in love behaves just like a boy and, trying to find entertainment on the side, forgets about his wife. If this happens, then one of these reasons can serve this:
- Sexual dissatisfaction.
- Tired of life and constancy. A man wants to get new emotions, impressions and slightly change everyday life.
- If the wife does not understand her husband.
- True sympathy for another woman.
- New thrills required.
- The new lady of the heart increases his self-esteem.
Therefore, a wife who wants to save a marriage should understand what nevertheless became the reason for her husband’s betrayal, and then try to eliminate all these shortcomings.
How to build relationships with a non-free person?
Once a married man falls in love with a married woman, such a relationship becomes a secret. But if the object of love of the representative of the stronger sex is free, then the person must competently and correctly build her relationship with him, so that in the future she will no longer be a lover, but a wife.
First of all, such a woman should not pretend that relations with a married man bring her pleasure, if all the same it is not. It is worth taking pleasure in the relationship that has arisen, then they will be so sincere that no man can resist it. After all, a man is already on the verge. So, the wife presses on him, he feels his guilt before her and the children, and the public also condemns him.
Own conscience does not give rest to a man, so he so keenly feels and reacts to the coldness and insincerity of the woman he loved. If he feels such an attitude towards himself, he will refuse such a sudden love for another woman. It is known that a married man needs a lover to get positive emotions, but he usually has enough unpleasant emotions and situations in the family with his wife.
It is wrong if a lover complains to such a man about problems in her family, about her hardships and difficulties. After all, this man, who is married, already has a woman who can not cope with her tasks and also constantly complains to him and talks about problems. In addition, a married man will always have more compassion for his wife than for his mistress, since she is closer to him, dearer.
A married man should never throw tantrums, scandals, make demands and whims. It is not necessary to perform any manipulations so that this man helps to improve his financial situation. – . . , , .
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Not always a man, leaving his wife and children, goes to his mistress. More often than not, he tries to find another woman and forget about what happened before in his life.