Women in relationships are very suspicious and restless. In every little thing they see a problem and alarming signs. For example, many people panic about the question of why a man does not answer messages and calls. Is it worth it to worry about this? What are the possible causes of this?
Phone problems
The first thing that should come to mind when thinking about why a man does not respond to messages is problems with the phone. The mobile could simply discharge or remain out of sight (hearing) of the owner. In the end, gadgets tend to fail, fall, sink, and so on. And of course, you should not write off attackers who are greedy for other people's smartphones.
Thus, before you wind yourself up, think about the objective reasons for the silence and wait a few hours. This is a common everyday situation that can happen to everyone (including you).
Employment
If you are trying to contact the gentleman during working hours, it is foolish to be surprised and perplexed why a man does not answer messages and calls. A man is a getter, so it’s foolish to reproach him for preferring work with you. In addition, some professions require full concentration (doctor, accountant, etc.) or even refusal to use the phone during the performance of official duties (for example, a lifeguard). Therefore, you must respect the employment of your gentleman.
If your lover has a day off, maybe he just met with a friend. Agree, it's not very decent to chat on the phone or write SMS during live communication. In the end, he could just be in the bathroom. Before you panic, just think about how many times there are times in your life when you are completely uncomfortable chatting or chatting on the phone.
Lack of interest
If a man does not answer messages and calls for a long time, this may be an occasion to think seriously (especially if you have met recently). It is possible that he is not interested in you. Unfortunately, not all people are considerate and well-educated enough to politely explain the situation and, without offending, refuse to communicate. Many simply prefer to ignore persistent ladies.
You can never dismiss this disappointing option. However, you should have self-esteem. Stop calling the man and throw him messages. By this you not only annoy him, but also expose yourself in an unsightly light.
Frivolous attitude
A common reason why a man does not respond to messages is banal frivolity. The fact is that the stronger sex is a much simpler people than women. A man can read the message and forget about it for several hours without writing even a short answer. Exactly until he has the mood and the desire to chat with you. Unfortunately, some gentlemen sincerely do not understand the feelings of women who can spend hours “hypnotizing” their phone, tormented by the expectation of an answer.
Resentment
They say that women are often offended by trifles. Nevertheless, in matters of resentment, the stronger sex can give odds to the ladies. Often for this reason, men do not respond to messages and calls from their halves. In this case, it remains only to wait until your lover departs from the conflict and calms down. Yes, and you will have time to analyze the situation and draw conclusions from it for the future.
Misunderstanding
If you don’t understand why the man doesn’t immediately reply to the message, try to carefully read it again. The fact is that in a fit of emotion a woman can compose something so thoughtful and confusing that a representative of the stronger sex (whose thinking is arranged a little differently) simply does not understand what exactly you want. Of course, you can ask a clarifying question, but some people prefer to ignore what they cannot decrypt.
If you, having read the SMS text, found it too ornate, try to duplicate the message, but it is already somewhat shorter and in a simplified form.
Inexpediency
If you are concerned that a former man is not responding to messages, consider whether your further communication is advisable. Perhaps the gentleman decided not. And it may not be at all offense or neglect. It is possible that he already has a new lover and he fears that correspondence with the former may become a reason for jealousy and conflict.
How to respond to silence
What should be the reaction of a woman if a man does not immediately respond to messages and calls (or does not answer at all)? You definitely should not flog a fever, take offense and blame the gentleman for all mortal sins. Here are some recommendations to heed:
- Analyze the history of messages and calls. How often do you write or call a man? How often does the initiative come from you? It is possible that you are too persistent and even intrusive. This is unpleasant for some men, and it just scares some.
- Carefully think over what to write, re-read the message several times before sending. An incoherent or too emotional stream of words is not the best option to start a conversation. Even if you are too excited or angry, try to state your thoughts briefly and clearly. Although if a man ignores obscure messages, not trying to clarify their meaning or rest you, think about it. Perhaps he does not take you seriously.
- Do not rush to conclusions. When your gentleman still gets in touch, you should not attack him with accusations. Calmly and politely try to find out the reason for his silence, motivating with excitement. Perhaps such behavior does have an objective explanation that removes all blame from the “defendant”.
- Call back. A short message signal can simply not be heard if the phone is in your pocket, bag or other room. Perhaps, instead of languishing in anticipation of an answer, you just need to call.
- Try to make amends. If the reason for the silence of your gentleman is a quarrel, consider whether your fault is in this situation. It may be worth putting aside pride and principles, asking forgiveness for the words spoken in haste.
Conclusion
Of course, every woman wants love and romance, and therefore, having met her prince, she tries to surround him with care and attention (which in the modern world finds expression, in particular, in calls and SMS). But do not forget that this desire should be mutual. If you constantly initiate communication, if a man often and for no apparent reason ignores your messages and calls, this is an occasion to think. To think about whether he is interested in you. Have the wisdom and pride not to be imposed on a person who does not want to communicate with you or takes your attention for granted.